Comment: Update: 9/13 2018. I’m not sure what “second” card you speak of. There is no postmark date on your letter so I have no idea when this was originally sent. 9/12/2018 _ recived your ATC. its beautiful thank you. Messaged you on 8/25 to resend. It’s now sept 7 and still not received. Will change to 3 if I receive.

Comment: **08/15 PM- Updating this rating to a 3 since I have received your swap. Thank you very much for the constructive and thoughtful comments- much appreciated!** 08/15 AM I hate to rate a 1 in any scenario, but especially in an electronic swap. I reached out via PM on August 6th indicating, "Noticed you marked sent on Aug 1st. I don't have any comments from you on my blog. I've sorted through all notifications right in my blog and emails indicating I have new comments." This message remains unread, and you were last online more than a week ago. IF you follow through with the swap, I will re-rate to a 3.

Comment: 05/16 swap send deadline; 06/03 I sent email letting you know I never received; 06/05 you reply stating you will "resend" right away; 06/19 I send 2nd email saying I still never got anything; 06/22 you reply apologizing stating you thought you had resent but that you would do so right away; 07/10 received - With that being said, the memorydex you made is beautiful. I love the background as well as the beautiful memories you included. Also, thank you for the extras. They are really nice and usable things. I would have happily changed the rating to a 5 had you resent after the first email on 06/05. Unfortunately, I can't rate a 5 because all in all I received almost 2 months after deadline.

Comment: This was super late and it spent so long in your husband’s car that the envelope tore open and someone used it as a garbage. My usual joy of opening a swap was muted by gobs of used chewing gum. DO NOT TRUST YOUR HUSBAND WITH A SWAP AGAIN!! Never mind that it took you two tries to get this in the mail. After the first time it might have been a good idea to be super careful it actually made it to the mail. It also meant I missed the next round. After all that, it is a cute page. Along with the extras, this would have been a 5 and probably a heart.

Comment: Heather, Thank you. I received today and the reason I rating 3 because of late. You are doing great with dog deco. :)

Comment: Added on 12/13/15: Thank you for getting in touch and trying to make this up! Per your message, the swap host has passed on a re-send. Have a great week :). Original message: I hope you feel better soon. This was angeled by the swap host. If you ever want to change this to a 3, just message me and send your ATC to the host. Hang in there.

Comment: 1. You sent 16 days late. While you did message me, the fact that you were the host of this swap, sending late because of lack of money is unacceptable. If you did not have the money to send out a journal, why then did you host the swap? 2. You completed a single page in the journal you sent. You were to complete a 2-page spread as all the previous swappers had done. This swapper sent this HORRIBLE message to me! Please notice the differences in the dates: 2015 and now 2018. Messages Date: Nov 11, 2018 Status: read From: heatherkm Subject: Paradise lost I want to scream. I want to scream and yell so loud that it hurts your ears. I doubt you’d feel anything tho. You’re clearly a horrible bully who feeds off the pain of others because you feel bad. Such delusion and ignorance is yours. My entire town burned down 3 days ago. I have nothing and I want to turn all the searing pain of my family and I thinking for sure we were going to burn alive for hours and now for the nothing we’re left with on you and all the other bully women on this god forsaken website. I don’t know how the founders of swapbot would or could ever allow such awfulness as women bullying others cuz they suck so bad. I am so angry. I hate you. I hate you. You and other haters have made me feel so bad so many times. And for what? Because what could have been a crappy piece of art showed up at your house a week late. Maybe I should feel flattered that my art meant so much to you but I know better. I know you people were just waiting for an oppurtunities to inflict pain on another human being. Sorry you feel so bad about yourself you felt you needed to do that. My life hasn’t been an easy one. Ive suffered from severe mental illness for 20 years,. I’ve lost a son, been wrongfully accused of a crime because I’m prescribed medication for my illnesses and sent to days in jail for it - and that one was just 3 months ago. I’ve been locked in mental institutions against my will thinking my family was just giving up on me. And I battle every morning with the thoughts that the day could be a bad one. A day not worth living. And do I’m sorry I’m not your perfect swapper. I’m sorry that people who don’t have it easy don’t fit into your perfect little world. You suck. You must be a horrible teacher. I feel sorry for the kids who have to learn whatever lessons you teach them about how to be awful to people.

Comment: This swap was for a vintage pocket letter and you did not send one. what you did send was late and that might not have gotten you a 3, however your attitude towards me and your refusal to fix this is what got the 3. You have refused to answer my messages to you as well as refused to answer the coodinator's messages to you about this swap. I do not understand why you have been this way with me as I did nothing to deserve this. It feels the same as being flaked on to me as i did not get the swap i joined from you.

Comment: Thanks for the lovely page - I'd be rating a 5 if it had been sent on time.

Comment: Swap deadline was August ,.. never received a message or the ATC. -------------- Thank you for messaging me and resending a colourful bird. I appreaciate the effort to make up a swap that's been closed for so long!!

Comment: 09/28/15 :: Thank you for the ATC and for honoring the swap. 10/06/14 :: I have received nothing yet for this swap that had a deadline of 08/18. I got a PM on 08/20 with a promise the ATC would be sent out on approx. 08/22. There has been no communication since, despite the face she was online on 09/19. I've sent another PM as of today, and will change my rating to a "3" if I should get receive anything.

Comment: Swap hasn´t been sent and is still on the sender´s dashboard. Heather, I am honestly sorry to give you a one, becouse I remember you sent me a very lovely and thoughtful swap once. Ireally hope everything is OK with you. I´ll of course re-rate when I receive. Best wishes to you and your family, Betty///EDIT: Received on 5thJune2014 Thanks a lot for the lovely envie and I really appreciate that you made good on this :). I really hope you´re better, best wishes, Betty

Comment: May 31 - Thank you for creating and sending the ATC! It came in today's mail and was a nice surprise. I'm glad to hear things are better for you and I hope they continue to go well! :-) // March 3 - I haven't received this swap yet, and I see that you haven't logged on swap-bot since January. This seems out of sorts and I do hope everything is okay.

Comment: Contacted you as did the host of this swap and got no response so have no choice but to leave this rating.

Comment: Heather, you have made up for the lateness with a beautiful journal page. Thank you so much for fulfilling this swap, especially at this time in your life. I am sorry I can't give you a 5, but the rules dictate that I rate you a 3 because it was late. I do understand and I hope you continue to heal both physically and emotionally. Bless you.

Comment: Swap was due by July 2. You clicked sent on June 25th but the metered postage strip clearly reads a postmark date of July 7th. If you had messaged me to let me know you were going to be late I would've been completely understanding.