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dearlybeloved

dearlybeloved
Date Joined: January 22, 2009
Last Online: November 22, 2009

Country: USA
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hips like cinderella.net

About Me

My job sucks up a ton of my time. I still send out swaps in a timely manner, but my responses to comments will be delayed... I promise I will get to them as I usually do them in batches!

I send ALL of my packages with Delivery Confirmation (US) or with a Certificate of Mailing (international). Delivery Confirmation shows when the package was delivered, and a Certificate of Mailing is a certificate that indicates a parcel has been mailed and validated by the post office. ALL of my swaps are sent out with some sort of proof of mailing. I keep in good contact, and you will hear from me when your stuff is mailed!

I reuse packaging supplies. I would love it if you would do the same, too!


Hi, my name is judith. :)

I love crafting and making things. I adore handmade items and handmade bath products. ♥ I love pretty lingerie, garter belts, and stockings. And shoes!

I am vegan, and I love to cook, photograph, and write about what I made. Previously, I was vegetarian, but since I've changed my diet, I have never felt emotionally and physically better than I have now! Going vegan has really helped me respect other living beings, the environment, and ultimately, my body. While veganism is important to me, I know that it may not be a concern to someone else. In fact, I'm perfectly aware of it! I know that I am accountable solely for myself and respect others' beliefs accordingly.

Additionally, I believe that every single dollar spent is a vote that actually matters.

That being said, I buy fair-trade and organic wherever I can; I also tend to purchase things made domestically in the US or in countries where workers are paid fair wages. I like to recycle and reuse, too. :)

I put a lot of thought and care into my packages and crafts as well as what my partner likes. I send out things that I personally would like to receive, none of it being dollar store crap. No one likes to get junk or leftovers! I am not new to online trading, but I am considered relatively new to swap-bot.

Come visit me at hips like cinderella.net!

Favorite Books

  • Vonnegut: Mother Night, Breakfast of Champions
  • Gaiman: Neverwhere, Coraline, The Graveyard Book (I couldn't just pick one!)
  • Singer: Animal Liberation
  • Moskowitz & Romero: Veganomicon
  • Palahniuk: Invisible Monsters

I also enjoy reading vegan/veg cookbooks and magazines, crafting books and magazines, wedding magazines for the crafty stuff, Japanese craft books, dark fiction (Vonnegut, Gaiman, and authors in a similar vein), German Romanticism (uncanny). No Harry Potter, Twilight, Da Vinci Code, romance novels, etc.

Favorite Music

  • Portishead
  • The Decemberists
  • Regina Spektor
  • Jason Mraz
  • The Mars Volta
  • Massive Attack

I have an incredibly soft spot for the aforementioned artists. :)

But I absolutely, positively adore Ella Fitzgerald.

Favorite Crafts

Here are crafts that I enjoy:

  • Sewing (both knick-knacks, cute stuff, and things like hats, skirts, and bags/accessories)
  • Embroidery
  • Matchboxes
  • ATC's
  • Miniatures (I try!)
  • Jewelry
  • Pretty much anything that isn't crochet or knitting since I've never learned how to do it, but I want to learn!

I also love calligraphy, but due to the time involved, I will not offer it as a public craft on swapbot.

Likes

I really love handmade! If it's made by you, and you put lots of heart into it, I will adore it!

I also love useful handmade things/accessories, so I can show it off instead of having it sit in my treasure chest. ;)

Here are some themes that I like!

  • Realistic, nature themes
  • Octopus
  • Squid
  • Deer
  • Swallows and sparrows/birds
  • Mudkip (Yes, the best, most awesome Pokemon ever! ♥ )
  • Goldfish & koi
  • Mushrooms
  • Forest themes
  • Vintage/scientific animal illustrations
  • TEAL!! And jewel-toned colors
  • Aranzo Aronzo
  • Kawaii food such as Hannari Tofu and lucky poo/unchin
  • Fair-trade & organic
  • Handmade papers
  • 1920s &1930s
  • Sustainable fabrics such as cotton and bamboo
  • Filigree
  • Calligraphy & illuminated manuscripts
  • Handmade plush monsters
  • Distressed artwork
  • Unusual scarves
  • Legos!
  • European lingerie
  • Watercolor
  • Black & white photography
  • Retro tattoo art but no Ed Hardy brand
  • Bath stuff as long as it's handmade and (mostly) natural (and vegan)
  • Things that can be used/are useful. :D
  • Scrapbooking notions but not brads
  • DMC embroidery floss
  • Handmade jewelry that isn't beads strung on a cord; no kid beads or anything of that sort.

That's just a guide, not a rule or anything! :)

Dislikes

  • Cartoon-ish, clip-art looking stuff (To be quite frank, I really do NOT like this kind of stuff at all.)
  • Diddl
  • Dated looking things
  • Quilty-looking fabrics; also, low quality fabrics
  • Tacky fonts like Comic Sans and Papyrus
  • Sanrio
  • Disney
  • Country
  • Edibles (unless they're vegan)
  • Candles
  • Dotee dolls
  • Anime
  • Bath and Body Works and other overly perfumey type of body care
  • Materials such as real silk, honey, wool, angora, fur, leather, etc. This includes dairy, so no goatsmilk soaps or anything of that sort, please.
  • Western religious iconography such as crosses
  • Walmart
  • Inchies

Please don't send me trinkets or knick knacks that aren't handmade. I don't like mass-produced items that just sit and gather dust, nor do I have the space for them. Thank you! :D

Wishlist

Just a simple little wishlist here! I have a lot of crafty stuff in my possession, especially stuff that can be purchased from chain craft stores, but these are a few items I have a difficult time acquiring or would love to receive. :D

  • Japanese linens - love love love it but can't get any here :(
  • DMC embroidery floss
  • Unusual, colorful buttons
  • Japanese fabric trims
  • Quirky or vintage embroidery patterns
  • Small sequins (smaller than 8mm)

Again, this is just a wishlist, no demands or anything! :)

Swaplifting/Flakers

@Paralistocrat - For the mushroom stuffie swap. After apologizing and promising to send, a month went by with nothing. Sent me a half-assed sob story about why he couldn't follow through. Has been suspended from swapbot. The host was very sweet as to angel this for me.

@bubbleburd21 - For the vegan recipe swap. This one hits a bit close to home as I think it's super lame how someone who is interested in a cruelty-free lifestyle would steal from others. Told me she would resend but received nothing. Also swaplifted the host, has also been suspended from swapbot.

Private Swaps & Other Swapping

I love doing private swaps! If you're interested in doing a private swap, please contact me. If I have not swapped with you before, I would kindly ask that you send first.

Please check my website and my Flickr to see the types of swap I send out to people.

Also, I am pretty understanding if there is a delay when it comes to mailing out a swap. I keep in good contact with my swaps, and I really do expect the courtesy to be returned. To me, communication is the most important aspect in swapping, especially if there is a long delay. I honestly do not think that it's fair for me to chase down my swapper.

I just ask that you please be mindful of swapping because I am tired of dealing with the lies and constantly following up with my sender. Please keep in mind that I am more than okay with not receiving anything and leaving a 1 or 3 just to cut my losses, stop wasting my time, and not deal with a farcical swap.

Ratings

pearlie rated for I ♥ My Planet Swap!! on Oct 5, 2009
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Comment: Loved the bag and soaps - thanks so much!
ljctree rated for Something Random Just For Me! on Sep 26, 2009
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Comment: thanks ever so much for this decadently yummy bath treat!!! you sooo rock!
Response: Thank you! I'm glad you liked it! Based on your profile, it seemed like something you would enjoy. :) I really do appreciate the rating!
Boombo rated for Photographing your Food! on Sep 18, 2009
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Comment: Thank you for your pictures ;-)
Response: Thank you so much for the quick, prompt rating! I really appreciate it. :D
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Comment: Where to begin to tell you what a wonderful package you sent me! I seriously skipped up the driveway when I saw that it have arrived. The lunch box you made me was so cute, what a amazing job you did. Used it immediately! And of course the bento uber cute. It was very much me! Thank you for making me the cutest lunch packer I know! Of course I'll swap again!
Response: Awww, thank you, AndreaLynn! I'm glad you loved everything, and as I said many times before, I seriously had a blast with this swap. :D I would love to swap with you again -- perhaps we can do a holiday swap or something! (Not necessarily themed swap, but like a holiday present, hee hee!)
justingrid rated for Fabulous Duos on Jun 9, 2009
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Comment: Thanx for the beautiful teacup full of strawberries and cream. I love them even though presently strawberries are raining down on my keyboard(perils of munchkins). Also thanx for the lovely note.
Response: Hi, justingrid! I am glad that you like the teacup and strawberries and cream. :D I had a blast making them for you and packaging it up! Thank you for the rating and the sweet comments to go with it. I am sorry that it has taken me so long to respond, but it is very much appreciated!
KarinB rated for mmmmm Favorite Recipes - Vegan on Jun 2, 2009
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Comment: Thank you for the lovely recipes! The cashew/sunflower spread seems delicious! Yum.
Response: Hi, KarinB, thank you for the nice rating (and I apologize for taking so long to respond!). I hope that you have had the time to make the recipes and that you like them. :D
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Comment: Thank you. :)
Response: Thank you for the rating and comment! I am so sorry that it has taken me so long to respond. Thank you for organizing such a great swap!
IzLa rated for Handmade Stuffie ~ Food With Faces Swap on May 15, 2009
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mandylou rated for Gain exposure to your website 2! on May 1, 2009
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Comment: Great site! Excellent photos...and I LOVE your plushies! If I had the extra time, I would love to try to make some!
Response: mandylou, I'm sorry that it has taken me so long to respond to comments left in feedback, but I wanted to thank you for stopping by my website and for the nice rating and comment. :D If you ever want to do a swap, please let me know! :D
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Comment: Thank you so much for the cute toast (with butter!) and the pretty "Chibi Maruko Chan" box! :) -------------------- http://www.flickr.com/photos/flufftail/3473403922/
Response: I'm glad that my package got to you so safely! I saw that you made a buttered toast friend, and they look SO CUTE together! Thank you for the rating and for posting a link to your Flickr. You're always a lot of fun to swap with. :D xo
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Comment: I love love love the flan you made for this swap! Thanks so much for a lovely, cheerful package!
Response: Yay, I'm glad that you loved the flan I made! I was so hungry when I made it, haha. ;) You're very welcome, and thank you for rating!
tammyr rated for Mini cupcake pincushion on Apr 14, 2009
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Comment: Thank you so much for the cute cupcake pincushion and fabric.
Response: You're welcome, Tammy! Thank you for being understanding with my new job and for letting me know that you got the package safely. :) Thank you for the rating as well!
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Comment: Got my craft today and I LOVE it! Thanks so much for the Illumination--I can't wait to frame it and hang it. :-)
Response: I'm glad you liked the craft, muincat! It makes me really happy to hear. :D Thank you for the kind words and rating!
FingersInc rated for Gain exposure to your website 2! on Apr 10, 2009
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Comment: I LOVE your balsa wood ATCs ! Had great fun looking thru your smiley face sunny side up egg, and the buttered toast is a hoot ! Had fun looking thru, and reading everything. Thanks for sharing with me.
Response: Thank you so much for visiting my website! :D I am really grateful for the compliments as well as the rating. I've met lots of very sweet people through these website swaps, yay!
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Response: Thank you for the rating!
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Comment: Love your blog! Added to favorites and left you a comment. :) Thanks for sharing.
Response: That's so sweet! Thank you for the kind rating and for the wonderful comments. :D
Kinderposht rated for Blog Followers - international on Mar 31, 2009
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Comment: Thank you so much for visiting my blog :) I appriciate all the coments you left and the complements on my and my daughter that magnet set you got with the loins word sounds interesting! dont forget to stop by again someday!!
Response: It was fun to see your swaps and crafts on your website. :) I really liked the pictures you posted of your daughter enjoying the swaps as well. :) Thank you for leaving such a nice kind rating!
Tmatz rated for Blog Followers - international on Mar 31, 2009
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Comment: thanks for stopping by!!!
Response: I enjoyed looking at the chunky pages you made. :D Thanks for organizing such a great swap and for leaving such a lovely rating.
seygirl rated for Blog Followers - international on Mar 31, 2009
5
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Comment: great blog
Response: Thank you for visiting my website and for leaving a rating. :D
Ang73 rated for Blog Followers - international on Mar 29, 2009
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Comment: I am really glad we could both come to an understanding and I look forward to seeing you around Blogger.
Response: Oh yeah, definitely! I liked reading your journal, and your crafts are so bright and cheerful - perfect for brightening up someone's day. Thanks for rating!

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Comments

JenDiggityDirt on Apr 24, 2009:

Click here to join!

nifwlseirff on Apr 18, 2009:

Thank you ever so much for your comments and rating for the recent Blog swap! You've made me much more motivated to update things more often and work a little more in my rather frustrating garden - thank you!! Good luck getting FTP running again. :-)

weeatcrayons on Mar 17, 2009:

Come see all the new swaps we have up at Rainbows & Rainclouds!! There's some edible yummies, beads, paper scraps and stationery swaps going on!! Come join us in the fun!!

lilacamy931 on Mar 17, 2009:

Check out the Fake Food Group for upcoming ideas for swaps (input needed!!) and also some fun and games, prizes to be won!

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pianoheart on Mar 3, 2009:

Judith, thank you for the so cute dorayaki!

LavenderLizard on Feb 26, 2009:

Thanks so much for trading books with me! Lovely package received!

krambear on Jan 31, 2009:

I'm your first comment, yay :D

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