Swap-bot Time: July 5, 2022 8:41 pm


Date Joined: October 13, 2013
Last Online: July 5, 2022
Birthday: September 26
Country: United Kingdom

About Me

AMA What's Your Word for 2022: Kindness

7 June 2022

Well, I went into hospital this morning - and then there was an emergency kidney transplant patient which my surgeon was moved over to operate on, and so after a few hours of sitting and reading and being tested to make sure I didn't have Covid, they sent me home! So thank you to all for the good wishes and kind thoughts -- I'll put them away for the 19th July which is my new surgery date! Warm wishes to all.

1 June 2022

I'm going into hospital on 7 June for a semi-major operation (postponed since before Covid). I've been told by the doctors that I'll probably be fairly useless for a couple of weeks after surgery.

I've organised my swaps so that the closing dates are after that, and I'm doing what I can to complete craft swaps now before I go in.

It may mean, however, that I don't rate very promptly for any swaps that I receive between 6 June and 25 June. Many apologies -- as soon as I'm back to normal, I'll get things rated.

I've returned to Swapbot after a long break during the pandemic. It feels good to be back. I'm looking forward to reconnecting with old friends and to making new friends. I'm eager to begin crafting again.

My name is Betty and I live in Birmingham, England. Birmingham is right in the middle of the country about as far from the sea as you can get, around 120 miles north of London.

I'm in my early seventies and live with my (female) partner. We got married a few years ago after being together for 21 years. We have six children between us, three home-grown ones and three adopted ones who joined the family as older children.

We also have a fourteen year old grandson.

We are active in our local Quaker Meeting and I teach the children's class a couple of times a month -- stories and crafts. Although we only have the one grandson, we do spend a lot of our leisure time with children!

In December 2021 I took voluntary redundancy from my job as librarian at a local Quaker college. I'm continuing with a small amount of postgraduate PhD supervision and teaching. My main areas are history and literature.

I have always written and taking redundancy will, hopefully, allow me to develop that further. I have published one academic book about women's travel writing (and lots of articles), and two general books, one about great explorers and the other an atlas of exploration. I've also edited the memoirs of several 18th and 19th century women travellers. I've recently got interested in playwriting and audio playwriting and am tentatively taking steps in that direction but I still have a long way to go before I produce something that might actually be put on! I also want to have a go at writing either a historical novel or a cozy mystery -- again, I think it will be a stiff learning curve! And I have an idea for a children's picture book that I'm exploring and ideas for several more bits of academic research and writing.

Favorite Books

I read a lot. My tastes are pretty broad. I like general novels, poetry, history, crime fiction, science fiction and a whole variety of non-fiction.

I don't like horror and I like my crime fiction on the cosy end.

Crime novelists I enjoy include Donna Leon, Anne Perry, Molly MacRae, Kerry Greenwood, Ruth Dudley Edwards, Peter Tremayne, Sara Paretsky, Val MacDermid, Katherine Forrest, Majorie Allingham, Laurie R. King (particularly the Mary Russell books) and Carola Dunn. I reread Dorothy L. Sayers at intervals. I used to like Agatha Christie and Ngaio Marsh, but I don't think they've stood the test of time as well as Allingham and Sayers.

I used to read a lot of science fiction but read it only occasionally now. Suzette Haden Elgin's books stand out in my memory. I am a great fan of anything by Octavia L. Butler. I recently read and re-enjoyed Bradbury's Fahrenheit 451. I may decide to do a re-read of Bradbury generally. Zenna Henderson's books were tremendously important to me when I was younger.

I like 18th and 19th century fiction. I re-read Jane Austen at intervals; ditto Dickens; ditto Susan Ferrier, Amelia Opie, and Walter Scott. I love Dorothy Wordsworth's travel writing -- I'm less fond of her diaries but they are nonetheless worth a read. I re-read Susan Glaspell's A Jury of Her Peers about once a year and am a great fan of Mary Wilkins Freeman and Charlotte Perkins Gilman.

Other books I return to at intervals include Breakfast at Tiffany's, I Capture the Castle, Cold Comfort Farm, A Bullet in the Ballet, Jackie Kay's Adoption Papers and Neil Gaiman's short story Chivalry. I like some but not all Gaiman; I like some but not all Terry Pratchett (mostly Tiffany Aching and the Wee Free Men).

More general novels? I enjoyed Anne Tyler's Vinegar Girl (a rewriting of Taming of the Shrew). I liked Age of Miracles by Karen Thompson Walker. I will always read something by Margaret Elphinstone or Sara Maitland. I like the Icelandic writer Halldar Laxness. I loved Christine Coleman's The Dangerous Sports Euthanasia Society. I found The Restoration of Oscar Laird thought-provoking. I've just finished the Thursday Murder Club by Richard Osman which I loved -- I'm on the waiting list for the next book in the series at the local library. I'm currently reading Klara and the Sun by Kazuo Ishiguro and Ariadne by Jennifer Sain.

My partner and I are planning to visit Estonia next summer, covid-permitting, and I hope to read some Estonian novels in translation over the next few months. (I'm also hoping to teach myself to speak Estonian! Given that it's a Finno-Ugric language, which means that the only languages it resembles are Finnish and Hungarian, that's going to be a challenge ....)

Quite a lot of the time I read non-fiction. I'm an inveterate reader of cookbooks and cookery magazines. I read walks books and craft books. I read a lot of literary criticism but that's poised somewhere between leisure and work. Ditto 17th century Quaker texts.

Looking at the non-fiction titles in the pile of books waiting to be read on my bedside table, they include The Natural World of Needle Felting, Cold Brew Coffee: Techniques and Recipes, Younger Next Year for Women, Macro Photography, Telling True Stories, Creating a Wildlife Garden, Covenant and Conversation: a weekly reading of the Jewish Bible, Fun and Games for the 21st century, and Teach Yourself Estonian!

I like and read children's and young adult books. Classic authors I still return to include C.S. Lewis, Madeleine L'Engle, Lewis Carroll, Louisa May Alcott, Susan Cooper, Arthur Ransome, Edward Eager, Ruth Sawyer, Kenneth Grahame, E.B. White and Robert Louis Stevenson. More modern authors that I've enjoyed include Philip Pullman, Philippa Pearce, Malorie Blackman and Jonathan Stroud and Alex Gardiner's Mossbelly MacFearsome and the Dwarves of Doom made me laugh out loud while reading.

Within my academic life I've done some research on 18th and 19th century children's books and have a particular interest in Mary Martha Sherwood, Maria Graham, W.T.Stead (especially the Books for the Bairns) and Sarah Trimmer. I'm also interested in 19th century children's magazines

I often listen to audio-books, mostly crime fiction and non-fiction.

Favorite Television

I hardly ever watch television. When I do, it tends to be game shows or documentaries or nature programmes.

I do however listen to a lot of radio. mostly BBC Radio 4 (which is mostly speech programmes, news, dramas, documentaries, etc.) or 4 Extra. Sometimes I listen to Radio 2 (generally popular and easy listening music). I also like BBC World Service which gives me a much more global perspective on world news.

Favorite Crafts

One of the great things about my time on Swap-bot is the way it widened my crafting. I now make ATCs, do kirigami, make zines, Zen tangle, crochet and knit. I also like making handmade postcards and decorated envelopes. Being part of a Digital Art Group made me work harder at that medium and I've also got increasingly into photography. I've just joined a local photography class so am hoping to improve my skills. I've received some wonderful items from other swappers and they've stimulated and inspired me to develop my own skills.

Other things I like to do

I play Serpentine online and Scrabble. I really like board games of all sorts and card games, but as my partner doesn't, I don't often have anyone to play with, unless my son who's into games happens to be around. (He lives in Scotland so I only see him every couple of months.)

I love cooking and like trying out new recipes. I cook things from all round the world, but Indian is probably the one I do most of. We used to live in a predominantly Pakistani neighbourhood where it was really easy to get all the spices and other ingredients in the local shops. We moved a few years ago to be nearer my work but make periodic expeditions into the old neighbourhood for shopping. I have lots of cookbooks. We keep running out of bookshelf space for them!

I also really like eating out and trying new restaurants.

We do quite a lot of country walking. I also like visiting museums.

We feed the birds in the garden and have seen over 30 species over the last year. We don't watch breakfast TV -- we sit by the patio doors and watch the birds instead!


When it comes to postcards, I particularly like maps, holidays, fairy tales, myths and legends, greeting postcards, foods and cooking, book or library themed, vintage, museums, trees, birds, insects, poems, science, sports and games -- but I'm open to surprises!

Things I Collect

Old children's books (published pre-1970) in any language and from any country

Cookbooks and recipes

Vintage postcards and greetings cards

Little Golden Books

Nativity sets

Contemporary children's picture books from around the world and in any language

I Like


Food from around the world

American candy, particularly Sweet Tarts, Chuckles, Necco Wafers, Good and Plenty, Cookie Dough Bites and Red Hots

Christmas carols

Music - folk, country, classical in particular. Not a heavy metal or punk fan.

Vintage postcards and greetings cards

Postcards with nice pictures on

Postcards from museums


Wild animals

Things that people have made and put time and thought into



Crime fiction from around the world


Nice things for the shower

Old microscope slides

18th and 19th century magazines

Silicone molds

Spices and herbs




Anything to do with the ocean (pictures, sand, boats, etc.)

Pictures of snow scenes

Women's magazines, craft magazines, cooking magazines, photography magazines (but not celebrity magazines)

Learning about other people, their culture and how they live

Board and card games

I Don't Like/Don't Want

Nail polish

Make up

Lip balm

Disney things


Hello Kitty items


My Swap-Bot User Name

A number of years ago, I needed a user name for an online game I was playing and there was a bottle of witch hazel sitting on the table. I ended up as hazelwitch! I've generally kept the name for online things that I do.

It's good to be back.

Current Swaps -- keeping track

Ratings chased but never received: kammy

Paper mosaic swap sent 19 May. Waiting for rating from pupullona. Messaged offering resend 6 June.

BLC: Big Jubilee Swap sent 29 May. Waiting for ratings from LadyAbigail. Resent 6 June.

May what did you read this month sent 31 May. Waiting for ratings from junemoon, Resent 6 June. Messaged foxtales and all her partners 20 June.

ABC Song Swap #2 sent 1 June. Waiting for ratings from annim

Sharp Shooters May Colour Yellow sent 6 June. Waiting for swap from kittyhahahotbot

Two postcards sent to San Francisco preschool on 11 June.

SPCP June Photo Shoot Water sent 13 June. Waiting for swaps from mjhaertling and user6937.

Activist ATC sent 17 June. Waiting for rating from wordlesspoetry86

Minizines CPG #130 sent 20 June. Waiting for rating from OrigamiGrace.

Sharp Shooters Local Wildlife sent 21 June. Waiting for rating from ScrapHappyGabi.

IS Paper Goody swap sent 24 June. Waiting for rating from saturnsrings.

CPG Rainbow ATC sent 26 June. Waiting for rating from tatntole.

BLC Big Jubilee Read sent 28 June. Waiting for rating from cynaemon and swap from melissab.

Desert Island Discs sent 1 July. Waiting for ratings from dollydotboo, azmom875, teraecau

CPG Two lovely handmade envelopes sent 1 July. Waiting for ratings from granny simpson

Sharp Shooters: 4 Elements sent 3 July. Waiting for swap from pahasiga and rating from bluebutterfly.

Vintage postcard June wta sent to Lynnpinkdaisy 3 July 2022

2 vintage and 3 regular postcards #2 sent 3 July 2022. Waiting for rating from minniepic and swap from marclively.

June Reading Challenge: YA Fantasy sent 4 July. Waiting for rating from USAFWife and swap from colleenb.

BLC: June: What did you read? sent 4 July. Waiting for rating from rantnerj, dorcii, and karenh77 and swap from tatntole.

June: What did you read? sent 4 July. Waiting for rating from ksenia and aurelas and swap from venzo2b.

SPCP: Profile pic sent 4 July. Waiting for rating from 90960 and swap from mjhaertling.

CPG: Profile picture sent 4 July. Waiting for rating from OrigamiGrace and swap from cassie3001.


Comment: Thanks so much for sharing. The book sounds really interesting! I'll have to look it up. I don't seem to enjoy many YA books now days, but there are some middle grades type books that I do really enjoy, so I'm trying some of those out!
9O96O rated for SPCP: Profile Pic on Jul 5, 2022
Comment: The trees are so lush. Beautiful spot. I love your write-up about the location. Thank you for hosting this fun photo swap BH.
wordlesspoetry86 rated for Activist ATC on Jul 5, 2022
Comment: I love that you are so passionate about this issue. I hope it gets better. In the US, we have very strict policy on refugees and it's terrible. We once took in everyone who needed us, now we only take in a select few based on how we would benefit from them. It's repulsive.
wolfeagle rated for AMA: Interactive ATC #1 - Int'l on Jun 30, 2022
Comment: Thank you. What a clever idea.
chimerix rated for AMA: Collaboration Puzzle Fun #1 on Jun 30, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the great puzzle pieces. Aloha
PrincessLeia rated for AMA: Collaboration PC #108 on Jun 30, 2022
Comment: A very interesting start!
MuggleMom rated for BLC: Big Jubilee Read 3 on Jun 28, 2022
Comment: I'm glad I'm not the only one who didn't have over the top review about THGttG ...yes, I went with the now fond shorten version of the classic title, lol. I rated it 3 stars myself because tho I appreciated it and saw how the book influenced other authors/books/stories, the original didn't have the same "shiny" newness as you stated. I love your response about listening to the original - waiting for the story's next installment must have been key to your fond memories. Alas, I, like many, still blurt out the random 'cult' following quotes - "thanks for all the fish"!! xxMuggleMom
9O96O rated for Say it with flowers! on Jun 25, 2022
Comment: Comment: The lensball is so cool. I think I need to buy one of those and experiment. Looks like a lot of fun. I too have a forsythia in my backyard garden. The yellow blossoms are a welcome sign of spring each year. Beautiful work on the photo notecards. Apple blossoms are another one of my favourite springtime blossoms. I love the close-up poppy photo. Great package BH. Thank you!
Response: I've just bought a good book, The Lensball Photography Handbook by Marvin Lei which is helping me understand better what I can do with it. (There are various other lensball books on Amazon -- mostly useless and worth avoiding!) But the main thing is, as you suggest, just playing and experimenting. One warning -- avoid using it in direct sunlight -- it focuses the sun's rays like a magnifying glass (remember setting fire to paper when we were kids?) and you can get burnt. I say that from experience!
mjhaertling rated for SPCP - June Photo Shoot on Jun 25, 2022
Comment: Loved your photos. I have always loved reflection photos too. I have never been to Europe and will probably not have the opportunity but the scenes from GB always intrigue me.
pahasiga rated for Sharp Shooters: MAY color: YELLOW on Jun 19, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the yellow photos! The one with glass ball is indeed very interesting.
Comment: Thank you for poppy and apple blossoms! Wish I could get my own apple tree to blossom...
Response: It's an old tree ... it blossoms wonderfully but then produces apples which are totally inedible!
exploregonian rated for Plant-Based Recipe Swap on Jun 19, 2022
Comment: Thank you so much! Both recipes look so good, and I’m especially so excited to try the pasta recipe.
9O96O rated for Mini Art Journal Go-Round on Jun 14, 2022
Comment: I'm so glad you started this MAJ go-round. It has attracted a new group of people. I love your pink and white dove MAJ. Simple and elegant. And I like that you added the Emily Dickinson poem at the back to go with it. Looking forward to another round. :) Thanks BH!
user6937 rated for SPCP - June Photo Shoot on Jun 14, 2022
Comment: Lovely pictures, Betty; those swans would be a nice ride, as would going down the canal. The Ladies place seems peaceful (and just what some folks need). The waters are rising here, it's been raining hard and will be for days!
Comment: Thank you for sharing.
lrm1980 rated for Zines #2 on Jun 11, 2022
Comment: Thanks so much for Aesop’s Fables. I really enjoyed the zine, and loved reading the little stories that I actually hadn’t heard before! I also really appreciate your beautiful apple blossom photo, and the nice note.
lrm1980 rated for Zines #1 on Jun 11, 2022
Comment: Thanks so much for Fairy Tales on Postage Stamps! I really enjoyed it, and it’s inspired me to want to organize my stamp collection better (and focus my collection on subjects I enjoy).
Cindymt rated for ABC Songs #2 on Jun 9, 2022
Comment: Thanks for sharing and for joining my swap! I apologize for the delayed rating as your swap was sent to my spam folder :/
03Scarlett rated for E-mail Accountability Swap #11 on Jun 8, 2022
Comment: I hope you're doing well from your hospitalization, Betty.
Comment: Thanks for sharing your books! Technology can be finicky, no worries :)

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Rainydancer on Jul 3, 2022:

Welcome to Sunshine Swaps!

Swan on Jun 25, 2022:

Thank you for the wonderful handmade snail card for my May Wishlist!

tatntole on Jun 16, 2022:

I received my AMA: Collaboration PC that you sent home in a glassine envelope. It made it in perfect shape, thank you for adding seahorses, starfish & quotes to it and then sending it home to me.

sassafrass on Jun 3, 2022:

Wishing you all the best on your upcoming surgery, and hope you have a speedy recovery! I've had a number of big surgeries, so I can relate. Take care and give yourself lots of time to rest and heal :)

Poohtat on May 24, 2022:

Thank you for the May Wishlist notecard you made me. Love it! Happy Swapping

TeaNi on May 4, 2022:

Thank you so very much

for granting an April Wishlist group wish for me with the congratulations card, lovely note, and enclosed tuck in surprises! It feels good to have accomplished this goal I have wanted to reach for a very long time! :)

traceyj on Feb 22, 2022:

Hi again,

the last comment posted before I was finished. Photo credit goes to [LunaXXL].(https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Gesetze_SozA.JPG)

Guess I'll quit now before I foul something else up.

Thanks for playing--happy swapping!

LLU: That's NOT a bookmark!

traceyj on Feb 22, 2022:

Hi Betty,

Here are some things I'd rather not use as a bookmark:

pressed zinnia

This would actually be a cool surprise to find in a book, but I'm slightly worried that it might wrinkle the pages (not totally flat) or it might leave stains/residue behind... (photo credit: Geo Lightspeed7

sticky tabs

A few of these sticky tabs left in a library book is not a huge deal, but some people would leave a ton of them behind when they returned their books! Not my favorite.

mejulia on Feb 10, 2022:

Thank you for the great Christmas postcards from the wishlist group.

Swan on Feb 9, 2022:

Thank you for the snowy postcard for my January Wishlist telling me how you stay active. My favorite way is walking as well.

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