1. Send your partner at least a one page letter that looks back over 2018 and reflects.

2. Did you grow, did you learn something new, did you fall in a rut, did you adopt and pound doggie or kitty, did you move, etc.

3. Enclose a gift for your partner which is always nice.

4. Sprinkle with love and rate.

P.s........

.........3's suck. They lower your score, prevent a swapper from joining swaps and in many cases unnecessarily hurt people. If you feel you need to rate a 3 please contact the swapper first.

Say noooooooooo to these 3's: The 3 given by the double profiler whos gone the next day, the moody 3, Im making up my own rules 3, the vindictive 3, I got-a-3-youre-getting-a 3, the angry 3, the made up 3, I-dont-care-what-the-rules-are 3, you-sent-one-day-late-3-and-didnt-tell-me-3, Im-sending-your-envie-off-to-the-crime-lab-and-when-it-returns-3. lol