Swap-bot Time: October 3, 2022 9:02 pm


Date Joined: August 10, 2012
Last Online: October 3, 2022
Birthday: January 16
Country: United States
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About Me

Hi. I'm J (they/them) Yes, my legal name is one letter. Why Wyrdfae? A bunch of reasons including a lifelong fascination with Dune and now I'm stuck with it I guess... Rating - I always rate unless there was an issue. If I don't get a rating for something I will follow up. I really want my swaps to get where they need to go.

Favorite books and podcasts

I listen to audio books and podcasts while crafting, art-ing, chore-doing. I have been known to pick up a paper book from time to time, though. Books: HGttG series by Douglas Adams was one of my first book loves. I read this in high school originally and my friends and I would read it aloud to passer-bys. Silly people we were. David Rakoff, Alok Vaid-Menon, Anne Leckie, MurderBot by Martha Wells, Daniel Lavery, Well written sci-fi graphic novels with breathtaking art ( ok, I should have just said Monstress), Janet Mock, Felix Ever After, Witch Boy, Audre Lorde, Danez Smith, Brene Browne, Anne Patchett, Philip K. Dick, Octavia Butler, Packing for Mars, Louise Erdrich, Saga,

Podcasts: The Laverne Cox Show (Ya'll, I know every celebrity has a podcast these days, but this one is exactly my kind of thing), Dear Prudence, Welcome to Night Vale, Snap Judgement, Buffering the Vampire Slayer, the Gayly Prophet, RadioLab, The Unmute Podcast, Jay and Miles Xplain the X-men, American Hysteria, You're Wrong About, etc...it is literally never quiet.

Movies and TV

Recent Watch: Work in Progress Looking forward to: Umbrella Academy S3

Past faves: Loki, Buffy, Lovecraft Country, Whip-it, The Good Place, Knives Out, MoonLight, Orphan Black, Umbrella Academy, She-Ra, Get Out, Stargate, Farscape, X-files, 30Rock, 5th Element, Empire Records, Bladerunner, Star Trek, any space-opera show, The Avengers, Parks and Rec, Terrible horror movies that are unintentionally funny, Avatar the Last Air-Bender (cartoon) and Korra, Pose, Good Girls, X-men...


My favorite artists are Neko Case and Janelle Monae. Also: Tacocat, AhMerAhSu, John-Allison Weiss, Mal Blum, LP, Against Me!, Rae Spoon, Dorian Electra, Rilo Kiley, Worriers, and so many more. If anyone wants to exchange spotify playlist, I am always up for that.


No. Scented. Items. no cigarette smoke and no stuff covering cigarette smoke. I am allergic to most highly scented stuff.
I'm not offended by much but I don't like mean things, which is a succinct way of saying black lives matter and sexism, racism, transphobia, homophobia, fatphobia/diet culture, name calling etc will not be tolerated here, including the "g" slur for Roma people. Please do not use it when communicating with me. Also, I used to used to have a different legal name. Please do not use that name, only J, J D., or Wyrdfae.

If you send me recipes I prefer to cook vegan at home except for honey and eggs. Please no food, no religious, etc. Politics are fine as it seems everything is considered political, I just don't want anything that is intended to convince me to change my opinion or vote for a specific candidate. no Harry Potter stuff. I can't deal with that right now

It bears repeating, no scented items. Other than that I am pretty easy going and can pass along or donate anything I do not have use for.

General Swapping

Now that the unpleasantness is out of the way here are some objects of my unbridled and almost uncomfortable enthusiasm.

I recently purchased an inexpensive Tarot deck to do random card draws to mail to anyone interested. Let me know if you would like one with or without a writeup.

items I would like: Handmade stuff , zines, poker cards with interesting backs or fronts, curios/curiosities, inchies, atcs, origami paper strips for lucky stars, small hand made things, blank notecards/artsy non-touristy postcards in moderation natural fiber yarn about 6 yards long so I can maybe use it for a striped scarf, other stationary and memo pages, random stuff in themes I like or you think I might like are also fun.

Random things I like in no comprehensible order to help direct but not dictate themes to send: Sci-fi, Art, LGBTQ themes, non-binary, peacocks, blue (esp peacock blue and electric blue) halloween, fantasy, space, Pop Surrealism, Basquiat, poetry, Kay Ryan, bright colors, outsider art, sentimental circus, Dr. Who, Buffy, Frida Kahlo, Chiho Aoshima, paisley, orchids, Peacocks, celestial, more bright colors, studio Ghibli, possums, moths, bats, Alison Bechdel, tarot cards, Xena, weird art, Rainbow Brite, hexagons, Remedios Varo, Invader Zim, rainbows, stars, Warhol, Elliot Page, zentangle and other bold decorative black and white designs, any interesting color combo really, bird, butterfly and cat motifs, celtic knots/book of kells/nordic art, musicals, beer and wine, and other stuff.

Kawaii - I used to mostly do kawaii swaps here but currently I'm obsessed with Sentimental Circus but most of my favorite cute stickers and paper right now is from etsy shops.

Artist Trading Cards/inchies/mailart - while this is subjective, I prefer art that is meaningful to you rather than just fit my themes. I like my themes - just want to see your take on the world. Art is about expressing YOU :) I make ATCs a variety of ways. Some hand drawn or painted, some mixed media collage, and I know my way around photoshop. None of them are very conventional. Totally up for one-on-one swaps if my description sounds interesting.

So I do want to mention that I send when I say I do and rate when I receive. I always put on enough or more postage to my understanding of the regulations. Different post office employees sometimes see them differently. If you receive something with postage due, let me know and I will send you stamps.

wish list

I will use this space to list the things I am especially obsessed with currently, which are as follows:

Traveling sticker postcards

Mail art collaborations like jams or exquisite corpse and apparently friendship books and decos. I am cutting back on bags and want to swap mostly N/n FBs, decos, and traveling sticker postcards.


Gelli print stencils



Your Art


teejlc rated for Deco Deco #7 on Sep 30, 2022
Comment: Thank you for sending the Sea themed deco. I love how you added a hand drawn ship to your page! I'll have fun decorating this one.
jeka396 rated for Deco Books ♥: ESTABLISHED DECOS on Sep 20, 2022
Comment: Two very specific animal themed decos, how interesting! They are both super cute though and I especially love your cat& pumpkin artwork! Thank you :)
Ebbie78 rated for SSM: 3 things to pass 3 times #14 on Sep 17, 2022
Comment: Thank you for all of the super cute items! Great selection <3 :) And thank you so much for returning my homer!! <3
hazelwitch3 rated for Queer Pride Postcard on Sep 16, 2022
Comment: Great postcard - thank you for making it for me!
Hotthreads rated for One Deco 9/2022 on Sep 13, 2022
Comment: Thank you. I haven’t seen house mouse in years. I do have a rubber stamp handy. Have a great week and happy swapping.
MuggleMom rated for Artistic Decos 9/2022 on Sep 12, 2022
Comment: Thanks JD for the Janet's wine deco! xxMuggleMom
bblue rated for SSM: 3 things to pass 3 times #14 on Sep 6, 2022
Comment: Thanks for the swap!
riviwriter rated for Keep Our FBs Moving #6 on Sep 4, 2022
Comment: Thank you! Looking forward to adding to these and passing them along
Comment: Thanks so much! Love everything!
Comment: Thanks- I love the envelope!
ReginaDrago rated for Bags, Glorious Bags #10 on Aug 24, 2022
Comment: Thank you so much for the bags! I am more than interested in doing small occasional swaps with you! I'll send one your way asap!! (Swap tag?)
jlink rated for WIYM: Sticker Sheets Swap #3 INTL on Aug 9, 2022
Comment: thank you
HeidiJean rated for Bags, Glorious Bags #9- INT on Aug 4, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the swap!
Shellyr rated for Decos Only 7/2022 on Jul 29, 2022
Comment: Looking forward to working on these books. Thanks
bblue rated for SSM: 3 things to pass 3 times #13 on Jul 28, 2022
Comment: Thanks so much for the sticker books!
jeka396 rated for Decos Only 6/2022 on Jul 28, 2022
Comment: Thanks so much for the resend! I hope the originals arrive sometime, they sounded amazing! Anyway, your mushroom page in the unthemed deco was really beautiful, love your art! And thanks for the added cats in bananas stickers, so fun :) // Update 9/9/22: The original envie finally arrived today after being stuck in post office limbo for months! Thanks so much, again, and sorry you had to send twice!
MarHelene rated for Art Collab PC #104 (USA) on Jul 27, 2022
Comment: Such amazing cards!
Comment: Thanks, J! Everything arrived safe and sound & just took me a minute to register it--sorry for the delay!
Comment: Hi J! Cool deco - thank you! I keep thinking I should dig out my gel plate and play. Maybe I will this weekend. :)
Comment: LMFAO, love your take on the deco!! $^*(#$ thanks for sending! xxMugggleMom

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MailArtbyJac on Oct 2, 2022:

Thank you for making me a smiling faces TPC! I got it home last month. Came out cute :)

lrm1980 on Aug 1, 2022:

I received your extra "thank you" decos today... thanks for sending them! I look forward to adding to them. :)

joppagirl on Jun 12, 2022:

Thanks for the full deco! I thought the page looked very familiar; the lady that made it removed my page from another deco. Hopefully it was from a page I did in a deco of hers.

HollyBear on Mar 19, 2022:

Thank you for sending home my Christmas paper bag!!

ittybittykitty on Mar 8, 2022:

Thank you for joining Weirder Every Day!

9O96O on Jan 31, 2022:

Hi wyrdfae, got the lovely pumpkin deco for the Deco Tag. Thanks so much.

wolfeagle on Dec 31, 2021:


Wishing you a fantastic 2022!

Allegrae on Aug 7, 2021:

Thanks for forwarding the full sticker bag! Always a lovely surprise to receive one.

HeidiJean on Jul 26, 2021:

Thank you for the lyrix! I’m so excited to get these sent out into the world!

cmalaina on Jul 4, 2021:


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