Last updated on: July 25, 2020 NOTE: If you sent me something or saw something that was on my profile, and it no longer is. That’s okay. I STILL like the things I take off, I just like to change up what I get in the mail from time to time.

JULY 13, 2020: I am finally home. There is much recovering to do. Plus, I am coming home to one of the hottest Covid places in the US. Lovely. I will take a bit to get back in the swing of things. I just wanted to say thank you everyone for the kind words. I hear you, I just may not have got back to everyone.

JULY 1, 2020: I am flying out to Florida. My sister has lost her battle with leukemia. I have sent out all swaps. I will still be participating as much as I can. I love the community here, but please be patient with me, as I will not be leaving feedback till I get back from Florida. Thank you for being understanding during this time.

My name is Evan. I am a girl 🎀. I love things with my name on them.

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Autistic Brave Curious Dreamer Eccentric Fairy Gracious Hellion Imaginative Joyful Kind Lonely Magical Native Optimistic Polymath Quirky Royal Synethete Tenacious Underestimated Vivacious Whimsical Xena Young Zealous

FACTS ABOUT ME

• I am autistic 🧠
• I have a chihuahua 🐕‍🦺 autism service dog
• I am married - Friday 13 September 2020
• I am Sugpiaq Alutiiq (Native Alaskan)☃️ & Scottish 🏴󠁧󠁢󠁳󠁣󠁴󠁿 (Clan Grant ✊🏻)
• I am Pansexual 🏳️‍🌈
• I am Taurus 🐃
• I am a third generation kitchen witch 🍴
• I am ISFP 👉🏻👈🏻
• I am Slytherin 🐍
• I have synesthesia (auditory tactile) 🗣
• I am legally blind 👩🏻‍🦯 (I can see about 10-12 feet)
• I have a degree in dance 🩰
• I am a writer 👩🏻‍💻 and hooker (I crochet)🧶 - I am usually an actor 🎭 - but, COVID
• I have 11 tattoos and many more planned.
• My life motto is “Live Simply”
• We have a minimalist, simplistic, slow lifestyle and have a very còsagach (Scottish Hygge) home
• My favorite colors are Tiffany Blue, Orange and Grey.
• My favorite movies are Tomorrowland, Pacific Rim and Captain Marvel
• Fave TV right now is Sofia the First, Gravity falls and Avatar the Last Airbender
• My favorite animals are 🐁 Mice. I also really like seahorses and 🐌
• I am currently reading/listening to Redwall by Brian Jacques
• My favorite candy is Nerds Rope
• I eat cheerios everyday 🥣
• I drink Lemon Lime Koolaid (the green one) as often as I can 💚 Thank you Mystery Person who sent me a whole box of it!
• I drink my coffee black and have Sleepytime Tea (Celestial Seasonings) every night before bed.
• I like to do yoga everyday 🧘🏻‍♀️
• I am climbing Mount Everest in my house (58,070 stairs!) 🏔
• I collect Keys (modern 🔑 and 🗝 skeleton), Unique Teaspoons and Demitasse spoons, button bouquet stems (or vintage buttons to make them)
• I journal all-day-everyday in quad-lined 📓 composition books (which are always a welcome gift)
• I like play TTRPG 🎲 (like the one my husband wrote - see link above) and I am Chaotic Neutral
• I enjoy writing letters and having pen pals. I could always use stationary items and forever stamps
• One of my hobbies I love to do is curate lists on pinterest @ipiluni and Amazon . I also make lists in my journals.

PLEASE NOTE: I am only on Swap Bot a MAX of ONE hour a day (I literally have my ipad set to disallow me to be on longer) So if I don’t get back to you straightaway that is why. Be patient, I will be back tomorrow.

What I would love most

Anything MADE BY YOU. Any Artwork or Craft: ATCs, Handmade Jewelry, Handmade PCs, Paintings, Sketches, Paper Crafts, Crochet, Sewn, Knit, Stitched - If it is made by you, I WILL LOVE IT. Because it is unique and can’t just be found anywhere. Especially things with my name on them! ALSO - Mail Art!! Decorate your envelopes. Stickers, Washi, drawings, Painting! I love being just as excited to look at my mail as I am to open it.

Peter Pan

My whole life pretty much revolves around PETER PAN. It’s my main special interest. When I was a little girl I struggled to make friends - I was a bit awkward, autistic, and we moved a lot. The book became my best friend (I have read it well over 150 times to date) and that fondness grew and grew. GOOD RULE OF THUMB: If it makes me (or you for that matter) think of Peter Pan or Neverland it is a winner!

PETER PAN things I am wishing for ✨

• Peter Pan Amazon Wishlist or Etsy Wishlist links above - or anything INSPIRED by it
• Peter Pan ATC’s and other Art - If it is non-Disney your own version or vision of Peter or any other characters EVEN BETTER!
• Peter Pan ACCESSORIES (Jewelry, Hair things, scarves...)
• Disney items with Peter Pan on them (Pins, stationary, toys, clothes, etc)
• PETER PAN Ephemera with adventurous/ Peter Pan type words and things on it - printed off things too!
• Green hat with embroidered red feather
• Peter Pan Handmade ANYTHING
• Peter Pan Journals and story books
• KISSES (Thimbles and Acorns)
• Peter Pan Notecards, Postcards and other stationery items
• RED FEATHERS (doesn’t have to be actual feather)
• I am making a Peter Pan ribbon chandelier and would love RIBBON in any width and length(the longer the better) or strings of trims (rikrak, pearls, lace, fibers, etc) in any the following colors- GREEN (any and all shade), Gold, Tan/brown, White/Ivory, Red
• Woodland animals and life (makes me think of Neverland) accessories, art and such

🚫PLEASE DO NOT SEND ME PACKAGES WHERE EVERY SEAM IS TAPED SHUT. THESE ARE VERY DIFFICULT FOR ME TO OPEN AND CAUSE ME PANIC, AS I HAVE BROKE, CUT AND TORE ITEMS INSIDE TRYING TO GET INTO ENVELOPES. I UNDERSTAND IT IS REINFORCEMENT BUT THERE HAS TO BE ANOTHER WAY. (Like - leaving one corner available is super helpful)

🚫ALLERGIES: Walnuts (other nuts are okay)

🚫Anything musty or smoky smelling - it kills my senses and overwhelms me and goes in the garbage.

🚫 Please do not fold your art if you are sending me art. I want to be able to frame it or put it in my album. Thanks

🚫AUTISM SPEAKS anything - puzzle pieces, blue pieces especially. This organization is not supportive of actually autistic people. I don’t agree with their philosophy, nor do they speak for me. (Advocating moment)

🚫 Propaganda of any kind

I had found Swap Bot on someone’s profile on Postcrossing, and instantly fell in love. The thought of filling my postbox (and others) with Happy Mail was so intriguing. In the beginning I signed up for everything that caught my fancy. When I suddenly found my self overwhelmed with stuff. Being Autistic and a Minimalist it was a bit much. When I tried signing up for swaps to get rid of the stuff, I always forgot I just end up getting stuff in return. I started doing RAKs and Tags, to eliminate the excess. I am now in a comfortable place swap bot wise and stuff wise. I now try to sign up for things I would be happy not only to send, but receive as well. Aside from my group founder responsibilities to keep my group busy, that is.

When I sign up for a swap, I usually have it finished and packaged before the swap is assigned. Except for profile swaps of course. Once it is handed off to either the post box or someone to take it to the post office (as I am blind and getting there is hard) I will mark it “sent”. Once I receive a swap I leave feedback promptly. If I have not left feedback on your swap yet, I have not received it. After I leave feedback I move the swap to “archived”. Because of this I do not know if you have received your swap or not. I don’t chase feedback. So, if you have NOT received something from me that was marked sent, please reach out to me. I am always open for communication.

I am here for fun. This is a leisure activity for me. A get away from the normal monotony of life, so to speak. If I have to stress over dates, ratings and hunting things down it is no longer fun. Then what is the point? I do not take part in drama or gossip. If I am faced with either I will walk away, and most likely block the people involved. This is NOT what I am here for.

My rules of swapping:

• Keep it as personal as I can
• Always communicate honestly and promptly
• Have fun

Also - I do reuse items that I do not find useful. There is a slight chance you will get something you sent me back in a different swap if we are partnered again.

I would LOVE to do more private swaps! If something in my profile catches your eye, or you have an idea for a swap, I am always up for trying something new! And I love penpals!