Swap-bot Time: June 7, 2023 4:29 am


Date Joined: January 9, 2014
Last Online: September 12, 2014
Birthday: April 21
Country: United States
My Puny Ebay

About Me

7/3/14-ok so I've finally gotten all of my overdue swaps off my dash board. I have a 1 rating that I'm working to resolve right now and hopefully, once that's resolved, I'll get back into the groups that had to remove me and begin to stay swapping again. I know that there have been people on here that have used illness as an excuse to flake on people but in my case, shit happened & all I can do now is hopefully show people that I'm truly sorry I disappointed them. My Name's Desirae but I'm always Dez for short. I'm a disabled stay at home mom who got back into crafting things to keep dexterity in my hands. I've got multiple sclerosis & I was diagnosed in '09. It was a very rough time for me but I like to think I rose from the ashes of what wasn't a very good situation to become a whole new woman like a phoenix reborn. I've got 3 beautiful girls from 1 -10 years old who are the reason I breathe. I'm in a committed relationship with the love of my life & rounding out my happy little family is my chiweenie mix Sasha. I'm a big kid at heart. I used to go to raves & was a big kandy kid so I still love all things bright, fun happy and KAWAII!!! Anyways I don't really know what else to write so if you have any questions, just ask!! I have been a member of Listia for over 2 years with over 200 transactions and a 100% positive rating. I'm also a member of Ebay and have only positive reviews there as well. I took a break from both last year when I gave birth to my youngest daughter because she was a preemie who spent a few months in the hospital.

Favorite Music

I like pretty much anything. I love old school punk(Subhumans, op ivy, The Misfits, crass, The Distillers, Bad Religion, NOFX) & very much consider myself a punk rock girl. I like old country and some new country-it's all my hubby's fault, you get to liking country when your sig. other sings you cheezie love songs lol I like some old electronic music-house, hardcore, happy hardcore, dnb...I like some new artists like DJ Figure. My Chemical Romance, afi...you name it I probably like it...I was raised on a steady diet of Marty Robbins, Diana Ross & The Supremes, Led Zepplin, Fleetwood Mac & Lynard Skynard. I'm easy to please I think 2 of my new favorite bands are Spinnerette and The Band Perry.

Favorite Books

Pretty much anything by Stephen King. Anne Rice, Poppy Z. Brite, Bentley Little & Max Brooks. I like The Walking Dead graphic novels, The Rise of The Governor, The Road to Woodbury & I can't wait until they release the 2nd half of The Fall of The Governor. The Zombie Survival Guide & World War Z are like my bible, I've re-read them so many times I know them backwards and forwards. The Claiming of Sleeeping Beauty, Beauty's Punishment, Beauty's Release. I like John Skipp and Craig Spector, -mystery, supernatural, zombies etc...I also read The Dork Diary & Diary of a Wimpy Kid series and some other stuff my daughter got me into ;) Young at heart!! I like Flowers in the Attic series but really only the originals, after she passed they got kind of mushy. I love The Lord of the Rings and The Hobbit. I love Lewis Carrol-Alice in Wonderland, Alice thru the Looking Glass and What She Found There. There's a series of zombie books The Rot & Ruin, Dust & Decay. I like Friedrich Nietzsche & HP Lovecraft.

Favorite Crafts

  • Beading work! I love beading! I work mainly with big hole or acrylic beads because my hands aren't that good.
  • Drawing-painting/sculpting. My daughters paint & sculpt so I do a little of that with them.
  • Scrapbooking We love to scrapbook and make collages together. I've lately started a ribbon collection b/c I've found it's awesome when you need a border for a scrapbook or an embellishment.
  • Embellishment I've also lately gotten into embellishments so anything with cabochons or rhinestones...I've embellished my laptop cover (which my hubby hates lol) and my daughter's ds case (which they love)
  • I love old victorian cameos and photos, I like the momento mori photos (photographs of the dead) and have a whole collage dedicated to the images I've found online.
  • I love paper dolls and coloring pages, I have tons of coloring books, I'm kind of a big kid. I've always admired people who can draw but I've never been much of a "sketch" it kind of girl so coloring books help me get my artistic side out without having to draw it myself lol.
  • I love horror based graphic novels and the images from graphic novels.
  • I love hr giger, zdzislaw beksinski & Mark Ryden

Favorite Television

Family Guy, American dad, My Little ponies-Friendship is magic and Equestria Girls, Pretty much anything from Adult Swim, The Walking Dead, Adventure Time, The Amazing World of Gumball, pretty much any cartoon-kid at heart...The IT crowd. I don't watch a lot of contemporary sitcoms but let me find some old Monthy Python or Kids in the Hall or 3 stooges and I'm good-can you sense a theme there?! lol- I love the Twilight Zone and The Night Gallery which is another show Rod Serling did. I like Tales From the Crypt (The movies and TV show) and The Outer Limits and The X files.I like Law & Order (&SVU/CI as well)


I'm a big journaler so I love all kinds of journals all shapes and sizes. I collect pens and Garbage pail kid cards. I love anything zombie/horror realted. I've got a bit of a dark side and had worked on a series of serial killer collector cards with one of my friends. I guess one way I've gotten over my fear of death is to embrace the darker sides of it fully. I love anything related to the 20s-30s or old fashioned things. I love steam punk things of course. I took apart an old alarm clock to get the gears out of it to put into one of my scrap books. I love dolls of any shape and form but I especially like creepy dolls, the creepier the better. I collect monster high dolls and I love anything related to dias de la muerto. I really like kawaii and anything cute like that. My daughters and I found some kawaii stuff at walmart of all places called soso happy but they discontinued it :( I'm not a big tea drinker unless it's a big ol glass of sweet ice tea (Southern Girl born and raised, I even say Y'ALL lol) but I LOVE coffee and hot cocoa. I Love STICKERS!! There's a show called Incredible Crew here in the States and there's a little girl who sings a song and it basically goes "Stickers, stickers I like stickers yes I do. Stickers, Stickers I like Stickers more than YOU!!" and I love STICKERS!! I probably have over 10,000 Linda Frank stickers and at least 1,000 Hello Kitty stickers.

Kawaii type stuff

Updated 2/28/14 I've just recently discovered mamegoma & the little earth colored hamster from San-x & I LOVE THEM!!! * I'm obsessed with Sentimental Circus. It is just really sweet and carries good memories for me. I travelled with the carnival when I was younger * I purchase a lot of kawaii from taiwan, it's not 'brand' kawaii but it's cute and I can usually find larger nicer memo pads for a little less expensive. I keep brand stuff but when I send out trades I usually always include some from Taiwan or Korea. * I love Alice's Silhouette or the cute little fairy tale type designs. * I actually prefer some Crux & Kamio designs to most Sanrio. * I do have 3 favorite Sanrio/San-x characters & it's Kuromi, Keroppi & Shappo, the ringleader from Sentimental Circus. * If you're interested in doing a trade of kawaii that's not Sanrio/Crux/Mindwave/Kamio Let me know! I LOVE finding different brands of Kawaii from different countries. For me it's not so much about the brand but about the cuteness or the message. * Pretty much any kawaii makes me happy!!


entirelyashley rated for Hello Kitty grabbie #2 on Jul 22, 2014
Comment: I'm finally rating for this swap nearly 3 months after it was due. I only received a bit of small note paper when the swap called for at least 4 different types of HK items. I messaged you about this and you promised to send the rest, but I've received nothing. I'd be happy to change my rating if I ever receive the rest of this swap.
Response: Hello! I am resending as of 08/29. I apologize for the delay...
Comment: Thank you for all the cute stuff :) This swap was late but I won't rate you down. I understand things happen, I hope you feel better :)
starrycat rated for (10/10/10) Swap series #4 on Jul 14, 2014
Comment: Thank you for the cute memos and stickers you sent for this swap. I won't rate you down for it on this particular swap, but I did want to advise that if you are going to be late sending a swap, communicate with your partner to let them know. Many people will overlook a day or two being late, but when you are more than a week late sending a swap- you are taking your chances on potentially getting rated a 3 for sending late with no communication. I just wanted to offer this as advice :) Thanks again for the items you sent.
Comment: Don't worry about sending late, I'm not going to beat you up for being in the hospital! Thank you for the lovely memos and stickers n_n
Comment: Thank you so much for the kawaii swap; I finally received it! I'm giving a 3 rating as it was over 1.5 months, and you only me know once 2 weeks after the deadline. I totally understand life happens, and I truly hope that you're feeling better.
Response: Hello! I wanted to respond to this that I mailed the original swap on the date I listed but I misread the address & didn't properly mail it as an international package which meant it was returned in the mail. I was then very ill for a few weeks and was unable to mail any items but I did resend the item on 6/30/14 when I was getting all of my late swaps caught up. Thanks!!
darkxangel84 rated for 50 Large Kawaii Memos on Jul 11, 2014
Comment: you never put a message in who it was from, I was a bit confused. had to figure it out.
littlestar714 rated for Kawaii Love Fest ;) on Jul 10, 2014
Comment: Love love LOVE everything! My jaw was literally on the floor with EVERYTHING I opened lol. You definitely went above and beyond with this swap and I absolutely ADORE each and every item you sent. Thank you love! We will definitely be swapping again soon! :-)
Comment: Thank you for the swap. Please make sure you label the swaps when you send them out in the future, fortunately I have a swap list so I could figure out which swap this was for.
paperpusher rated for KSU: 100 Large Kawaii Memos on Jun 30, 2014
Comment: Thank you for all the geeat kawaii memos!!!
raniheartspaper rated for Kawaii Lettersets! on Jun 24, 2014
Comment: I understand you had some health issues which is the reason for the late send for this swap and why I wasn't notified ahead of time. I received the letter sets and know you have included many extra ones. I appreciate it. The selection was not great but since it's senders' choice, I didn't rate you down. I hope you will feel better soon!
Response: Awww I actually really like the sets I send. You get so many repeats some time, I like to think the ones I send are unusual. Sorry if you didn't like them but I try to send things I don't think other people send. & I do apologize for not contacting you sooner, I do appreciate you not rating me lower since I was late. That's very understanding...
paperpusher rated for KSU: REALLY recycled on Jun 20, 2014
Comment: I'm so sorry for your loss and for your time in the hospital! It's completely understandable that some swaps were delayed. Please know I'm thinking of you and your family at this sad time and sending you lots of hugs.
Response: Thanks Hon! I really am trying to get back on track and I really appreciate the kindness that some have shown. ..
Comment: 6/19-This swap is from March, way before she was hospitalized, and was to be sent by April 21st. That is why I am leaving this rating up until I finally receive something.
Melraek rated for 30 Large (4x6) memos! on Jun 18, 2014
Comment: Thank you!
scrapingd rated for Kawaii letter set swap #3 on Jun 3, 2014
Comment: love!!!
raniheartspaper rated for (10/10/10) Swap series #2 on Jun 2, 2014
Comment: Thank you, Dez! Love everything!
wyrdfae rated for Small amount, large(ish) partners! on May 31, 2014
Comment: Thank you for all the fun stuff
xoxocat8845 rated for kawaii grabbie #4 on May 30, 2014
Comment: Thank you for the resend. It did technically meet the requirments, and you did resend, so I'm not going to rate you down. However, a lot of it was still manga/anime which is on my dislike list and I feel that you still need to work on sending your kawaii inside a card or pieces of cardboard so they won't be damaged in the mail. **Most of all I hope you won't hold this against me when you receive my swap I just sent you and that you will rate me fairly.**
Response: Noted! And since this comment I've really been working on both points...& I'm not petty, I don't mind criticism as long as it's constructive ;)
Heirloom rated for Small amount, large(ish) partners! on May 30, 2014
Comment: Thanks for the swap, Dez. Here's a heart for sending some really cute stuff (and that Hello Kitty note set)!
Comment: Thanks for all the fun stuff

Rating Overview

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LittleDonnaGirl on Jul 4, 2014:

Saw your message on the SBF forum. So sorry to hear about everything you have been going through. I would be happy to do a private swap with you if you would ever like to do that. :o) Just let me know!

Sulieen on Jul 3, 2014:

Don't worry about it! Yay! Rebeckah is so excited! ;)

Sulieen on Jul 3, 2014:

Thank you, we got it! Thank you for the kawaii baggie! :) Sarah got ellas envie, she'll write back soon! I hope everything is good! :-P

Heirloom on Jun 30, 2014:

Reminder that prizes for the June Winner-Take-All game in the KSU group are due in the mail today!

tiggerkitn25 on Jun 27, 2014:

Any update on when you expect to mail out the last late swap on your dashboard? As the host you should be communicating with me as well as your partner please.

Heirloom on Jun 25, 2014:

Thanks for the kawaii goodies in the KSU: May WTA! Hope you're feeling better real soon, Dez. ♥

MissWhimsy on Jun 14, 2014:

You have a lot of overdue swaps, I hope nothing is wrong, or serious going on?

MissWhimsy on Jun 7, 2014:

HI sweetie, miss you! :( (Im guilting you into emailing me, in case that wasn't obvious, lol) ;)

Sulieen on Jun 6, 2014:

Hi hi! Just wishing you a wonderful day! ;)

foxyfoxy on May 28, 2014:

Thank you for being a part of the Kawaii! group!


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