Swap-bot Time: August 13, 2022 11:56 pm


Date Joined: April 25, 2015
Last Online: June 15, 2022
Birthday: February 24
Country: United States

About Me

If I haven't rated you yet, it's because I haven't received anything. Baltimore apparently has one of the largest mail backups in the country, and my mail route keeps getting new carriers. That means I tend to get mail delivered in a bulk roughly once a week, notably longer than it should have taken. I do my best to register received swaps within a day or less of getting them. You can still feel free to send me a message about it, if you think it's taking way too long, though!

I'm mostly here for snail mail. I love to send and receive postcards, letters, holiday cards, greeting cards, etc. I'm not picky about what's on the card, but I would really like to receive an actual message from you on the card/in the letter. Tell me about the last great book you read, what your hobbies are, a favorite quote, what you wanted to be when you were a child...anything, really! I just want to make connections with others.

I like tea, cats, video and tabletop games, warm weather, romance, colored pens, makeup, dark beer, cephalopods, stickers and corvids. As a child, I wanted to be an astronaut when I grew up. I still do, really. I'm a big nerd--I love video games, science fiction and fantasy, tabletop games and the like. I even founded a company with my friend to hire ourselves out as game masters!

I love stickers, especially ones with plants and flowers, mushrooms, tea, celestial/space-themed (although not so much zodiac stuff) and any of my likes below. I like washi tape, pins, lovely scraps of paper (including lovely packaging or paper bags from stores.) I do a little embroidery, and I love baking.


  • Colors: Green and purple
  • Holidays: Thanksgiving and Christmas
  • Places to visit: Aquariums, new-to-me-restaurants, gardens and botanical centers
  • Animals: Cats, birds (all kinds, especially the weird ones and corvids), red pandas
  • Teas: Flavored black varieties, fruity herbals, chais with extra flavors
  • Flavors/Scents: Rose, sandalwood, cedar, pipe smoke, vanilla

I've listed some preferences for swaps below, but please don't stress about it. The community here is very into lots of rules and I'm just not about that. I'm here to enjoy the swapping, not get stressed about someone meeting my exact preferences without really knowing me. If you send something I'm not wild about it, I will simply pass it on to someone else and be glad to have the chance to do so!

No Thank You:

  • pink
  • anything scented of lavender (I'm allergic)
  • anything religious
  • beads/jewelry making stuff
  • letter stickers (the kind you use to spell things)
  • things for children and teachers/elementary school theme
  • butterflies
  • anything even vaguely spicy
  • Used/cancelled stamps
  • Disney
  • hearts (unless it's Valentine's Day)
  • Postcards (I have a MASSIVE backlog I am trying to use up!)
  • Cactuses and succulents

Yes Please:

  • stickers
  • washi tape
  • pins/buttons
  • tea (but not green tea, please!)
  • cats
  • space
  • flowers/botanicals
  • memes
  • mushrooms
  • patterned paper
  • cephalopods
  • maps (any and all kinds and sizes)
  • freebie/advertising magnets
  • cute/patterned/shaped sticky notes and memo pads
  • Unusual embroidery floss (I found some that have a color gradient recently, as an example. Basically, anything other than the standard single color six-string type.)
  • Animal Crossing
  • birds, especially corvids (ravens, crows, magpies, etc.)
  • I would LOVE to receive label stickers. I use them to write quotes in my journal, so medium or larger and no words on them with lots of space to write


AmySue2 rated for Flower Power the 2022 edition #3 on Jun 21, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the beautiful card. I can't seem to get my garden to grow well either. :)
heliogal rated for Tea Samples :) on Jun 10, 2022
Comment: Thank you I just finally received your pretty envelope and the fun new flavors of teas to try. Thank you so much!
sndrtkt rated for I SPY #29 on Jun 9, 2022
Comment: Cool postcard!! I just had ice cream and I love frozen bananas. I hope you were able to have one!
squince rated for I SPY #18 on Jun 8, 2022
Comment: Never received, messages unread.
BookishPenpal rated for Stickerpalooza! on Jun 7, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the stickers. The kids will love them! Happy Swapping 💌
octobereve930 rated for I SPY #29 on Jun 7, 2022
Comment: i love love love how you think outside the box... tails of comets...awesome. thank you. 6/6
Sagebrushs rated for I SPY #29 on Jun 4, 2022
Comment: Thank you.
marinda rated for I SPY #26 on Jun 1, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the pretty mushroom postcard!
Eulegirl rated for Anything Goes Poetry Swap on May 30, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the card and excellent Jane Kenyon poem
soyprincesa2 rated for Object Obituary on May 30, 2022
Comment: I love the vintage barrel cactus.postcard and the obituary for the candle was great! Thanks!
heidiblooms rated for I SPY #26 on May 29, 2022
Comment: I love the thought of your "mushroom corner!" I'm going to be moving in a few months and I'm so excited to have a bigger, nicer kitchen. I'm collecting strawberry-themed things for my new kitchen! Thank you for the pretty postcard :)
Comment: Thank you for the beautiful postcard.
nanadiana rated for All The Colors PCs #1 - Yellow on May 24, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the Luminara Unfuli pc. I agree the yellow does pop on this pc. My favorite color is purple but I wander to other colors often. :)
debbiespoms rated for I SPY #26 on May 24, 2022
Comment: Thanks very much for the Two something Anime postcard. Not seen this one before.
suepier rated for I SPY #18 on May 23, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the nice postcard.
suepier rated for Anything Goes Poetry Swap on May 23, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the nice poem. I love poetry.
Comment: Thanks!
Comment: I love this pink PC! Thank you!
Comment: Thank you for the Kaydel Ko Connix pc. I'm starting to make a dent in my pc stash too. Feels good!

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Neenarneenar on Jun 13, 2022:

Can you please check your messages I've sent several regarding not rating. I know you said your mail is delayed but this swap was back in March. Thank you and take care.

heliogal on May 7, 2022:

Hi, can you please check your messages. I've sent your 2 about not receiving the tea samples swap. I would like to communicate with you about it . Thank you!

kaelin on Dec 10, 2021:

Thank you so much for the Christmas card Stephanie, I loved it!

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