Swap-bot Time: October 22, 2020 12:08 am


Date Joined: October 11, 2018
Last Online: October 20, 2020
Birthday: May 4
Country: United States
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Last updated on: 13 October 2020

Please Note My Address Has Changed.

My name is Evan. I am a girl 🎀. I love things with my name on them!!

If you make my name (just the EVAN part) pretty on my envelope or letter, I will be adding it to a collage I am making of my name.

🏳️‍🌈♉️📝🔮 👸🏻🎥🍄🧣👩🏻‍🦯🦸🏻‍♀️👩🏻‍💻☦️🤬🎧📓🏰🐕‍🦺

Autistic Brave Curious Dreamer Eccentric Fairy Gracious Hellion Imaginative Joyful Kind Lonely Magical Native Optimistic Polymath Quirky Royal Synethete Tenacious Underestimated Vivacious Whimsical Xena Youthful Zealous


  • I am autistic 🧠
  • I have a chihuahua
  • I got married on Friday 13 September 2019
  • I am Pansexual 🏳️‍🌈
  • I am Taurus 🐃
  • I have a degree in dance 🩰
  • I am an actor 🎭 - but COVID, so I am a writer and crafter atm
  • I drink my coffee black ☕️ and my wine bubbly🥂
  • I like to do yoga everyday 🧘🏻‍♀️
  • I have two Travelers Notebooks - Standard size (mainly Peter Pan themed) and Passport size
  • I like to play TTRPG 🎲 (like the one my husband wrote - see link above) and I am Chaotic Neutral
  • I enjoy writing letters and having pen pals. I could always use stationary items and forever stamps

July 2020 was rough. I lost my sister to AML Leukemia. Upon returning home from her funeral, I was diagnosed with RRMS. It has been a lot for me to process. I have begun being a lot more selective of the swaps I participate in and create. Focusing on RAK and Wishlist type things. Thank you everyone for your understanding and grace.

PLEASE NOTE: I am only on Swap Bot a MAX of ONE hour a day (I literally have my ipad set to disallow me to be on longer) So if I don’t get back to you straightaway that is why. Be patient, I will be back tomorrow.


  • Color: GREY, Tiffany Blue, Orange, most Greens
  • Number: 13
  • Emoji: 🤷🏻‍♀️
  • Word: Hustle
  • Flower: 🌻 Sunflowers and Amnesia Roses
  • Animal: Mice
  • Place: Disneyland
  • Candy: Nerds Rope
  • Cookie: Russian Tea Cakes
  • Cupcake: Sprinkles Banana Cupcakes
  • Ice Cream: Vanilla
  • Fruit: Strawberries
  • Pizza: Cheese
  • Sandwich: Grilled PB&J
  • Cereal: Cheerios
  • Cold Drink: Lemon Lime Koolaid (The green one)
  • Coffee: Black
  • Tea: Nutcracker Sweet by Celestial Seasons
  • Warm Drink: Warm Milk with Honey
  • Book: Peter Pan
  • Comic: Mouse Guard
  • Author: Neil Gaiman
  • Artist: Jeffery Veregge
  • Song: Moonlight Sonata
  • Band: Baby Metal
  • TV Show: Doctor Who or Firefly
  • Cartoon: Gravity Falls, Foster’s home for Imaginary Friends, Code Lyoko
  • Top 10 favorite movies (because I can not pick one!): Peter Pan(2003), Hook, Brave, Tomorrowland, Pacific Rim, Practical Magic, Onward, Stardust, Penelope, and Captain Marvel
  • Super Hero: Captain Marvel
  • Season: Fall
  • Sport: Olympics
  • Childhood Toy: Monchhichi
  • Holiday: Halloween followed by Russian Orthodox Christmas  (Jan 7th)


  • crochet 🧶
  • pen-paling 💌
  • kitchen witchin’ 🍵/apothecary 🧪
  • dance🩰
  • designing 👖altered 👚clothing
  • Napping 🛌


  • Disney 🎄 Ornaments
  • Keys - Skeleton🗝 Modern 🔑
  • Thimbles
  • Disneyland 🗺 Ephemera
  • Miniature toys (smaller than a quarter) and polyhedral dice 🎲

Things that make me SMILE

  • Gudetama 🥚
  • Mori 🍄 Girl 🌿
  • Còsagach (Scottish Hygge)
  • Sofia the First (mildly addicted)
  • Fairy Sized household items 🧚🏻‍♀️
  • The little tear off stickers sheets like Mrs. Grossmans and Sandylion (doesn’t have to be those brands, I just like that type)
  • Chihuahuas 🐕
  • Snails 🐌
  • Holly Hobbie
  • Sheet face masks - beautifying kind not COVID type
  • Otters🦦
  • Easy to follow Recipes on 3x5 recipe cards 🧁
  • Trash pandas🦝
  • Workout and Weightloss Inspiration
  • Anything with my name EVAN on it
  • Figure Skates ⛸ and Ice Skating
  • Orange 🧡 Awareness ribbons
  • The words “Believe” “Hustle” & “Hope”
  • Carousel Horses 🎠 and other animals with poles thru them
  • Vintage Spaceships 🛸 and NASA  🚀
  • Scottish things/ clan Grant 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿
  • Snow White 🍎

September 20th, My husband and I are moving into our first home on our own (we have lived with roommates up till now). It’s exciting. But as we have always had room mates, meaning we also do not have a lot of household items of our own. We have a home wishlist above. Anything inspired by things on the wishlist is fine too. It doesn’t even have to be new.


Peter Pan

My whole life pretty much revolves around PETER PAN. It’s my main special interest. When I was a little girl I struggled to make friends - I was a bit awkward, autistic, and we moved a lot. The book became my best friend (I have read it well over 150 times to date) and that fondness grew and grew. GOOD RULE OF THUMB: If it makes me (or you for that matter) think of Peter Pan or Neverland it is a winner!

PETER PAN things I am wishing for ✨

  • Peter Pan things from Amazon Wishlist or Etsy Wishlist links above - or anything INSPIRED by it
  • Peter Pan ATC’s - especially secondary characters
  • Peter Pan Art - If it is non-Disney your own version or vision of Peter or any other characters EVEN BETTER!
  • Peter Pan ACCESSORIES (Jewelry, Hair things, scarves, hats, etc)
  • Movie inspired things: Hook, Peter Pan 2003, Disney’s Peter Pan & Return to Neverland, Finding Neverland, Neverland (BBC series)
  • Disney items with Peter Pan on them (Pins, stationary, toys, clothes, etc)
  • PETER PAN Ephemera
  • Green hat with embroidered red feather or black hat with black embroidered feather
  • Peter Pan Handmade ANYTHING
  • Peter Pan Journals and story books
  • KISSES (Thimbles and Acorns)
  • Peter Pan Notecards, Postcards and other stationery items - zazzle is okay

I also have a PETER PAN GROUP now!!!!!! Check it out!! Copy and Paste:




🚫ALLERGIES: Walnuts (other nuts are okay)

🚫Anything musty or smoky smelling - it kills my senses and overwhelms me and goes in the garbage.

🚫AUTISM SPEAKS anything - puzzle pieces, blue pieces especially. This organization is not supportive of actually autistic people. I don’t agree with their philosophy, nor do they speak for me. (Advocating moment)

🚫 Propaganda of any kind


I had found Swap Bot on someone’s profile on Postcrossing, and instantly fell in love. The thought of filling my postbox (and others) with Happy Mail was so intriguing. In the beginning I signed up for everything that caught my fancy. When I suddenly found my self overwhelmed with stuff. Being Autistic and a bit of a Minimalist it got to be a bit much. When I tried signing up for swaps to get rid of the stuff, I always forgot I just end up getting stuff in return. I started doing RAKs and Tags, to eliminate the excess. I am now in a comfortable place swap bot wise and stuff wise. I now try to sign up for things I would be happy not only to send, but receive as well. Aside from my group founder responsibilities to keep my group busy, that is.

When I sign up for a swap, I usually have it finished and packaged before the swap is assigned. Except for profile swaps of course. Once it is handed off to either the post box or someone to take it to the post office (as I am blind and getting there is hard) I will mark it “sent”. Once I receive a swap I ALWAYS leave feedback promptly. If I have not left feedback on your swap yet, I have not received it. After I leave feedback I move the swap to “archived”. Because of this I do not know if you have received your swap or not. I don’t chase feedback. So, if you have NOT received something from me that was marked sent, please reach out to me. I am always open for communication.

I am here for fun. This is a leisure activity for me. A get away from the normal monotony of life, so to speak. If I have to stress over dates, ratings and hunting things down it is no longer fun. Then what is the point? I do not take part in drama or gossip. If I am faced with either I will walk away, and most likely block the people involved. This is NOT what I am here for.

My rules of swapping:

  • Keep it as personal as I can
  • Always communicate honestly and promptly
  • Have fun

Also - I do reuse items that I do not find useful. There is a slight chance you will get something you sent me back in a different swap if we are partnered again.

I would LOVE to do more private swaps! If something in my profile catches your eye, or you have an idea for a swap, I am always up for trying something new! And I love penpals!


AmericanHeiress rated for DISNEY PIN TRADING SWAP on Oct 21, 2020
Comment: Thanks
banjobraids rated for GAG: Classic Movie Monsters on Oct 21, 2020
Comment: You did an awesome job with the materials you had on hand! I love the iridescent bats and wings and can't stop looking at them. Thanks for this awesome postcard too! I hope your move goes smoothly. Thanks so much! :):)
Copperyn rated for ITW: Autumn/Fall In the Woods on Oct 20, 2020
Comment: Thank you for the lovely swap! I love the cute autumn stickers, coffee card, beautiful Hallowe'en postcard, and awesome witch sticker - I'll have to find somewhere really good to put it! <3 (I'm also impressed at how quickly this arrived!)
LunarSynth rated for Handmade Recipe Card: Dessert on Oct 20, 2020
Comment: I'm so excited to try the mason jar ice cream recipe out! My boyfriend and I were actually complaining about our massive/clunky ice cream maker taking up too much space, and we have some mason jars...it's perfect timing! Thank you so much :)
Comment: ❤️🤟You’re the bestest, Sis! 🌺🤙🏽Thank you for sharing your pretty white lotus pai-sho & including my name on it in Japanese calligraphy! I love it and cherish the thoughtfulness that you always put into your swaps! You’re a swap-star (like a rock star but better in my opinion) 😁
vanneparis rated for JAMS - Starters w/ a Raven on Oct 14, 2020
Comment: Hi Evan- These Raven Starters are EPIC!!! I love animals wearing people clothes and doing human activities. One of my favorite themes! Thank you so much for such a special swap. I was so happy to have you as my partner. -Vanne
banjobraids rated for I&B: Fall/Halloween Postcard on Oct 14, 2020
Comment: Very cute card! I hope you have the coziest, loveliest Autumn season :):):) Thanks! :):)
myancey rated for TWO Years!! on Oct 11, 2020
Comment: Thanks for the power balls!!!!! Super cool and Micah has always loved bouncy balls I actually have a box of bouncy balls that he has given me oVer the years. Mostly pink ones. I really appreciate it and love it. Thank you. I continue to hunt for things for ya that I know will make u smile. Again thank you
Comment: This card is so fantastic!! Haunted Mansion is my all time favorite attraction! 😍🤩 Thank you so much! 💖
AnnaL rated for JAMS - Starters w/ a Pumpkin on Oct 10, 2020
Comment: Hi Evan, received your JAMS pumpkin starters, will mail to 3rd person next Tuesday, Monday postoffice is closed for the holiday. AnnaL.
Comment: Thank you for the sweet envelopes and lovely crossover letter!!
fairyduster53 rated for Mini Bunting for your Journal on Oct 9, 2020
Comment: Thank you for the sweet bunting!!
Comment: Thank you so much, Evan! I can't even find the words to describe how lovely and special this package was. I love every bit of it so much! ❤
Response: I am so glad!! I had much fun putting it together.
gerberdaisy rated for I&B: Happy Fall Y’All on Oct 7, 2020
Comment: What fun Fall Swap! Thank you for the goodies. I love hot cider and will definitely treat myself as soon as it is cool enough!
SusanSpooky rated for Halloween Lucky Parcel on Oct 3, 2020
Comment: Thank you for a cute lucky parcel. Everything was fun, I especially liked the mini poster cards. Thanks for joining my swap!
chimerix rated for JAMS - Starters w/ a Feather on Oct 2, 2020
Comment: Thank you for the pretty starters! Aloha!
georgiafae rated for I&B: Profile Swap on Oct 2, 2020
Comment: First of all thanks for creating this swap and lucky me I got to be your partner! Such wonderful goodness- love the Poe book-the great Nightmare Before Christmas stickers-stained glass monster coloring pages and of course the "hippie" notecards! And your notecard and nice letter. This was a fabulous swap-thanks for sharing! Take care and stay safe!
CANNEKCUL rated for Avatar, The Last Airbender - USA on Sep 29, 2020
Comment: Awww...Thank you so much for the cutest drawing of Iroh! He is one of my all-time favorites. I love the sticker as well.
banjobraids rated for I&B: 3-2-1 CONTACT! on Sep 29, 2020
Comment: Hi Evan! So good to see you! We haven't swapped in a minute. Thanks for the lovely letter and telling me about your name. Names are so important and sacred. I also wrote about the Olympics! What's more inspiring than that, really. Love these stickers, especially Jack Skellington! Thank you! :):):)
Rabbitfreedom rated for Private Halloween ATCs on Sep 29, 2020
Comment: Oh, these are lovely! So happy to add them to my collection!
Response: I am so glad you like them! I had fun making them!

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Kirkdebb on Oct 21, 2020:

Thank you for the Halloween RAK! My daughter claimed the stickers and tea immediately. My younger ones love the Halloween treat bags. Thank you sooo much for offering such a great RAK!

LadyJo on Oct 20, 2020:

Thank you for the AWG October wishes of really neat Christmas stickers!

BusyB on Oct 18, 2020:

Thank you for the AZ postcard with the GF recipe! Yummm! So thoughtful you sent a GF recipe. AWG October

yvonne401 on Oct 16, 2020:

Thank you for AWG October wishes of Halloween postcards, Halloween craft supplies and Christmas craft supplies! Thanks for thinking of me!



hollycm6 on Oct 14, 2020:

It arrived!!! Wow, that WAS a big package! Thank you, what fun!!! And what a great idea for the rv! :-)

susieq11 on Oct 14, 2020:

Thank you for the deer stickers for WW October! They’re really cute and will be great for the holidays! : )

TryshaH81 on Oct 14, 2020:

Thank you for the NBC stickers

kiddomerriweather on Oct 13, 2020:

Thank you for the Halloween surprises you sent me for my October WW! I love the stickers and the PC's. I can't wait to use them. =D

LadyJo on Oct 12, 2020:

Thank you for the AWG September wishes. I will surely use these stamps!

1OldfoolPlanner on Oct 12, 2020:

HAPPY HALLOWEEN! Hope you have a fun and fabulously spooky time! Hugs, Jill

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