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Super MEGA Long Letter Pen Pal Letter

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Swap Coordinator:jhappy36 (contact)
Swap categories: Letters & Writing 
Number of people in swap:9
Type:Type 3: Package or craft
Rating requirement:4.96
Last day to signup/drop:October 26, 2013
Date items must be sent by:January 2, 2014
Number of swap partners:1

For this swap you will:

** you will have 8 weeks to complete this swap!!! It is a type 3 because it will be very time consuming!**

Write a VERY long letter to your partner. It will be 60 minimum pages written by hand or 40 pages if you type. I know, you're thinking ... that's CRAZy. Hehe. You're right! I'm crazy about palling and really, truly getting to know others. It's awesome to write detailed, descriptive, inquisitive letters.

I SWEAR ... it's not as hard as it looks/sounds!!! 40/60 pages sounds like a lot right? Well, you have 8 weeks so that's 56 days. If you write one page a day ... you're almost there. If you write two pages every other day ... you're almost there. You get the point!

NOTE These are some some starter IDEAS ... YOU DO NOT HAVE TO INCLUDE THIS INFO ... it's just to help if you'd like a start!

  1. Where do you visualize yourself in 5 years, 10 years?
  2. Have you had an experience you would say has impacted your life?
  3. Have you had to make an important decision that affected your life?
  4. Are there people you don’t like? Are there people that don’t like you?
  5. Where do you consider being places for romance?
  6. What has been your most embarrassing moment?
  7. Are you ever bored?
  8. How do you spend time with your family?
  9. Do you think it’s OK for someone to still have feelings for their ex?
  10. What is your definition of intimate?
  11. What do you think of this expression: Where there was fire, ashes remain.
  12. Do you have any future financial plans?
  13. What is your biggest goal in life?
  14. What is your favorite book?
  15. Describe yourself in 3 words.
  16. Tell me your 3 weaknesses.
  17. Who is your hero, do you have more than one?
  18. What is the most important thing in life?
  19. What would be your questions to ask on a first date?
  20. What are your bad habits?
  21. What is your point of view of the world?
  22. What would you do to leave an impression on a person on your first date or first meeting?
  23. Is there any real idea of the perfect life?
  24. What do you think about sex before marriage?
  25. What has been your most emotionally intimate experience?
  26. Who has been your most emotionally intimate partner?
  27. Do you still have feelings for an ex partner?
  28. How long did your most intimate relationship last?
  29. Do you regret living those intimate experiences with that person?
  30. Have you ever had the feeling you were being watched?
  31. What made you go that far?
  32. Would you rather follow your heart or your head?
  33. What is your opinion about premarital sex?
  34. Do you think the past matters in a relationship?
  35. How would you react if your significant other told you they have had a relationship with a partner of the same gender?
  36. Do you believe in any god or gods? Why?
  37. Do you have any political opinions?
  38. Do you have any hobbies?
  39. Have you ever experimented with drugs?
  40. What do you think is the key to good parenting?
  41. Do you like pets in the house?
  42. What is the weirdest thing about you?
  43. Tell me something about your first kiss.
  44. If your parents don’t like your partner for some reason, is that a deal breaker?
  45. Have you ever regretted one of your ‘romantic encounters’?
  46. Do you believe in soul mates?
  47. Do you have a criminal record?
  48. What is your dream job?
  49. Are you willing to stay away from your family if you ever have to for a job?
  50. Which living celebrity/author/singer would you like to know?
  51. If you could meet a famous dead person, whom would you like to meet?
  52. What do you think about unfaithfulness in a relationship?
  53. Do you think love at first sight is possible?
  54. How do you balance personal responsibilities with relationship responsibilities?
  55. Who is your favorite fictional character and why?
  56. Do you prefer reading books or watching movies?
  57. Do you have any regrets in life?
  58. What is your ideal vacation?
  59. Do you have a favorite movie?
  60. If you are allowed to do just one thing for the rest of your life, what would it be?
  61. What is the one thing about you that you take pride in?
  62. What is the most courageous thing you have ever done in your life?
  63. What is your earliest memory?
  64. What do you like most about you?
  65. Does your partner enjoy hanging out with your friends?
  66. What would you if you wanted to live your life differently?
  67. Have you ever taken dancing classes?
  68. Do you think it is important to learn any form of performing arts?
  69. What are you looking for in a relationship? In the long term or short term?
  70. If you have three wishes, what do would you wish for?
  71. Which is the song that makes you happy?
  72. If you could be a superpower, what would be your superpower?
  73. Who is the most influential person for you so far in life?
  74. Is there a movie that makes you cry no matter how many times you watch it?
  75. If you could change one thing about yourself, what would it be?
  76. What is the best advice you ever received?
  77. What kind of music you like?
  78. If you had a previous relationship, why did your last relationship break?
  79. Are you still friends with that person?
  80. What was the best and the worst moment you spent with them?
  81. What are the craziest things that you’ve done together?
  82. What will you have accomplished one year from now?
  83. If you could go on a road trip where would you go?
  84. What is the best part about family life?
  85. What is your favorite memory of your family?
  86. Tell me 3 good points about your spouse/bf/future partner.
  87. What are your expectations of a partner?
  88. Did you ever want to kill someone?
  89. Have you ever wanted something really bad and then later, not so much?
  90. Is there anything I could do to make you think I am bad?
  91. What would you do without electricity for 3 days?
  92. Do you like to go shopping, not buying, shopping?
  93. What are your views on open relationships?
  94. Would you ever like to adopt children?
  95. Is money more important to you or relationships you share with people?
  96. What is it that you are passionate about?
  97. Do you believe long distance relationships can work?


seekingjoytoday 10/25/2013 #

I've had this on my watchlist because it's such a commitment. But I just can't stand it - it's too awesome of a challenge to pass up. Very excited.

jhappy36 10/27/2013 #

I had a very good question and I just want to make sure to be clear ...

So if you type a letter and print it ... front and back and it's 20 pages this means it is actually 40 pages if you count each side. I hope this makes sense. :)

I print double sided all the time ... it's eco-friendly and cheaper to send through the postal system!

Happy writing all!

seekingjoytoday 10/28/2013 #

I'm on page 10 already and am looking forward to more suggestions!

jhappy36 11/10/2013 #

Thanks for helping Zoebolt. Sorry ladies, I've been on vacation this week and have been busy, busy, busy with painting my sons bedroom and cleaning out closets ... I'm a busy body. :) Anyways, I hadn't been online. I'll get some new questions up and try to be sure that they are readable!

jhappy36 11/10/2013 #

In case you all wonder, I go online and cheat for questions. Hehe. Why re-invent the wheel?! So if some of the questions are odd, just skip them. LOLOL. I just want to jog ideas in your minds to help you share pieces of your life that you care to. :) I hope you're all having a fun time with this swap!!!

Zoebolt 11/16/2013 #

awesome new questions! I had just hit a wall and was going crazy.

jhappy36 11/28/2013 #

I'm sorry all ... my personal computer is now DEAD :( so I won't be on very often to post new questions. It's easy to find more questions. Just Google "questions to ask to get to know someone" or "questions to ask pen pals" or the like. You should find a large array of stuff!

Happy Thanksgiving to everyone who celebrates ;)

Zoebolt 12/ 1/2013 #

I am SO excited! I just finished my letter!!!!!

jhappy36 01/ 1/2014 #

Happy New Year all! Please make sure to send your swap if you haven't. If you're going to be late, please let your partner know and let me know!

Take care! :)

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