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Date Joined: July 16, 2018
Last Online: February 20, 2020

Country: United States

About Me


Updated: Aug. 28th, 2019

Greetings form southern Maine,

ME: My name is Neal. It is spelled as if it were a last name because it was my Mother's maiden name. My family name could be both a first or last as well. Back in the old days, when I used film to take pictures, the drugstore would have my prints filed under my first name more often than my last.

My wife, of 42 years (and bless her for putting up with me) and I live on a country road in a small rural town in southern Maine. I retired three years ago after 40+ years in electronic work. She still works at the local hospital, but has cut back to two or three shifts a week so we have more time to do things together.

We have two grown daughters and a granddaughter, who is two-and-a-half years old. She is a hoot! I love every minute I can get with her and, fortunately, we see them often. Every time we see her, even after only a week some times, she has changed so noticeably. Her vocabulary is growing very quickly now and she is putting together three and four word phrases of her own.

We also have a good friend with five-year-old triplets. I mind them when their Mother works and the daycare isn’t open. My wife and I also do things with the four of them and enjoy the little ones as though they were grandchildren.

In the winter, I like to snowshoe and I spend more time working on my Banknote collection (see below). In the summer I seek shade, hike, work in my yard, and (did I mention this?) seek shade. I do not like hot weather and, for me, hot is anything over 68F.

MUSIC: I listen to music a lot. I particularly enjoy Folk, Bluegrass, and Rock but listen to all genres, depending upon my mood. My favorite instruments to listen to are harpsichord, fiddle, cello, violin... all the strings, really.

READING: I like to read but am not a fast reader. I usually like young-adult horror, Sci-fi, and dystopia. YA books are usually not real long and fairly easy reads. That said, my two favorite authors are Stephen King and Douglas Adams. I have read everything they have written (aside from some of King’s screen plays and Adam’s Dr. Who radio program scripts), much of it more than once. I have read Adam’s 'The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy' [5-book trilogy] more than a dozen times in the past 30+ years and King’s 'The Dark Tower' series five or six times.

HOBBIES & INTERESTS: I am an Amateur Radio Operator who enjoys contests. I also enjoy: Postcrossing, WheresGeorge, and Letterboxing. I like to fly in small plains but don't do it much as it can be quite expensive. Mostly, I enjoy working in my yard and garden. I keep flowering plants that attract butterflies and Hummingbirds and grow milkweed for the Monarch Butterflies.

PHOTOGRAPHY: I love taking pictures but don't consider myself a "photographer". They put thought and effort into their work. I just set my shutter on continuous and squeeze off five to ten shots. Usually a couple will be good. I find this method works well when trying to get photos of active children, especially toddlers.

TRAVEL: My wife and I enjoy 'seeing the world'. I particularly enjoy our two-week-ish road trips to areas of our own country. I also enjoy traveling by rail and use that option whenever I can. It disappoints me greatly that my own country has what is probably the least used - per capita - passenger rail system of any country in the world.

POSTCARDS: I look forward to meeting new people through PC swaps. I often find a short message as enjoyable as the card itself.

SWAP INTERESTS: I came here mostly for Postcard Swapping but I have now tried several other things that interest me. I have made some ATC’s but it will be a little while before I try swapping any but the most basic.

POSTCARDS: I like getting almost any card. (See my few dislikes below) Anything that will tell me something about you or your country, town, or area.

Multi-view cards are fine for me. I think of them as like receiving several nice little cards all in one. Hand-made cards are fine. I think that a lot of people miss out on some very interesting things by not wanting hand made PCs. LGBTQIAPK related are fine. Just not too kinky, please. I am straight so nude/partial nude guys don't do anything for me. I have friends who are, and friends with children who are LBG... I support them.

IHOME-MADE POSTCARDS: love making my own PC's from found images. I can usually find a nice image that suits a Partner's likes better than the commercial PCs I have. If the swap doesn't prohibit it and there is nothing in your profile saying you don't like them, there is about a 50% chance you will get a handmade postcard from me. If a swap requires an envelope, there is a fair chance that will be hand made too.

EEK! WASHI TAPE and STICKERS on postcards: While I have Washi tape and stickers, will swap them, and use them in some crafts, I am not a fan at all of it on postcards. It seems to cause problems with the postal sorting machines. Almost every PC I get with Washi around the edges is torn and/or badly scuffed and often pieces of the tape are torn right off, along with pieces of the card. Also, Washi and stickers take up message space and I would rather have a nice message from you.

PASTELS and MARKERS: I have gotten some PCs that were written in pastels. While colorful, they are hard for me to read. Especially markers. I would prefer the message be done in a good old black or blue ink pen and I can't help but think that the post office would like the address that way too.

I am generally not interested in a lot of DIRECT SWAPS and I will not respond to any card that I have not received as a part of a valid swap. Sorry. If you really want something special from my area, message me first.

My particular PC INTERESTS are:

TRAIN cards (Diesel and Electric more than steam but steam is okay, especially if it is a locomotive that is still in service.)

Railroad stations (Historic to modern)

Historic buildings, architecture (especially those particular to your area) Though I am not a religious person, I do like PC's of churches, cathedrals. mosques, alters, etc. They represent some of the finest and most lovely architecture.

Your country's currency, especially paper banknotes. A card showing your National Bank or Mint would be nice.

Traditional, native, or ceremonial dress / costume.

Children (children are the best thing ever invented!) If only the sounds of children laughing could be sent on a PC...

If you are a Ham Radio Operator, I would enjoy one of your QSL cards.

I enjoy a MESSAGE on the card. Just a little something about yourself, your family, work, hobbies, town, region, or country. What has the weather been? How does the garden grow?

Send that postcard NAKED... unless it is hand-made and you are really concerned about it getting damaged. I received 'roughed up' PCs all the time. Very few, that don't have tape on them, are damaged significantly. A cancellation mark, bar codes, and even a little scuffing adds to the charm... makes them look "travelled".

LANGUAGES: Like most Americans (shame on us), I only really speak and read English. I knew some Spanish and a little German, many years ago -- even a few phrases of Russian -- but I have not used them in many a year, so they are pretty much gone. I know several Japanese words and some phrases by sound, from watching Anime, but can not read the language and couldn't have much of a conversation..

I would love to see a few words in your own language, with a translation in English, if you could. (especially Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Arabic, Cyrillic, Abugida... as I do not have the capability of entering ideograms into Google Translate. At least I don't know how.)

DISLIKES: Subjects I don’t particularly care for: - NUDITY - CATS (domestic… I like wild cats – lion, lynx, bobcat, leopard, etc.) - POLITICAL (unless it's a joke) - I truly dislike anything that DENIGRATION of women… anyone, any group, even (especially) as a joke.

I COLLECT BANKNOTES / Paper Currency that is currently or recently in circulation in other countries. When I get a new piece, I research the currency history for that country and the specific people and places that are pictured on the bill. I then write a page, outlining the information, to go in my album with it. I have made my collection available to local elementary school Teachers who have used it in lessons.

I also collect FLUTES and small figurines of OWLs and TURTLES


MUSIC I like pretty much all kinds, depending upon my mood at any given time. My current favorite groups are Pink Floyd, Warren Zevon, The Eagles, Talking Heads, Florence and the Machine, Dropkick Murphy's, Raining Jane). My town has a free, summer, outdoor music series, featuring local artists. The opening acts are young local musicians. I love it!

EXTRAS - While I appreciate the thought, if it isn't something related to my listed interests, I probably won't use it but pass it on. I'm afraid that I can not afford to send a lot of extras.

The best way to get a HEART from me is not to send 'extras' but to write something about yourself, your family, town, or country. I love a 'personal touch'.

KID FRIENDLY SWAPS - I may join one, from time to time, to share with my three favorite pseudo-grandkids. They are two girls and a boy, vegetarians, love stickers and anything they can color. They like animals, colorful pictures and being outside. They love being read to. They do not use video games or watch television.

I will list other likes as my swap interests dictate.

I hate to write this but...

When I started here and had read several profiles, I wondered why people wrote some of the things they did. After dealing with more than one unhappy partner, I find myself writing the same sort of thing.

My understanding of "Hearts" is that they are given for something special. It is very easy to get a heart from me. You do not have to send extras. All you have to do is write a bit of a message on / with the swap. Tell me a little something about yourself, your family, where you live, what you love, what you hate... I enjoy and reward that.

If you do the absolute minimum to satisfy the swap, you will get a five from me but not a heart. I expect nothing more from anyone for myself. I can't afford to send a lot of extras to people but I do try to write a note with each swap, which I hope people will find interesting and appreciate.

Thanks for reading my profile.

Best Wishes, have fun swapping, and (as we say in northern New England) Take Care!


Comment: Thank you for the band card. We saw the Stones live, Bryan Adams a few times, and several Dutch artists like the Golden Earring in theater. But maybe you’ve never heard of them. Music definitely is a part of my life 📻
pintis rated for Dear Story #4 on Feb 11, 2020
Comment: Thanks for the story and the note! I wind up getting my board game fix online.
Comment: Thanks for the 2 PCs, I will send it to their next destination. You asked about the huge collection teabags of my friend..........how about collecting stamps, figurines, model trains? Because you just like them!
NurseWalker30 rated for Used Stamp Chain Card Round 30 on Feb 11, 2020
Comment: Will keep your card moving along. Please don't come here to cut my locks off 😅
SeleneW rated for Ugly PC Swap #3 on Feb 10, 2020
Comment: Oh my! I agree. Let this rock go! That money would be much better spent on many other things that could be new landmarks!
Comment: Thank you for the lovely card/post card. I enjoyed the stories of your candy delights and we have a common dislike of some chocolate but not all chocolate. Glad I'm not the only one!! xx
DreamCloud rated for Chunk O Cardboard - February 2020 on Feb 10, 2020
Comment: Thanks for the pretty lavender and feathers postcard, Neal! Love it! Hope you get some snow before the season ends :)
ewwickaaa rated for Harry Potter Postcard Swap on Feb 10, 2020
Comment: Thank you for all the life advice. I'm super ready for a change in pace. Is it time for retirement yet? Haha!
Comment: It's terrible the way the USPS is these days. Thanks for filling me in!
Comment: Thanks for the postcards, I've never been to Chicago but would love to someday. I'm going to San Francisco in the summer though, I've only been to The US twice (NYC & PDX, OR) and I always enjoyed my holidays!
NeronNebula rated for Travel the world photo swap #1 on Feb 7, 2020
Comment: I loved the letter you sent! Thank you so much and so sorry for not rating sooner, things got hecked!
Comment: Thanks for the card, Neal. Not my favorite artistic era either. I am sort of a modernist. Your musical tastes suggest we're kindred spirits in that department. If you care to exchange the occasional postcard "off the books" drop a line: [email protected] -Ralph
Comment: Thank you, what a beautiful view.
03Scarlett rated for (Email Swap) Currently I'm ... on Feb 5, 2020
Comment: What an awesome swap, Neal ... if only all swaps could be as long and detailed. I really enjoyed reading it and will respond when I get some of the 20 swaps I'm in done so I can breathe and not feel rushed. lol Chances are it won't be till you get home from your vacation but have a great time and let's not even think about a plane going down when you're on it, friend!
Comment: Neal! I absolutely loved reading your little story!! Moose are definitely not that bright :) Thanks so much!!
Comment: Hey Neal, it was a pleasure reading your responses! I don't think there is anything wrong with gray skies either, however in Washington during this time of year that is all we seem to have. So I have been doing my best to make sure and enjoy the sunny days. :) I am not a fan of snow, but you make it sound amazing with snowshoeing! I hope you have an amazing day, Maya too! :)
vontakk rated for Pixar PC Swap #4 on Feb 4, 2020
Comment: Eeeeee! So behind in ratings, but I love this!!! Thanks so much!!
Comment: I bet your wife's meat pies are delish. Whoopee pies sound good too.
Comment: I love how you add a piece of paper with a description of what is on the postcard. Thank you.

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fairypretty7 on Feb 14, 2020:

Hi ,

Just want to let you know I received the roulette Jan. pc, you are right the black bear is cute. We only ever get different kinds of lizards in our yard and the odd cane told, which my husband likes to play golf with. My stepson recently returned from Canada and he showed us footage of bears in the wild, Anisha was in awe, she is hoping to now go there, when she finishes School. Thanks for picking me as your random partner.

colleenbUSA on Jul 19, 2019:

Profile Hello #3

Sorry for being so late with this!

I agree completely on the heat, it's sweltering right now, almost 100 and an even higher heat index! I hope you're cooler there than we are here!


I have made this brief because the room where I have my computer is hotter than Hades!

I hope you and your family are well!

mellowmel on Apr 25, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hi Neal 😀

I'm totally the opposite if you lol... I LOVE hot weather. I'm cranky when I'm cold.

How's the weather in Maine? It looks like a beautiful place from pictures I've seen. The weather here in Sausalito is beautiful! It's been 75 degrees all week. I went sailing with a friend on Easter. ⛵️

Have a wonderful day.


Fabriqueen on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Hi Neal, I really enjoyed reading your profile. I can read through your writing just how much you enjoy those children you are so lucky to have in your life. Our grandchildren live 5 hours away and we don't get to see them often enough. Cherish them while they are little. They grow up way too fast. Have a wonderful day! Hugs, Diane

VeronikaB on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hello Neal! Greetings from Czech Republic. You look like a good man ♥ I hope you have a nice day. Happy swapping! Veronika

JessP on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hello Neal! You spell your name the same way as a very dear friend of mine! I love it! You put a lot of care and information in your profile and I really enjoyed reading every bit of it, I feel as though I could hear your voice (though I don't know what you sound like) and you seem like a lovely person! Tell your wife thank you for the works she does in the hospital! Health care workers are underappreciated and as my husband is quadriplegic, we spent a fair amount of time in and out of healthcare facilities. I have met many and love every single one who has ever taken care of us!
I hope you are having a wonderful week! Jess

purrincup on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hi Neal! I enjoyed reading about you. Hope Spring isn't getting too hot for you. I live in Folsom, CA. We get the extreme hot. I've lived here for 5 years and I'm still not used to it. Sometimes we'll drive down to San Francisco for cooler weather.

LadySunshine on Apr 22, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Hey there! Hope you will have or are having a wonderful day! :)


jaimierandolph on Apr 22, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Good morning, Neal!

I hope this little message finds you doing well! I hope that you got to spend Easter with your grandson! I'm so glad to see you in the swap!
Have a Blessed Day

FireBall96 on Apr 22, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Hello there ! I hope you are doing well :) How is the weather? It is getting quite nice , close to 70F , so nice for spring time :) I hope you had a great Easter and a wonderful weekend! Best wishes from Canada ! Ashley

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