Comment: Thank you for sending. I liked them even though it was not what you should have sent in this swap. I have to finish this swap and rate you with 3, because you said you will not send a 'thinking of you' or an encouragement card, even though the swap organizer asked you to. Sorry. If it was possible, I would give a 3 and a heart for the effort. Edit: I was never rude, so when she claims so it makes me both hurt and curious where I was being rude... My partner contacted me and asked if I had received her swap. I said I actually did, but didn't notice it before because it was missing a swap name, and told her that I am not sure if what she sent met the swap requirements. I asked in the swap comments how others would rate it, thinking that maybe it is just me thinking like that. Then my partner told me she contacted the swap coordinator, who said she should re-send, and asked if I will accept that. I told her that yes, after I receive the item I should have received, I can then rate her with a 5 and in my mind I was happy that it's finally sorted out, and even thought of sending her a surprise thank you card because she had included her address in the previous envelope. Then suddenly after that message she said she has changed her mind and won't re-send, now she is claiming it's because I was rude. I don't see how I was being rude especially when I paid a lot of attention for making my messages sound neutral, but maybe because English is not my native language, I have chosen wrong words. What I have received is a blank postcard, a tea bag, a candy and a recipe written on a stationery, but no thinking of you card, encouragement card, cheering up card, or warm words. She herself used very rude sentences in her messages, and was complaining about me when I never did the same of her, but that matter does not belong here. Rating with a 3 is not unfair, because like it says next to it: ''I got my stuff, but it didn't meet the posted swap requirements.''
Response: My partner complained because I sent a postcard instead of a card, even though I also included tea and other little extras. I find this rating unfair, but I was unwilling to resend a different type of card after my partner was really rude to me when I contacted her.