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dardarbinx

dardarbinx
Date Joined: February 25, 2011
Last Online: July 6, 2019
Birthday: June 13
Country: Canada
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END of 2018 update

A brand new year is upon us. And I have found a wonderful new motto to live by:

I'm walking into 2019 with a clear heart and mind. If you owe me, don't worry about it - you're welcome. If you wronged me, it's all good - lesson learned. If you're angry with me, you've won - I let it go. If we aren't speaking, it’s cool - I wish you nothing but the best. If you feel I've wronged you, I apologize - it wasn't intentional. Life is too short for all the pent up anger, holding of grudges and extra stress or pain. Here’s to 2019!! Make it your best year yet!


It is now 6 years of living in beautiful Northern Ontario. I cannot believe it, my how time flies when you're having fun. I absolutely love it here and I don't even like it when we have to leave our beautiful bush to go to the city anymore.

The only thing about living here in the North is that I do not like how far away my mailbox is, it is rural route and everyone who gets their mail there, has to help "take care of it" like when it snows we all have to take turns shovelling it, etc. I really miss the home delivery that we once had. With all of my health issues, I can't even walk to it. It takes more than an hour, in the winter it is just unsafe and in the summer you get eaten alive by mosquitoes, black flies, horse flies, deer flies and whatever other critters maybe about.

I have confirmed that depending on when your package to me is mailed and where it comes from that it is hit and miss, it can take either 3 days, 3 weeks or 3 months. I have had all happen, there was one time that a small package that came to me from Australia (to Ontario Canada) took 6 months, or was it more like 9?!!! We had completely given up on it, and then boom all of a sudden it was here! So Crazy!!!

Anyway, no matter what happens, I am looking very forward to seeing you IN THE MAIL

ABOUT ME

My name is

which is short for Darlene.

I swear, sometimes I think that If I hear my whole name from anyone, it sounds like I'm in trouble or something...lol

I am a fun-loving individual and happily married. People either like me, or they don't. There is no sitting on the fence with me!

I do the very best that I can to have the same face for everyone. That is not always easy to achieve because of different personality clashes but I strive like everyone in hopes that everyone likes me back.

But something that truly needs to be mentioned here, and I hope everyone who I trade with will see this...

If you look on my profile you will see that I have been trading here for since 2011, and proud of my track record and I have made 1053 so far!

Also I do NOT contact any one to let you know that I don't get anything because I pay absolutely NO attention to what I don't get, I figure that any of you who are here, are here for the love of trading, me, I am here for the love of art...and that goes for any of the groups I am in. To me, looking for what I don't get is bad karma, it is just wasting time going backwards. I prefer to stay in the moment and concentrate on what I make and send out. Time is very valuable to me, as my health is not good. So therefore I am happy to get whatever I do get in the mail.

For my health, not only am I diabetic, I also have osteo and rheumatoid arthrist. I have fibromyalgia, and a mild learning disability. If this isn't enough, I also have sleep apnea and I am an insomniac, and use a cpap machine. Not to mention that found out earlier this year i have diverticilitis. On April 14, I broke my ankle in a snow storm. Its finally coming along,

So as you can see, I do o't' have the time to be negative AND I do not go looking for swappers to hand out 1's and 3's to.

Since I have moved to beautiful Northern, Ontario many things about me have changed greatly...so, I am filling you in!

ABOUT US

Abby and I met in 2005, and we got married in 2007. We have been attached to the hips ever since! We had a lovely church wedding where our dogs (we had 2 of them at the time) were our ring bears! They really did carry the rings! lol It was cute and fun! A lovely day.

Abby is a very special woman! She is transgender female. She has even had her surgery. She was born male but she has legally been female since about 2000. So, this we are in a same sex marriage...and very happy together. We do almost absolutely everything together.

If there is anyone who reads this who has any questions on the topic whether they know someone who has transitioned, or thinking about it themselves please feel free to ask questions, or even if you'd just like to correspond that would be cool, too.

MORE ABOUT US

We were caregivers to a wonderful man named Alan. This guy was like a brother to us; we even all had magic birthday dates. His Birthday was January 13, my birthday is June 13 and Abby's birthday is July 13...amazing, huh? He had terminal kidney cancer. We were all very good friends with him. He saw that we all got along so well that he decided he wanted to buy a house, for us all to live in together. He always wanted to own his own home. So we all went house shopping together and we bought one.

We all moved into the house together, and three days after we moved in Alan had to go and have a kidney removed. As time went on, he got sicker and sicker. He passed away on the day of his 56th birthday, btw, he was born in 1956. so we have this interesting number thing going on.

My favorite story to share regarding Alan is one day before he was really sick we were out for a drive somewhere. He was gazing out the window up at the sky, and he mumbled "Sun dog" I said, a what? He said, a Sun Dog. He explained to us what a sun dog is, which is a piece of rainbow that appears between a cloud and the sun. They are amazing things to see! And Alan told us that they were one of his favorite things, too! (Google Sun Dog if you don't know what they are) And when you see them they jump right out at you. At least they do for me.

From time to time If I am having a really bad day or sometimes even by coincidence, I will see a sun dog, and that for me is as good as a hug from Alan, or him letting us know he is still watching over us. In fact, on the day of the anniversary of his death, Abby and I decided we would celebrate his life, and go to the movies to see the Hobbit. We knew he would have approved because he LOVED the Lord of the Rings series and he also LOVED the 3D effect movies.

Well we went out for the afternoon Matinee, and when we came out of the theatre and wow, what did we see? We saw one of the most incredible Sun dogs we EVER saw! It was just like as though Alan were right there with us! It was so incredible! (here is another type of sundog, cool, or what????

WHAT I LOVE

If you are still reading this here are some things that I love....In short...

I ABSOLUTELY LOVE LOVE LOVE happy mail, especially if it includes an ATC, or a piece of art of any kind, anything Halloween anytime of year, or dies or die cuts, or anything rainbows!!!

Other perfect flat gifts for me would be unused postage stamps & address labels with my own address on them.

BUT if you need more detail read on!

  • ATCs (I am an avid ATC maker since August 2010) so I love anything paper. -I never get enough of Halloween stuff, Halloween die cuts, good Halloween stickers, Halloween stamps etc Halloween any thing any time of year!

  • Ephemera any thing and everything for ATC making, journal-ling, greeting cards, and rolodex
  • dies and die cuts
  • rubber stamp images
  • rubber stamps
  • betty boop

  • clocks
  • hot air balloon
  • unusual brads
  • unusual stickers (not cheap looking)
  • new techniques
  • silver earrings
  • charms
  • recipes
  • letters
  • post cards (blank or written on)
  • hummingbirds

  • castles

  • butterflies
  • dragonflies
  • anything rainbow, transgender or pride

  • word search puzzles
  • wild life sightings esp moose or bear

BEWARE

I live in Canada, so there are some strict border crossing rules that you must be weary of regarding food items, and also CD's or DVD's. These items will just increase the amount of time it will take for your envelope to arrive. So it is best to just not send food of any kind period.

MY PROMISE & COMMUNICATION

Please inbox me if you did not receive anything that I owe you for any swaps we were partners in so we can negotiate a make up, and I promise I will reply as quickly as I can. And finally, last but not least,

Sometimes life gets in the way, and I totally understand that. Nine times out of ten your 5 and your heart are safe with me as long as you let me know if your going to be late. The only way I will ever not rate you a 5 is if you don't follow the instructions of the swap for whatever reason, and same as giving you a heart, and I will always change your rating if you come clean on a swap I've rated you a 1 or 3 on. Please consider this when rating me, I am a very easy going person, everyone one of my partners will automatically get a heart unless its not what your supposed to send without an explanation....Remember, communication is ALWAYS the key! And that when things go amuck its probably just a matter of a misunderstanding.

MY RECENT 3: IS FROM WHEAT2BN FOR THE YOU'VE GOT MAIL # 2, FROM APRIL 14 TO MAY 5. I ACTUALLY DID SEND THIS OUT BUT SHE RATED ME A 1 ORIGINALLY, HOWEVER AS SHE PROMISED SHE SAID SHE WOULD CHANGE IT WHEN SHE GOT SOMETHING. PROBABLY BECAUSE OF THE SLOW POST OFFICE HERE IN NORTHERN ONTARIO CANADA. I COMMUNICATED WITH HER ABOUT IT AND I PROMISED I WOULD SEND AGAIN, WHICH I DID. WELL SHE DID CHANGE IT FROM A 1 TO A 3. I DO NOT FLAKE, I AM NOT A FLAKER, I AM PROUD OF MY 1000+ SWAPS HERE AND I WILL ALWAYS SEND AND I WILL ALWAYS RATE. TO ANY OF MY PARTNERS READING THIS...I PROMISE YOU THAT YOUR RATING WILL ALWAYS BE SAFE WITH ME. AND I PROMISE THAT I SEND I ON TIME, TOO.

Ratings

smmarrty rated for A-Z Rolo: Birds! on May 20, 2019
5
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Comment: Thanks for the resend.
Response: Thank you for the positive rating and for the 5, Your welcome for the resend, however no other comment about me sending you 4 different rolo's for this swap, or any comments on them? I hope you liked them.
5
rating
Comment: Thank you so much. I love what you left on my profile.
Pei04 rated for ESG: Questions About You on Apr 23, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Thanks for sharing your answers. Nice getting to know you a bit more :)
eranthika rated for ESG: Questions About You on Apr 22, 2019
5
rating
Comment: I give to super heart from you thank you and best regards..
5
rating
Comment: Thanks for the awesome and hilarious profile comment! Have a great day!
HappyMom rated for ESG: Questions About You on Apr 21, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Thanks for sharing your answers - nice job!
jayneblonde002 rated for Koi Fish ATC on Mar 19, 2019
5
rating
Comment: Thank you for your ATC. It's lovely. And thanks for the little extras too.
user6937 rated for Holiday Cheer on Dec 10, 2018
5
rating
Comment: Thanks for the pc's for the flat surprise! Your envie came at the same time as my other two partners, lol.
Response: Thats great! Thank you for great rating! i am still waiting for 2 of them.
Isa2020 rated for Holiday Cheer on Dec 10, 2018
5
rating
Comment: Hello! Thank you for your great Christmas card !!
HelenG6 rated for Holiday Cheer on Dec 7, 2018
5
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Comment: Thank you for the homemade snowman card. and sticker sheet. The google eyes came off! Have a Merry Christmas.
Response: oh dear, I will know not to put googly eyes on it in the future! Thank you for the 5
Jannified rated for Just to Say Hello Swap on Jul 7, 2018
5
rating
Comment: Thank you for the goods! And apologies for the late rating. You have good weekend ahead (:
Response: thank you Jannified, nice to hear from you again. Hope all is well
Wheat2bn rated for You've Got Mail #2 on Jun 18, 2018
3
rating
Comment: A month late
Response: I am so sorry that you feel that I deserve a 3 for this swap. Makes me sad, as I promptly replied and promptly sent something out, again. Now you will have 2 perfectly good flat gifts of address labels & Panda bear stickers. First one was late, probably because of slow moving mail to the Northern end of Ontario. Thank you for changing it as you said you would from a 1 to a 3, if there is anything I can do to fix this, please let me know.
kssunlover1947 rated for ATC Hot Air Balloon on Jun 8, 2018
5
rating
Comment: Thank you for the cards. Hope your ankle heals good. My son-in-law broke his last year and he still has to watch where they go and how much walking they do.
Response: so glad you got it and thank you so much for the great rating...ankle is healing awesomely, thanks
Kraftylady777 rated for You've Got Mail #2 on Jun 6, 2018
5
rating
 
Response: Thank you for the great rating
RiverTopanga rated for ATC Birds on May 24, 2018
5
rating
Comment: Thank you for the bird atcs. They are very pretty. My 86 yr old mum loves the light blue gems you added :-) We are long-time wild songbird fans. I'm sorry to hear about your ankle. I had ligament and tendon repairs done in Nov. and have still not fully recovered my ankle. I hope you will have better luck and be up and "running" soon - :-)
Response: thank you for the 5
lukrecja rated for You've Got Mail #2 on Apr 30, 2018
5
rating
Comment: Thanks a lot for the swap! You somehow read my mind, because I wanted to post in the forum I'm looking for someone who could make the address labels for me! I didn't manage to write it, because you were quicker! Thank you! :)
Response: I am so happy you appreciate the flat surprise I sent...(I am surprised you didn't leave a heart...lol) but thank you so much for the 5 rating! Enjoy your labels...
likeWHOAAemmy rated for Fun 2018 Email Swap #5 on Apr 21, 2018
5
rating
Comment: Thanks for your answers 😊
Zander rated for Keys on Apr 21, 2018
5
rating
Comment: Thank you for the wonderful ATC and the extras
Response: you are welcome, thank you for the great rating!
loveistea rated for Fun 2018 Email Swap #5 on Apr 20, 2018
5
rating
 
Jaybe63 rated for Profile comment on Apr 11, 2018
5
rating
Comment: Thank you for your comment - there is nothing wrong with crafting as your guilty pleasure, I'm there with you! x

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Comments

HappyMom on Apr 21, 2019:

I'm so happy to have you as my partner for ESG: Post a Positive Profile comment - It's been a while! Hope all's well with you ❤️

dog

9O96O on Apr 21, 2019:

sundog

I read about Alan in your profile. What a sad yet positive and heartwarming story. So I found a nice image of a sundog. I read that the arch at the top speaks of the presence of Wakâ (“the Great Spirit”) among all people on Mother Earth, young and old alike, and of our eventual return to Wakâ. Very poignant and I think, positive message.

This is for the ESG: Post A Positive Profile Message.

BornAfterMyTime on Apr 9, 2018:

'Profile Comment'

Hi Darlene! Greetings from England!

Firstly, thank you for teaching me about sun dogs. I hadn't heard of them before reading your profile and I haven't been lucky enough to see one myself yet.

Secondly, I really enjoyed looking at your ATC collection. I especially love the ones with re-purposed book pages on them. I haven't made any ATCs before but I'd like to try it now I've seen your gallery!

Love Emily xx

Skeletonsketch on Apr 9, 2018:

Hi dardarbinx, you seem really cool. I love ur layout and fun fact I used to live in Canada. I hope you have a great day!😃

ladyofunicorns on Oct 31, 2016:

Happy Halloween Halloween again more

I am so happy! Finally here! Happy Halloween! time to party!

Wildchild on Oct 31, 2016:

On the 13th Day of Halloween

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It was time to PAARTTY!

This was so much fun! I hope there is one for Christmas too!

Wildchild on Oct 30, 2016:

On the 12th Day of Halloween

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12 bats flew across the moon

one more sleep to go I am so excited!

ladyofunicorns on Oct 29, 2016:

Halloween

After this evening only 2 more days!!!!

Wildchild on Oct 29, 2016:

On the 11th Day of Halloween

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11 witches flew in!

ladyofunicorns on Oct 28, 2016:

Happy Halloween!

Have some fun with me! A few days left. Can't wait!

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