Swap-bot Time: March 28, 2024 7:37 pm
www.swap-bot.com

Threes ratings for mariaelisabeth

Use the controls to the right to show only the ratings you are interested in.

paraxparaxnoia rated for Iloa päivääsi on Apr 22, 2016
3
rating
Comment: Maria, I got your package yesterday and I absolutely love everything you sent! This is all so much more than what the swap asked for and I’m very lucky to receive this :) however, and as I’ve told you, I have to rate you a 3 for this. The deadline, which was already extended by 2 weeks almost, was April 7th and you disappeared on the 8th, not contacting me or the host. I finally tracked you down from Instagram where you had been posting in between the 8th and 15th. I sent you a message and you replied the next day with an explanation and then sent on 18th but it was 11 days late and you made no effort to let me know. I know life’s a bitch sometimes and I sympathize for you but I must also say I was shocked to get your rather rude message here on SB. We had worked this out, everything was ok but then you sent me a finger pointing message about how I’m an awful person because I don’t understand your illness. I say this now, you yourself don’t know other people’s circumstances so don’t go accusing the other party either :( with all this, I am really over the moon happy about what you sent, but I can’t rate a 5, I’m sorry. I hope you’ll get to work things out, take care.
Response: I did not once talk unfairly about you or call you anything (your eg. an awful person) in my message. My message said nothing about you. Copied and pasted for proof: "" Judging me for sending late - fine, I can deal with that. But as you don't know me as a person you have no right to make assumptions. Sometimes I'm too depressed to even get out of bed, but that doesn't make me incapable of uploading a picture of my cat to instagram. Sometimes I literally wake up, go to work, go home and go straight to bed; but I can still snap a selfie on my way home because my make-up looks good that day. While in Umeå I wanted to keep my family and friends updated and assure them that I was having a good time. Sending your daughter to another country when you know she is struggling with both her mood and eating habits is hard. Don't assume that I am just having a great time and choosing not to log onto swap-bot when I'm having troubles getting out of bed in the morning. I logged onto swap bot and was too overwhelmed so I logged out straight away. Whoops. The email sent to me was in Finnish. When it's overwhelming to even look at my text messages I have to choose what I put my energy on. I try to prioritise making my day to day life work these days. I told you to rate me a 3, I agree that that is completely fair. I should've messaged you earlier. But don't make me look like a bad person because I'm not. Looking at my profile it's obvious that I have never flaked on a swap and that my swap partners enjoy what I send them. Your package should arrive by tomorrow. Proof is on instagram.""
3
rating
Comment: Thank you for the pretty PL! It's my first ever woodland themed PL, and I love it. :) I'm rating you a '3' because this swap was sent late without communication, and in no way reflects the quality of the received swap. If this was not sent late (or if you told me it would be mailed out late), I would have rated a '5' and a heart. (ETA 10-01-2016: The deadline for the swap was the 11th, you marked it as sent on the 13th. As I am not psychic and can not read minds, I have to go with the physical evidence. If you did indeed send the swap out on the 11th, I would strongly advise you being more diligent about marking swaps as sent to avoid confusion. If you feel this rating is unfair, you can take up the issue with SB Admin. If they agree with you, then I am willing to change my rating.)
Response: I always do follow rules on swap-bot and I always let my swap-partners know if I will be sending late, even if it is just one or two days. I was sending out my swaps in bundles in early December, so maybe I forgot to mark the item as sent on time. I'm not sure. I do however know that I would have messaged you if it had been late. Had the swap not been sent on time it wouldn't have arrived before Christmas, I'm pretty sure. Had you been there to receive it when it got to you you wouldn't even have been able to rate a 3, as that rating only becomes available after two weeks. If my swap had reached you just now I would've understood your rating but as it got to you well on time I don't think it's fair. If there is anything I can do to make you change the rating, let me know. (ETA Jan 24, 2016: I have contacted the SB admin a while ago and I'm waiting for a reply)

Rating Overview

Overall Hearts Stars Hosted
4.9130 256 18 19
Completed Fives Threes Ones
205 314 2 6
Type 1 Type 2 Type 3 Uncategorized
36 28 141 0

Show only: