Date Joined: April 8, 2020
Last Online: July 10, 2020
Country: United States
I am an introvert who in the past had social anxiety and was shy. I am low maintenance and wear no makeup, down to earth, a bit reserved at times, and laid-back. I am into cooking, traveling, visiting new restaurants/cafes, drinking tea, relaxing, movies/music, hiking, camping, nature in general, Netflix, gardening, board games, and trying to learn a little bit of German. I also like writing and decorating my weekly planner a little bit. I do not drink, smoke, or go clubbing. I am overall a quiet person, but can get more talkative once I get to know you. I prefer 1 on 1 chats or small groups. I sometimes have a goofy or sarcastic personality. I have no kids. I do not consider myself a nerd. I do not play video games. I am not into anime, and I have no pets.
I travel mainly in the states and in Europe as those are my main interests right now. Later on I would like to expand and go to maybe Japan, New Zealand, and Australia.
Please let me know if you do not receive my item or if there is an issue with the item before rating. I mark "sent," once I put the mail in my apartment outbox, so the date can be different on the card. I rate everything I receive, but please give me time to rate it, as I do not always rate right away.
Post Cards/Letters - Preference for a post card of the landscape, scenery, or a special place in your area. A beautiful post card/letter with girly colors, polka dots, hearts, floral, bows, rainbows, homemade, lace/crochet, old fashioned/vintage, a unique one, a post card/letter that relates to me and what I like above - nature, travel, tea, & desserts, or a post card with delicious food on it. If you do not have these, don't stress out about it, its cool.
Tea - I try to limit my caffeine so I prefer a lot of herbal tea, however if I am trying a tea/a few packets, caffeinated teas are fine. Mixed blends/unique ones, herbal, black, green, & white.
Candy but specifically chocolate candy. If it is candy from another country than any candy. I really like desserts, but not supposed to have as much as I do.
Color & Such- Favorite is pink. Pastel colors are nice. Other colors are fine too.
Music - A variety but I am not good with thinking of bands & names of singers I love. Some rock & country songs, r&b, oldies, folk, hip hop, reggae, & soul. Least favorite are metal, punk, and rap.
Movies - Action, comedy, drama, & animated. Least favorite are musicals and horror movies.
I have found a few pen pals already, but if you think we may be a good fit, we can talk on here a bit first to see. Thanks.
I would love to find other women who are introverts or shy and quiet with similar interests as pen pals or for private swaps. Preferably between 30s-50s, but I will now consider a bit younger/older. A few child free pen pals would be nice as well. I prefer having a few deep connections, than a lot of mediocre ones. If we get to know each other well, I am open to meeting in person someday and would want other people who want the same, or open to talking on whatsapp or via email, video chat, or sharing pics eventually. No one that is racist, uppity, or snobbish.
I personally try to use cute stationary for my letters and decorate my cards a little bit, but not extreme yet. I would want someone who at least decorate their cards/letters a little bit.