Swap-bot Time: August 18, 2022 9:09 pm


Date Joined: May 30, 2018
Last Online: August 18, 2022
Birthday: October 4
Country: United States
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About Me

DISCLAIMER: I am human and I do make mistakes. If I made a mistake on a swap, or worse, it does not get to you at all, please email me before rating and I will resend no questions asked :) If I will be late in sending a swap I will reach out to you before the swap deadline to let you know!

Also! If you get a swap from me and have to pay postage, please let me know! It happened once (that I know of), and I do not want it to happen again!

Hey, fellow Swappers! I am Cindy, and I am a 23-year-old female from the USA. I am a 5th-grade math and science teacher!

I started pen paling when I was 13, and I have loved it ever since! However, now I want to do more snail mail than email so this website seemed perfect for that!

Some things that are very important to me include my academics, family, friends, my pets, and my job. Some things that I love are music, cats, and Disney!

I am a washi tape enthusiast. I also love going to craft shops, especially Hobby Lobby where there is usually a sale on most items! Other than washi tape I also love stationary and tags.

I am not too artsy sadly but I am working on learning how to better decorate my letters and envelopes.

Now to relax after work I like to watch pen pal videos such as pen pal with me, tips and tricks, and what my pen pals sent me videos. I also scroll through swap-bot a lot! As someone who suffers from anxiety and depression, it is always good to stay busy!

I am looking forward to pen paling with you all and I will stay up to date on these things! So if there's a chance your letter may have a slight delay, I will let you know ASAP! I am also 100% okay with late mail! I understand that things happen! Also, it is fair to mention that my ratings MAY be a bit late because my letters are sent to my home address and then sent to me in a package from my parents to my apartment so don't worry! I did not forget about you and I apologize! I live in Estero, but that is why my address here says Miami Beach. I do not want to change my address here until I get a permanent address, as I am just renting now.

Maybe this is unnecessary, but I feel the need to say this after a recent incident. I DO NOT want to use my hometown address for my mail! But as of now, it is the only way I can keep swapping. Why? I DO NOT have a permanent address as of yet because I do not own property, as of now I just rent and I may only be at my apartment for less than a year. I currently cannot afford a PO Box, and the closest place with PO Boxes opens and closes while I am at work, so I would not be able to pick up mail anyways, and ratings will be more delayed or not even happen if I cannot get the mail. I would love to get my swaps ASAP, but the fact of the matter is that is not an option right now. Once I get a PERMANENT ADDRESS I will gladly change my mailing address in the SB system. It will only be unfair and confusing for other swappers to change my address within a year, then again within a year, then again. Hence why when I was in college, I did not use my college mailboxes because I changed dorms every year (and let's not forget the pandemic when I was forced to go back to my hometown). No, I am no longer in college but again, and I cannot stress this enough, I DO NOT HAVE MY OWN PERMANENT ADDRESS YET! I know 99.99% of you literally do not care and are very understanding. Some of you have contacted me personally asking if I got a swap, I told you the situation, and you accepted it and did not press it further, and you were patient. Thank you! But sadly, some people feel the need to attack and try to embarrass others just because I am not doing what they want me to do. Unbelievable. I do apologize that my hardships, and the way they perceive my life (which sadly is very far from the truth), affect complete strangers, and they feel the need to try to drive me away from something that I love and enjoy doing! Okay, rant over!

Lastly, I am not picky about what I get in the mail! I will never dislike it!

Have an amazing day and happy swapping!

Why I swap

I swap because it makes me happy and keeps me busy. As someone who suffers from anxiety and depression, it is always important to stay busy so the mean depression and anxiety do not take over!

My Mental Health History

In July of 2013, I was diagnosed with Obsessive-Compulsive Disorder (a form of anxiety). I have been treated for it ever since. I got off treatment for a while but then things got bad again in November of 2017. In December of 2019, I was diagnosed with Depression and I am treated for that as well.

I want the stigma of mental illness to end, or at least diminish because I am still a normal person. I work full time, I have hobbies, and friends, and I go out. I share my story so others can share theirs. Feel free to email me if you want to share your story or just want someone to talk to! Let's get through this together!

Favorite Crafts

I am sadly not very crafty but I have started to make my own envelopes. I want to learn how to make pocket letters and other things I see on YouTube.

I am also learning how to make bookmarks using washi tape and popsicle sticks.

However, I LOVE getting crafts! I recently got a crotcheted heart coaster (shout out to the woman who made it) and it made my day! THose who are crafty give me motivation to become more crafty!

Pen Pal Accounts

For those of you who are interested, I have a pen pal instagram! It is @cindyssnailmail ! Follow my journey with me and I post updates on there like if i have to take a break from pen paling and other things like that.

Please Try Not to Send...

Coffee, Mango Flavored things, Dr. Seuss pictures (quotes are okay), anything with lizards.

Pen Pals

I would love to get pen pals out of Swap-Bot, though I know it is not really for that. However, I would prefer if they are females ages 21-35! I have gotten at least one from here and would love more!

To make things easier, fill out this doc if you want to be pen pals! https://docs.google.com/forms/d/1oOn9XpYAkB9VXa_O-Oj2gtbsTkOryRjs8bF6HHgIyZ8/edit



Washi Samples (I never use them, just admire them. So it is okay if you cannot send a lot)






Disney (Especially Winnie the Pooh)



Handmade items


12/20/19 Two of my friends recently passed away and I was diagnosed with depression so I apologize if you did not get "great" swaps from me. I am trying my best! But I am willing to resend now since I am in a better mindset.

02/07/20 I may be taking a break from swapbot starting in March. So after these swaps I am in, chances are I will be logging off for a bit, so I will not be making any swaps at that time either. But I still do not know about that yet. I may change my mind.

02/12/20 College is really kicking my butt and I need to focus! I am sorry that I am taking a break! I enjoy it here but it is needed!

03/05/20 Looks like I am not taking a break! This just makes me too happy!

03/12/20 Hey everyone! Due to the Corona Virus, my University will be shutting down for about two weeks. I will try to bring at least most of my pen pal stuff with me. But please be aware I do not know how this will affect the mailing system. I hope swaps keep happening and that I can keep up with them, but if not I will let you know and I apologize for the inconvenience.

03/21/20 Well, so due to Corona, school has closed for the rest of the semester and now all classes will be online for the time being. I am really sad about it because I love being at school. Tomorrow I am going to clean out my room, including getting all of my pen pal supplies. So I apologize if anything is late, especially if I accidentally left it at school.

04/18/20 I want to apologize to everyone! I have had a hard time with my mental health and had been working on a 30 page paper from school that is worth 40% of my grade. If you have not received a swap from me, know they are going out on Monday. I know most of you guys are good about things like this, I just wanted to make it known.

05/05/20 May take a break from SwapBot after these last few swaps. Summer classes are starting soon and I will start to tutor a child VIA Skype in Taiwan, so I will be busy a lot. I do not want to let anyone down. So if you do not see my on SB for an extended amount of time that is why.

06/08/20 Hey everyone! So on the 18th I will be going to North Carolina, where I will have little to no postal service. And I am going on a plane so I will most likely have no way to bring my supplies. The time that I am there, I will only participate in electronic swaps. I know there was a suspicious user who only participated in electronic swaps, so I just wanted to let you guys know I will start doing mail swaps when I get back! I may stay in NC for about a week or two.

06/28/20 Hey! So I am still in North Carolina. My plan was to stay here until July 9th, but I want to volunteer at the Red Cross here for a bit so I may stay longer. But I will definitely be back by August 1st. So do not worry! You were not forgotten! I will get back to rating when I get back. I did not want to risk your mail getting lost if it was sent up here. It is safe at home.

07/04/20 I will be going home on July 11th. If you have not received a rate from me please be patient! It is probably at home waiting anxiously to be opened :)

07/06/20 Hey guys. So you may be realizing I am making my swaps earlier than they originally were. The reason I am doing this is because I realize not anymore people will sign up for the swap and I don't want to keep anyone waiting, as well as giving you guys more time to fulfill the swaps. Also, these swaps need to be done before I go home. I have a big project to work on.

07/24/20 Hey. So I was admitted to the hospital the other day due to a mental breakdown and I was discharged yesterday. Because of this, I will be taking a tiny break from signing up for more swaps and pen paling. Feel free to reach out to me though, I am still going to be online.

08/05/20 Hey everyone! So I am FINALLY going back to school on Sunday. Because of this, I will take a while to rate due to the letters going to my home and then my family sending them to me at school. I am so excited to be going back!

10/22/20 As you may have noticed, I am only hosting three swaps and have signed up for none. After the 26th, I will be taking a break from SB and writing in general. I have an internship to work on and I am currently fighting for my passing status. Long story. But I need to focus on that for now!

12/07/20 So, sadly I had to withdraw from my internship and do it again, which put me in a bit of a depression. I have not been up to swapping because of that. I am now home for the holidays. Hopefully I can do some more swapping soon. Again, if something did not get to you PLEASE let me know! I will resend as soon as I have my materials again!

01/05/21 Hey everyone and happy new year! I will be returning to school I believe on the 7th. I want to get there before my roommates do to get some cleaning done. My internship redo will start again soon and I am excited! I also have classes but plan to keep on swapping! Because as I said before, it makes me happy. And a goal of mine this year is to be happier since 2020 was so hard. I am still studying elementary education but am trying to get certified in special education as well. I hope you guys have a great 2021!

03/02/21 Hey everyone! I know I have been MIA but I recently made some big life changes. For one, I changed my major from elementary education to child and youth studies. My internship became too much and I realized teaching probably was not my thing. It does not mean teaching is completely out the window, but I may be better working in CPS or DCF. I have also found an apartment to live in starting in May so that is exciting! I hope to start swapping again soon, but I had to take a step back to make some changes and realize what I was going to do!

06/19/21 Hey everyone! I will be taking an indefinite break from SB to work on school, work, and pen paling. I will log on if I get any notifications from the website I will log on, but I will not be signing up for any swaps for a bit.

12/30/21 So, I vacationed in California for Christmas. Sadly, while there, I had a medical emergency (not COVID-related) and was in the hospital for a few days. My traveling home plans sadly got delayed. I am back now but I wanted to explain my late ratings for some email swaps!

03/15/22 As of yesterday, I have decided to resign from my teaching job. I loved the job and my students, but I did not like the treatment I received. I am job hunting, hoping to find something that has to do with tutoring for the time being. I know my leaving abruptly may be seen as "selfish" or "unprofessional" but three others have done it since I have been there, so why can't I? Also, I have to put myself and my well-being first!

04/20/22 Today as of 7:30 AM EST, I have resigned from my job. It was a hard but necessary decision. My plan was to stick it out until the end of the year, but things change, I guess. I feel a mix of both positive and negative emotions right now, but I know in the long run it is for the best. I do have another teaching job lined up that will start soon! So, I am excited!

06/13/22 Goodness Gracious! I have not updated this section for over a month! Some of you may think I am still not working. Ha-ha! Just kidding! I started my current job on May 10th. But I am taking the teaching certification exam on July 1st. If I pass this time around (which I hope I do because I have been studying), I may be able to start teaching elementary school in August! That is exciting and scary at the same time! Wish me luck!

07/16/22 Well, I got good news and bad news. The good news is I passed my exam! Yay! The bad news is that I have not been able to rate swaps because I misplaced my mailbox key and have to get a replacement! I should be able to get that on Tuesday, so I do apologize for anyone waiting for a rating from me!

07/19/22 I got my key and I got my mail! All ratings are in! If you are missing a rating from me please let me know!

07/30/22 I got hired as a 5th-grade math and science teacher! I am beyond excited! I am also a bit nervous! I should know if I will stay in my current location or move closer to the school soon! Once I make that choice, I will change my mailing address on SB!

Thank You

As I said in another section of my profile, there have been probably less than a handful of people who feel the need to attack me and others for really no good reason. The sad truth of life is that not everybody is going to like me, and not everybody has the same sense of empathy as others.

But I do want to thank those fellow swappers who have been understanding and patient when "life got in the way" or I anxiously emailed them telling them a swap was going to be slightly delayed from something as simple as I needed to get more stamps to something more serious as I had a medical emergency. Thank you all who understand that we all have lives outside of this site, and personal matters happen, life happens and some things are out of our control. Thank you for knowing that behind the username is a human being with thoughts and feelings.

I have met so many amazing people here, even if our only relationship is over SB. I have met people who sent me get-well messages when they found out I was in the hospital a while ago, or one fellow member of one of the groups I am in sent me a little care package a while back. All those things may seem small but they do mean so much to me!

If I were to personally thank every person who has touched my heart on SB, we would be here forever, but you know who you are!

Thank you!


Satorii rated for MMHWH - Washi Sample Swap #13 INT on Aug 16, 2022
Comment: Thanks for the washi :))
TonyaAshe rated for MMHWH - Washi Sample Swap #13 USA on Aug 15, 2022
user7949 rated for WTL: My fav 5 swap #1 on Aug 15, 2022
Comment: Thank you so much for the washi. I love the cat one too.
Satorii rated for Washi sample clear out #2 on Aug 12, 2022
Comment: Thanks for all the washi :)
Misa015 rated for Tea 3x3 with Friends! #7 on Aug 9, 2022
Comment: Thank you very much for great tea bags! :)
Lilyhax rated for Brighten My Week Note Card July #4 on Aug 8, 2022
Comment: Thank you for your note good luck with the new job. Thanks for the washi.
Mamabemus rated for Washi sample clear out #2 on Aug 7, 2022
Comment: thanks love the washi
squince rated for Washi sample clear out #2 on Aug 4, 2022
Comment: Thanks!
squince rated for Brighten My Week Note Card July #3 on Aug 4, 2022
Comment: First, the notecard is adorable!! Second, thanks for the washi! Third, Congrats on losing the weight! Glad you're doing great!!! xoxo
Vanna rated for Washi sample clear out #2 on Aug 2, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the washi
hk rated for Washi sample clear out #2 on Aug 2, 2022
Rakume rated for Tea 3x3 with Friends! #7 on Jul 27, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the teas!
Rakume rated for Washi Sample Swap #4 on Jul 27, 2022
Comment: Thank you!
Comment: Thank you for such a fun swap! Sorry for the late rating.
Maddashin rated for 25 Things I want to do in my life on Jul 25, 2022
Comment: Thanks
USAFwife rated for FLL: Favorite summer memories on Jul 25, 2022
Comment: Thank you for your nice letter and for sharing your summer memories. :)
JKartstuff rated for ESG: Two Truths & A Lie on Jul 24, 2022
Comment: Ahh, you got me!! It was fun to learn some interesting things about you though!
Comment: Thanks for the list! :)
dorcii rated for Would You Rather #4 on Jul 24, 2022
Comment: Thanks for your answers, and I'm sorry for the delayed rating!

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ChristyNichole on Jul 19, 2022:

I just read where you lost your box key! I was coming to check on the swap I sent out last week. I hope you were able to get that fixed and get back to swapping. It sounds like swapping is something that really brings you joy, I hate that you're having to take a break from it. :(

grammypammy on Oct 4, 2021:


Enjoy your day!

Hugs, Pam

LavenderSprinkles on Oct 2, 2021:

Hey I was thinking of you lately. Long time since we swapped. Hope all is well.

thisismeAXiD on Oct 1, 2021:

happy birthday month

lyssathemermaid on Jul 1, 2021:

Hi Cindy! I've received the RAK :-) thank you so very much! Best of wishes and for a relaxing break <3

lyssathemermaid on Apr 13, 2021:

Thank you Cindy for the angel, it got here safely and i loved it all! Lovely host, i appreciate you immeasurably!! <3

dcp0112 on Apr 5, 2021:

Have a wonder spring & have fun planting those beautiful flowers!!

morganmaybelater on Apr 5, 2021:

Thank you so much for the Angel for the swap! Take care!

thisismeAXiD on Oct 1, 2020:

Happy birthday

Traceyk on Aug 31, 2020:

Hi Cindy ~ no, you don't need to resend. I just didn't want you getting rated down in any future swaps. Most partners will contact you before rating anything lower than a 5, but sometimes they don't. I wanted your swap experience to be happy and not stressful. :)

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