Swap-bot Time: August 19, 2019 4:58 am


Date Joined: July 16, 2018
Last Online: August 19, 2019
Birthday: May 2
Country: United States

About Me

July 26, 2019 Returned from a trip to find a dead computer. After a week at the shop, it looks like buying a replacement will be le$$ than the repair.

Anyway... my swap log was on it. It is backed up so not 'lost' but not accessible until I get the new one. Meanwhile, I am keeping track of things on paper and using my phone - much to the dismay of my poor old eyes - to enter and retrieve information.

The results are that I have cut way back on swaps and that the things I already committed to are not getting done a quickly as I like. I missed the send date for one swap, because I missed getting it onto my paper 'log'..That will not happen again but I may not be getting everything done as quickly as usual.

Of course, I can't just get the basic computer, which is in stock. I have to juice it up so I won't be getting the new one for a week or so.

Oh weep... If squinting at my phone is the biggest problem I have, I guess life is pretty good!


Updated: June 29th, 2019

Greetings form southern Maine,

My name is Neal. It is spelled as if it were a last name because it was my Mother's maiden name. My family name could be both a first or last as well. Back in the old days, when I used film to take pictures, the drugstore would have my prints filed under my first name more often than my last.

My wife, of 42 years (and bless her for putting up with me) and I live on a country road in a small rural town in southern Maine. I retired three years ago after 40+ years in electronic work. She still works at the local hospital, but has cut back to two or three shifts a week so we have more time to do things together.

We have two grown daughters and a granddaughter, who turned two years old on Valentine's Day . She is a hoot! I love every minute I can get with her and, fortunately, we see them often. Every time we see her, even after only a week some times, she has changed so noticeably. Her vocabulary is growing very quickly now and she is putting together three and four word phrases of her own.

We also have a good friend with five-year-old triplets. I mind them when their Mother works and the daycare isn’t open. My wife and I also do things with the four of them and enjoy the little ones as though they were grandchildren.

In the winter, I like to snowshoe and I spend more time working on my Banknote collection (see below). In the summer I seek shade, hike, work in my yard, and (did I mention this?) seek shade. I do not like hot weather and, for me, hot is anything over 68F.

I listen to music a lot. I particularly enjoy Folk, Bluegrass, and Rock but listen to all genres, depending upon my mood. My favorite instruments to listen to are harpsichord, fiddle, cello, violin... all the strings, really.

I like to read but am not a fast reader. I usually like young-adult horror, Sci-fi, and dystopia. YA books are usually not real long and fairly easy reads. That said, my two favorite authors are Stephen King and Douglas Adams. I have read everything they have written (aside from some of King’s screen plays and Adam’s Dr. Who radio program scripts), much of it more than once. I have read Adam’s 'The Hitchhiker’s Guide to the Galaxy' [5-book trilogy] more than a dozen times in the past 30+ years and King’s 'The Dark Tower' series five times.

I am an Amateur Radio Operator who enjoys contests. I also enjoy: Postcrossing, WheresGeorge, and Letterboxing. I like to fly in small plains but don't do it much as it can be quite expensive. Mostly, I enjoy working in my yard and garden. I keep flowering plants that attract butterflies and Hummingbirds and grow milkweed for the Monarch Butterflies.

I love taking pictures but don't consider myself a "photographer". They put thought and effort into their work. I just set my shutter on continuous and squeeze off five to ten shots. Usually a couple will be good. I find this method works well when trying to get photos of active children, especially toddlers.

My wife and I enjoy 'seeing the world'. I particularly enjoy our two-week-ish road trips to areas of our own country. I also enjoy traveling by rail and use that option whenever I can. It disappoints me greatly that my own country has what is probably the least used - per capita - passenger rail system of any country in the world.

I look forward to meeting new people through PC swaps. I often find a short message as enjoyable as the card itself.

SWAP INTERESTS: I came here mostly for Postcard Swapping but I have now tried several other things that interest me. I have made some ATC’s but it will be a little while before I try swapping any but the most basic.

POSTCARDS: I like getting almost any card. (See my few dislikes below) Anything that will tell me something about you or your country, town, or area.

Multi-view cards are fine for me. I think of them as like receiving several nice little cards all in one. Hand-made cards are fine. I think that a lot of people miss out on some very interesting things by not wanting hand made PCs. LGBTQIAPK related are fine. Just not too kinky, please. I am straight so nude/partial nude guys don't do anything for me. I have friends who are, and friends with children who are LBG... I support them.

I love making my own PC's from found images. I can usually find a nice image that suits a Partner's likes better than the commercial PCs I have. If the swap doesn't prohibit it and there is nothing in your profile saying you don't like them, there is about a 50% chance you will get a handmade postcard from me. If a swap requires an envelope, there is a good chance that will be hand made too.

Postcards with WASHI TAPE and STICKERS: While I have Washi tape and stickers, will swap them, and use them in some crafts, I am not a fan at all of it on postcards. It seems to cause problems with the postal sorting machines. Almost every PC I get with Washi around the edges is torn and/or badly scuffed and very often the ends of the tape are lifting or pulled off. Also, Washi and stickers take up message space and I would rather have a nice message from you.

I have gotten some PCs that were written in pastels. While colorful, they are hard for me to read. Especially markers. I would prefer the message be done in a good old black or blue ink pen and I can't help but think that the post office would like the address that way too.

I am not interested in DIRECT SWAPS and I will not respond to any card that I have not received as a part of a valid swap. Sorry. If you really want something special from my area, message me first.

My particular PC interests are:

TRAIN cards (Diesel and Electric more than steam but steam is okay, especially if it is a locomotive that is still in service.)

Railroad stations (Historic to modern)

Historic buildings, architecture (especially those particular to your area) Though I am not a religious person, I do like PC's of churches, cathedrals. mosques, alters, etc. They represent some of the finest and most lovely architecture.

Your country's currency, especially paper banknotes. A card showing your National Bank or Mint would be nice.

Traditional, native, or ceremonial dress / costume.

Children (children are the best thing ever invented!) If only the sounds of children laughing could be sent on a PC...

If you are a Ham Radio Operator, I would enjoy one of your QSL cards.

I enjoy a MESSAGE on the card. Just a little something about yourself, your family, work, hobbies, town, region, or country. What has the weather been? How does the garden grow?

Send that postcard NAKED... unless it is hand-made and you are really concerned about it getting damaged. I received 'roughed up' PCs all the time. Very few, that don't have tape on them, are damaged significantly. A cancellation mark, bar codes, and even a little scuffing adds to the charm... makes them look "travelled".

Like most Americans (shame on us), I only really speak and read English. I knew some Spanish and a little German, many years ago -- even a few phrases of Russian -- but I have not used them in many a year, so they are pretty much gone. I know several Japanese words and some phrases by sound, from watching Anime, but can not read the language and couldn't have much of a conversation..

I would love to see a few words in your own language, with a translation in English, if you could. (especially Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Arabic, Cyrillic, Abugida... as I do not have the capability of entering ideograms into Google Translate. At least I don't know how.)

DISLIKES: Subjects I don’t particularly care for: - Nudity - Cats (domestic… I like wild cats – lion, lynx, bobcat, leopard, etc.) - Political (unless it's a joke) - I truly dislike anything that denigrates women… anyone, any group, even (especially) as a joke.

I COLLECT Banknotes / Paper Currency that is currently or recently in circulation in other countries. When I get a new piece, I research the currency history for that country and the specific people and places that are pictured on the bill. I then write a page, outlining the information, to go in my album with it. I have made my collection available to local elementary school Teachers who have used it in lessons.


Music I like pretty much all kinds, depending upon my mood at any given time. My current favorite groups are Pink Floyd, Warren Zevon, The Eagles, Talking Heads, Florence and the Machine, Dropkick Murphy's, Raining Jane). My town has a free, summer, outdoor music series, featuring local artists. The opening acts are young local musicians. I love it!

Extras - While I appreciate the thought, if it isn't something related to my listed interests, I probably won't use it but pass it on. I'm afraid that I can not afford to send a lot of extras.

The best way to get a HEART from me is not to send 'extras' but to write something about yourself, your family, town, or country. I love a 'personal touch'.

KID FRIENDLY SWAPS - I may join one, from time to time, to share with my three favorite pseudo-grandkids. They are two girls and a boy, vegetarians, love stickers and anything they can color. They like animals, colorful pictures and being outside. They love being read to. They do not use video games or watch television.

I will list other likes as my swap interests dictate.

I hate to write this but...

When I started here and had read several profiles, I wondered why people wrote some of the things they did. After dealing with more than one unhappy partner, I find myself writing the same sort of thing.

My understanding of "Hearts" is that they are given for something special. It is very easy to get a heart from me. You do not have to send extras. All you have to do is write a bit of a message on / with the swap. Tell me a little something about yourself, your family, where you live, what you love, what you hate... I enjoy and reward that.

If you do the absolute minimum to satisfy the swap, you will get a five from me but not a heart. I expect nothing more from anyone for myself. I can't afford to send a lot of extras to people but I do try to write a note with each swap, which I hope people will find interesting and appreciate.

Thanks for reading my profile.

Best Wishes, have fun swapping, and (as we say in northern New England) Take Care!


Hugsie86 rated for Ask me anything! ~ e-swap #9 on Aug 18, 2019
Comment: Thank you for your answers! I enjoyed reading them!
brooklynbunch rated for Postcards - Focus on: Women on Aug 18, 2019
Comment: Thanks for the card--I like that artist series of women in the sciences. Susan (brooklynbunch)
Fabriqueen rated for Speedy Found Image #5 on Aug 17, 2019
Comment: Thank you so much for the ATC images you sent! They are so cool! Hugs, Diane
Comment: Thank you for your postcard. Good choice. I love the work of Frank Lloyd Wright.
vlhafer54 rated for Chunk O Cardboard - August 2019 on Aug 16, 2019
Comment: Great PC. Thank you - my most memorable concert was The Who at The Warehouse in New Orleans when I was 16 in Nov '71.
SillyTilly42 rated for Real Photos - Scenery Edition! on Aug 16, 2019
Comment: Beautiful shots! I can't believe that the beaver dam is 100 yrs old!
AnnaL rated for Christmas Cards in August on Aug 16, 2019
Comment: Thanks Neal for the pretty Christmas card & lovely Maine postcard. Wishing you a great weekend, AnnaL.
RNRISLOVE rated for Real Photos - Scenery Edition! on Aug 16, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the great pictures .Loved the snowy one. We've been to Monument Valley and went to an outdoor flea market there. Love the John Wayne movies from there.
dustcollector rated for Postcards - Focus on: Women on Aug 15, 2019
Comment: Great choice! Thanks.
Comment: OK thats a creepy concept. lol Cows in a building. Aint natural. Yuck. lol
DMarcella rated for ☆ EMAIL QUESTIONS #8 ☆ on Aug 14, 2019
Comment: Thanks so much for the awesome send!
USAFwife rated for Love Your Bookshop Day: E-Swap on Aug 14, 2019
Comment: Your bookshops sound great. :) I could visit the book section of Target or Barnes & Noble every week, easy, but my family doesn't enjoy it as much. THey could usually agree with the Target, but the closest one is an hour away! Now when we go, it seems like I've already read them all. Boo! I use e-readers, too, but really prefer a good physical, paper book! :) Thanks for sharing!
jessnewson98 rated for Ask me anything! ~ e-swap #9 on Aug 14, 2019
Comment: Heya! Thank you so much for answering my questions! I enjoyed reading through your answers! Have an amazing day!
dorcii rated for ☆ EMAIL QUESTIONS #8 ☆ on Aug 13, 2019
Comment: Thank you very much for your answers, I enjoyed reading them. The happiest part for me when you mentioned how glad you are for your wife! It's so lovely to hear from you! I wish the bests and many happy moments for you too :)
papercraftkath rated for Joke PC #2 🤣 on Aug 12, 2019
Comment: Great postcards and great jokes! Thank you so much.
cherlita rated for ☆ EMAIL QUESTIONS #8 ☆ on Aug 12, 2019
Comment: Thanks for the detailed answers. I am really touched that you have been in love with your wife for 47 years! She surely brings the best out of you. Thanks for the swap!
dawnakaulen rated for Beach Theme Postcard on Aug 11, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the great PC's, and for the lovely letter explaining them all!
Comment: Thanks for the beautiful Maine postcard. It reminded me of the book “Blueberries for Sal” a favorite of mine as a child.
porpie5 rated for Short story swap on Aug 9, 2019
Comment: Thank you for a great story! I would have climbed up there with you and been scared every step! I liked that your adventure didn't result in any parentalpunishment, and I know what you mean about how hard it would have been to ride your bike 13 miles. We used to ride 2 miles out to the river and it was all gravel, so it wasn't easy. I love towers, too. There is one at a rest stop on I-680 near the IA-NE border. My dad took me there the first time, and many times as we traverse this highway, we take time to stop. It has 72 steps and you can see both states. Thaks again! I loved how much work you put into your story.
Comment: Oh that is super cute.

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colleenbUSA on Jul 19, 2019:

Profile Hello #3

Sorry for being so late with this!

I agree completely on the heat, it's sweltering right now, almost 100 and an even higher heat index! I hope you're cooler there than we are here!


I have made this brief because the room where I have my computer is hotter than Hades!

I hope you and your family are well!

mellowmel on Apr 25, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hi Neal 😀

I'm totally the opposite if you lol... I LOVE hot weather. I'm cranky when I'm cold.

How's the weather in Maine? It looks like a beautiful place from pictures I've seen. The weather here in Sausalito is beautiful! It's been 75 degrees all week. I went sailing with a friend on Easter. ⛵️

Have a wonderful day.


Fabriqueen on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Hi Neal, I really enjoyed reading your profile. I can read through your writing just how much you enjoy those children you are so lucky to have in your life. Our grandchildren live 5 hours away and we don't get to see them often enough. Cherish them while they are little. They grow up way too fast. Have a wonderful day! Hugs, Diane

VeronikaB on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hello Neal! Greetings from Czech Republic. You look like a good man ♥ I hope you have a nice day. Happy swapping! Veronika

JessP on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hello Neal! You spell your name the same way as a very dear friend of mine! I love it! You put a lot of care and information in your profile and I really enjoyed reading every bit of it, I feel as though I could hear your voice (though I don't know what you sound like) and you seem like a lovely person! Tell your wife thank you for the works she does in the hospital! Health care workers are underappreciated and as my husband is quadriplegic, we spent a fair amount of time in and out of healthcare facilities. I have met many and love every single one who has ever taken care of us!
I hope you are having a wonderful week! Jess

purrincup on Apr 24, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #3

Hi Neal! I enjoyed reading about you. Hope Spring isn't getting too hot for you. I live in Folsom, CA. We get the extreme hot. I've lived here for 5 years and I'm still not used to it. Sometimes we'll drive down to San Francisco for cooler weather.

LadySunshine on Apr 22, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Hey there! Hope you will have or are having a wonderful day! :)


jaimierandolph on Apr 22, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Good morning, Neal!

I hope this little message finds you doing well! I hope that you got to spend Easter with your grandson! I'm so glad to see you in the swap!
Have a Blessed Day

FireBall96 on Apr 22, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Hello there ! I hope you are doing well :) How is the weather? It is getting quite nice , close to 70F , so nice for spring time :) I hope you had a great Easter and a wonderful weekend! Best wishes from Canada ! Ashley

terry1985 on Apr 22, 2019:

2019 Profile Hello #2

Hello to you! :-)

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