TeaNi

On Nov. 27, 2021, I mailed out my 1000th swap. Nov. 23, 2024 marked 17 years as an active member of swap-bot :)

Hi! I'm Nicole. I'm here because snail mail is a fun, low-stress hobby I can invest more or less time in as the seasons of my life allow, and I enjoy the connections made with snail-mail partners from all over. :) The info in my profile is for those, like me, who prefer lengthy profiles to get to know their partners. However, if you are a "less is more" person, feel free to skip over the chattiness & just please avoid the items in the "Please No" section (hopefully not too constraining). Other than that, I enjoy the many creative ideas people come up with in their snail-mail and my partners need not feel like they have to be profile-specific unless the swap calls for it!

I live in Northwest GA, am married, am mom to 2 beautiful young (adult) women, and in 2025 became a grandmother to my first grandchild! My daughters decreed my grandma name is “Gigi”.

I enjoy thrifting, reading, visiting art museums & galleries, hiking/walking, healthy-eating, attending church, tea-drinking, houseplants, my cat, my dog, my pet donkey Daisy, sunshine & summertime, and an occasional nip of whiskey! ;)

In sum- to quote one of my favorite poets, Langston Hughes, "Well, I enjoy eating, sleeping, drinking, and loving people. I like to work and read, to learn new things and to understand life."

My husband and I have a home & growing hobby farm (mostly his hobby) "out in the country". I'm enjoying embracing a small town lifestyle, after having lived in a metro/urban area my entire life.

Travel has been a huge part of my life, personally & academically. Places I've visited &/or studied: Mexico (spent many summers there as a child & briefly studied at university), Canada, Cuba (study abroad), Brazil, France, England, Spain, Slovenia, Italy (taught English for a summer), Vatican City, as well as Puerto Rico and 27 U.S. states + D.C. so far. I love to travel, even though I'm skittish about flying!

Please know that this is is no way meant to be a 'list of expectations", just some info for swaps that call for well-filled out profile likes & because I personally like to have lots to go on with my own partners' profiles. :)

My favorite colors are blues- all shades from sky to navy, especially combined with white. I'm also drawn toward soft pinks, lavender. light neutrals, and forest green. I actually enjoy most colors depending on the context (i.e. some I like generally but wouldn't wear). The exceptions would probably be I'm not much a fan of large doses of drab olives, mustard yellows, oranges, or browns- I guess the fall colors are not my personal palette unless it's fall seasonal items.

• A: Art, Art museums & galleries, Architecture (esp. the designs of Oscar Niemeyer & Zaha Hadid)
• B: books, bourbons, birthstones (esp. aquamarine, pearl, opal, ruby, citrine),
• C: Carolina dogs, Cats! (esp. grey tabbies), cognac, champagne, clouds, courtesy
• D: daisies, daffodils, Dolly Parton, disco balls, dollhouse minis (1:12), donkeys
• E: ephemera pockets, envelopes that are handmade or decorated, embroidery, eyelet
• F: "fussy cut" paper images, forests, Fornasetti imagery, French culture & language, flowers (daisies, daffodils, honeysuckle, wisteria, lilac, English garden roses, peonies, ranunculus, hydrangea, tiger lilies, lupine, wildflowers),
• G: Groundhogs, Garfield & Odie, Gluebooks.
• H: hand lettering, hiking, honeybees, houseplants, handkerchiefs (vintage)
• I: Iconography of Eastern Orthodox Christianity
• J: Junk Journals, Japanese stationery
• K: Kittens
• L: lemon prints, library & literary themes, linguistics, lunar phases, Latin American cultures
• M: Maine, matchbooks or boxes (with matches still inside), Mexican folk art, "Mamma Mia!"
• N: National Parks
• O: Opera (live), Owls
• P: photography, poetry (uplifting, not depressing), polaroids, politeness, Pusheen
• Q: Queretaro, Mexico (my childhood second home)
• R: rural life
• S: seascapes, Selena Quintanilla, Southern US culture/ lifestyle/ aesthetics/ music/ food, etc... (e.g. some of my favorite movies are Big Fish, Fried Green Tomatoes, Steel Magnolias, & O Brother Where Art Thou), simple living, sunsets, sunshine & summertime
• T: travel, tea time, toile prints
• U: underwater images, umbrellas
• V: Vintage (ephemera, clothing, books, home items)
• W: watercolor paintings, whiskey, wholesomeness, wide washi
• X: xenophilia :)
• Y: YOUR art (doodles/ drawings/ sketches, watercolors/ paintings, collage, mail art, altered ephemera, photography, etc...)
• Z: Zibaldone

I believe in the "3 r's": reduce, reuse, recycle! Much of my clothing and home decor comes from thrift/vintage stores.

POSTCARDS:
If you don't know what to write, I enjoy quotes, song lyrics, haikus, jokes, or simple notes about you or your day.

My postcard wishlist:

• National Parks, especially scenic or the WPA style illustrations or any postcards that look like old fashioned travel posters
• fine art, art museums
• colorful/ Kodachrome vintage scenic cards
• women or children reading
• people dancing
• cats or people with cats
• Places- Europe: London, Paris, Strasbourg, Barcelona, Madrid, Rome, Venice, Slovenia, Italian Alps
  South America: Brazil (Goiania, Salvador, Brasilia)
  North/Central America: Mexico (Acapulco, Cancun, Mexico City, Queretaro, San Miguel de Allende, Pena de Bernal), Cuba (Havana), Puerto Rico (San Juan), U.S. (Los Angeles, Tucson, St. Augustine, Amelia Island, Savannah, Jekyll Island, Chattanooga, Birmingham, Nashville, Hilton Head Island, Washington D.C., Pittsburgh, NY City, Columbus OH, Maine- Portland & Bar Harbor/ Acadia), Milwaukee, Canada (Montreal, Niagara Falls, Ontario, Victoria).

Teas
I drink tea every day, but I've become a bit picky over the years. I love a cuppa Earl Grey in the morning, flavored green tea with jasmine or mint in the afternoon (not a fan of plain old green tho), and herbal teas in the evening- I especially love spearmint, lemongrass, and flavored rooibos. My favorite bagged tea brands are Yogi, Traditional Medicinals, NUMI & Runa brands, and I always like trying new flavors in those lines or other unique surprises you may have to share!

BOOKS
If anyone wants to pass along a book to me they think I would enjoy, that would be lovely! If sending media mail makes it more affordable, please feel free, and you can message me the "note" to go with it (since technically media mail is only supposed to include educational items, no personal correspondence).

For fiction I enjoy mostly realistic contemporary or historical, some magical realism, and some dystopia (mostly YA for that genre). I enjoy both classics and contemporary novels. My favorite contemporary author is probably Liane Moriarty. I also enjoy Fredrik Backman and Amity Gaige is brilliant. Recently Ive been into Japanese novels. Please no horror, dark/occult, or graphic violence/murder. I'm also not into the "harlequin" type romances, but a novel with a romantic plot is fine (for example I loved "The Time Traveler's Wife").

As for nonfiction I mostly read memoirs, particularly related to expats exploring international language and cultures, or people who had very rural or nature-rich childhoods. I'm passionately and professionally interested in linguistics (socio, psycho, historical, cultural, etc) and my favorite linguist is John McWhorter. I really enjoy his books as well as his take on current issues.

Thrift store swaps
When I thrift, I always look out for mini bells (metal or porcelain; non souvenir), vintage hankies or napkins with embroidery, vintage/ retro brooches, silk scarves, interesting belt buckles, small original paintings, needlepoint, & vintage (unstained) baby clothes.

crudity, nudity, profanity, or religious/ spiritual materials in swaps I'm sent (Orthodox Christian iconography is in my likes, so obviously, that's an exception). Thanks for respecting my preferences, I'll do the same for those I send to.

As for book swaps, please no horror, dark/occult, or graphic salacious/violence/murder. I'm not too keen on most sci-fi, but I do love anything to do with time travel.

the following things won't offend me, but in the interest of full disclosure and saving your postage on things I probably won't use or pass on...

I prefer not to receive:

Please do NOT send me friendship books or sticker bags or other such "pass it along" mail. I don't participate in them, so their journey will probably end with me.

broken or rusty jewelry or other such items. I know some people are very creative with these things, but I'm not.

I don't sew or do any needle crafts so please save your extra needle craft supplies for someone who will actually use and enjoy them.

Not a fan of: items with loose glitter that falls off when I open the package, or anything poop or barf related (e.g. emojis, and while I enjoy cats-not so much images of them in litterboxes, etc).

I'm not into most licensed character imagery/ items (e.g. Disney, Marvel, Starwars, etc) with the exception being cat characters which are usually a "yes please!" (i.e. I do love Garfield, Pusheen, Aristocats, etc)

Also I have been put on a restrictive diet by my physician so other than bagged teas, I'd prefer not to receive anything edible.

I'm not super crafty. I know to many people this might seem strange because they consider swap-bot to be a craft exchange site. I consider it and use it as a pen-pal/ snail-mail site.
I do enjoy creating collage journals/ glue-books/ smash books & mail art

If you are digging through your stash and supplies and trying to figure out what to send me, crafty/ random destash things I would enjoy and use include:
* random single playing cards with images of cats or owls on them. Why? I don't know, but I've received a few over the years here, and now I have an odd little collection that I find myself strangely fond of :)
* beautiful/ interesting ephemera or images to put in my glue books
* ephemera pockets, folders, and tags
* mini file folders
* nature/ animal themed wood-mounted rubber stamps (gently used fine)
* "grown-up" pretty stickers (flat, I'm not a fan of 3-D)
* handmade or decorated envelopes * random trivia or vocabulary cards. * random Polaroids or photos with a “dreamy” or retro quality about them
* charms for jewelry making

Not exhaustive, just a few of my favorites...

Movies:
Amelie, Aristocats, Baby Driver, Beetlejuice, Big Fish, Casino, Dead Poets Society, Edward Scissorhands, Ella Enchanted, Enchanted April, Fantastic Mr. Fox, Fried Green Tomatoes, Harry Potter (all), Il Postino, Life is Beautiful, Mamma Mia (1 & 2), My Big Fat Greek Wedding, O Brother Where Art Thou, Princess Bride, A Room with a View, Selena, Stardust, Steel Magnolias, Sound of Music, When Harry Met Sally

Music Ben Harper, Billy Joel, Cat Stevens, Cesarea Evora, Crowded House, the Cure, Dolly Parton, Elton John, Feist, Fiona Apple, Marisa Monte, Nirvana, Prince, Queen, Seu Jorge, Tears for Fears, Thomas Rhett, Zac Brown

I rate fairly according to swap-bot's rating criteria. If I receive a swap that meets all posted swap requirements, including being sent on time, I rate a 5. If I personally feel the swap was extra special to me, and that actually happens a lot, I add a heart For those that are new to swapping, and aren't aware, though, I'd just like to point out that it's generally considered very bad form to ask for hearts; it's really subjective. If the swap does not meet requirements, including being unreasonably late, I'll rate a 3. If I feel a reasonable amount of time has gone by and I have not received anything I will contact you first before rating a 1. I try to reflect my swap experience honestly and fairly, both for the person sending to me & the rest of the s-b community. You can count on me to rate quickly (although I don't check my POB every day, so don't get nervous if your d.c. says the package has been delivered & I haven't rated the same day; probably just didn't check my box yet, give me a day or 2;)).

To those I send to, I pledge to swap unto others as I would have swapped unto me; I'll send on time (or would pm you if for some extenuating circumstance I couldn't) & I'll put effort into making swaps that I hope would make my partners smile.

My swap-bot weak spot: replying to profile comments. I will reply to pm's (that need replying) but admit that since I can view comments from e-mail without logging into s-b, I sometimes forget to reply later or they get pushed off my profile quickly by other comments & there is no way to mark them "unread". So the short of it is: if you really need a reply from me, better to pm than comment, though I do love sweet comments I get that require no direct reply!:)

These days I'm in less official swaps, and enjoy granting wishes for my favorite groups, Wishlist and Cheap Postage swaps, tags, and fun
I have so much fun granting wishes & finding happy surprises in my mail box! :)

package pro-tip:
I've received some packages with postage of $10 or more & the packages aren’t even large, just weighty. I feel bad for my fellow swappers spending so much on postage when I know they could be saving a bit. If you send heavy packages out on occasion, order yourself some priority mail padded flat rate envelopes from USPS. There is no cost to deliver them to your home & you can fill them up as much as you want for $10.60 as of February 2024. These are usually not available in the post office though, so you have to order them online,