Gail- I am so sorry to hear of your Mothers Passing- i also lost my mom quite unexpectadly 10 years ago-I thought I would go out of my mind trying to remember all those things I thought I needed to remember but didnt really matter. Hugs to you and your family.

Hosting swaps and not even bothering to get online? Not good ratings either. Best to cancel those swaps till you can get your swap ratings fixed.