Swap-bot Time: March 19, 2019 12:52 am


Date Joined: March 6, 2012
Last Online: March 18, 2019
Birthday: March 16, 1987
Country: Netherlands
My ATC's, Pocket Letters and crafts

About Me

I am terrible at responding to ratings, but please know that I cherish every rating and that I take feedback very seriously! Thanks to everyone who has given me such amazing thoughtful ratings!

Profile Updated 18-08-2018

I am a writer chipping away at the huge block of imagination in my mind, and sometimes the chips fall in a beautiful swirl, softly dancing in the breeze and sometimes they fall to the ground with a thud, devoid of grace. I am a poet who devours words and loves rearranging them into biting pieces, sometimes I strike, sometimes I nibble, all out of love. I am an artist who can’t draw any other way, who can’t create like others, but who always must follow her own path.

I am struggling with depression, the other rock lodged in my mind that has to occasionally feel the wrath of my pen. Some days are good and sometimes even bright, most days are a struggle. I believe in medication and therapy and in dealing with what life has dealt me. I do not believe every card I have in my deck was given to me fairly: twelve years of bullying has left me with C-PTSD and a complicated way of seeing myself. I am insecure and have a soft heart, but I am working on making that my strength, instead of a weakness. My Fibromyalgia is something I fight with, when I should be accepting. Learning when to fight and when to rest is my goal.

I am full of mopey wizards, lonely towers, super novas and comic book tragedy. Villains usually don't live long, or when they do, their inevitable redemption is ret-conned into uselessness. I used to be green-haired, but after ten years switched to purple. I am getting old.

I volunteer for a foundation that provides into society for youths who have problems due to addiction, disability, trauma or a mix of those. I write and create and do administrative duties.

I am a Christian. I believe in Gods love for all people and I am supportive of rights and respect for the LGBTQ community.

I love cats and my Loki is my true love. He's an extremely stubborn Norwegian Forest Cat who pretends he's a bad boy but can't hide being a sweetheart.

My Crafts

  • Short stories, poetry, all kinds of writing.

  • ATC's I hand draw all my ATC's, but appreciate receiving all kinds of mediums.

  • Pocket Letters

  • Mail Art

  • I do a lot of cross stitch for fun. Right now I'm working on Taskmaster. Loki likes to help!

Things I Love

  • All things comics

  • Cats and kittens, Norwegian Forest Cats!

  • Hearts and heart shaped things

  • Polka dots

  • Fifties (the decade)

  • Pin ups

  • Cupcakes, sweets, candy print/goodies

  • Black and White

  • Tulips (my favorite flower)

  • Coconut ANYTHING

  • Someecards

  • Motörhead

  • Volkswagen Golf

  • British humor

Favorite Flat Items

  • ATC's

  • Pocket Letters and Pocket Letter goodies

  • Stickers

  • Anything Jetoy

  • Stories written by you!

  • Washi Tape

  • Fun or Inspirational Quotes

  • Short Stories or recommendations for short stories that you love!

  • Books and book recommendations

  • Recipes for awesome chocolate or coconut cakes

  • Note cards

  • Silver earrings

  • Little charms (especially heart or lock/key shaped)

Loki Loves:

  • Catnip

  • Ribbon

  • Snacks

Foods I Love

  • ANYTHING with coconut. I adore coconut. The flavor, the smell, the tropical island feel :-)

  • Chocolate. Milk and white, all kinds of fillings welcome!

  • Hershey Hugs! And Cookies and Cream Kisses!

  • Life Savers

  • Nestle Crunch

  • Nougat

  • Pistache flavor

  • Cadbury chocolate

Favorite Books

I am an avid reader, mostly of science fiction and fantasy, but I also love history books and (auto)biographies. But I read everything and anything really.

My favorite authors:

  • Ursula LeGuin
  • Stephen King
  • Wally Lamb
  • Whitney Otto
  • Neil Gaiman
  • CS Lewis
  • Margaret Atwood
  • Ray Bradbury
  • Peter S Beagle
  • Charles Lewinsky
  • Peter Straub
  • Amy Tan
  • Terry Pratchett

Characters I Love

If you make me an ATC of one of these, I will love you forever!

  • Loki

  • Dr Doom

  • Deadpool

  • Taskmaster

  • Ant-Man

  • Dinobot

  • Knock Out

  • Blitzwing

  • Starscream

  • Beast Wars Megatron

  • Grand Inquisitor (SW Rebels season 1)

  • Ahsoka Tano

  • Kanen Jarrus

  • Hera Syndulla

  • Darth Vader

  • Charizard

  • Magikarp

  • Gyarados

  • Haunter

  • Drifblim

  • Electabuzz

  • Tyrantrum

  • Rayquaza

  • Groudon

  • Snorlax

  • Mr Spock

  • Vegeta

  • Merton Dingle

  • Knuckles the Echidna


  • The scent lavender

  • Touristy postcards, sorry, I'd rather see a beautiful photograph of people or an object :-)

  • Satanic/very negative/destructive occultism

  • Non-artistic disrespectful nudity

  • Hate/shaming/nastiness against anyone or anything.

  • Marzipan!

Swap-bot stuff

If you should have received something from me, but didn't, please let me know!

If you are waiting on a rating for me - send me a PM! But please remember that International mail can take a few weeks.

Private swaps: ATC's, stories and anything fandom related, yes please!


YooperHill rated for A Poem About Love on Mar 14, 2019
Comment: I love them both! Thank you
ariestess rated for ELECTRONIC - Share your Poetry on Mar 5, 2019
Comment: Thanks for sharing! Your poems are lovely and fascinating.
carol rated for Just Write #22 - A poem on Mar 4, 2019
Comment: Sweetly sad poem--I can relate! I love the quote and tag you wrote it on Very clever! Thanks!
wm rated for 2019 Story Cubes on Feb 18, 2019
Comment: Great ending! sorry it's taken me so long to reply. Been away the past few days.
kathiann rated for Vignette Character Study on Feb 3, 2019
choke rated for TPD: 8.5x11 Art Journal Page Nov 2018 on Dec 11, 2018
Comment: Your Naiad page is a beautiful dedication, thank you so much!
ariestess rated for Just Write # 21 - A Poem on Nov 24, 2018
Comment: Thank you so much for your poems! I liked all of them and have plans to use them either in my journals or possibly in some multimedia craft projects for friends for Giftmas.
Response: That's awesome! I'm so happy you liked them so much! :D
Nserviam rated for Different POV Fairy Tale on Sep 14, 2018
Comment: I adore this story! And thank you for introducing me to a new fairy tale. :)
Nserviam rated for Traveling through time #2 on Sep 14, 2018
Comment: I'm really interested in reading more of this story! Thanks for sharing!
Nserviam rated for Science Fiction Flash Fiction #6 on Sep 10, 2018
Comment: What a lovely idea for a story! I am interested in learning more about it. :)
Artistic rated for Unique Inspiration on Sep 6, 2018
Comment: What a unique inspiration. With your eloquent descriptions and examples (never thought of the princess rescue in that context), I see why and how towers would spark creativity. Also enjoyed the poem you wrote.
Artistic rated for Chekhov's Gun #2 on Aug 28, 2018
Comment: Well done! Thanks for letting me read your work.
jukejan rated for Symbols and symbolism #2 on Aug 15, 2018
Comment: The story of the unknown supported by faith was interesting. I didn't mind that you sent two in one!
Response: Thank you!
jukejan rated for I Remember.... on Aug 15, 2018
Comment: Thank you for sharing treasured memories with me.
Response: I'm glad you liked going down memory lane with me!
TamiTam55 rated for Just Write #19 - A Poem on Aug 14, 2018
Comment: I love your pen. I had to read it several times for it to settle into my heart. Only good poetry makes you think.
Response: Thank you so much! I am very happy my poem made an impression ^__^
SerenaAzureth rated for HD/HP Marvel Villain ATC on Jul 19, 2018
Comment: Ahhhhh<3! Also sooooo cool!!! Thank you for the double doze of awesomeness! :-D
SerenaAzureth rated for HD/HP Marvel Hero ATC on Jul 19, 2018
Comment: So cooooool!!!! :-D Thank you so much for not 1, but 2 awesome Rogue cards!! ^.^
ariestess rated for Cento Poetry on Jul 18, 2018
Comment: What a lovely poem! Thank you so much! I can't wait to add it to my journal.
Bucket rated for Cento Poetry on Jul 17, 2018
Comment: Thank you - I enjoyed the poem!
mermaidery rated for FS ~ Photography Scavenger Hunt on Jul 17, 2018

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jenmcjen on Mar 17, 2019:

LahDeeDah on Mar 5, 2019:

I love both of the self-portrait ATCs you made for the "...Favorite Theme" tag! It was so clever of you to use different hairstyles but compatible elements to create the set. Your kitty is beautiful! He's super cute in your profile pics and made a darling addition to this project. I truly appreciate the effort you put into making these. Wonderful job! Thank you so much!

KingCarmen on Feb 25, 2019:

Thank you very much for your lovely dragon drawing for the Draw Me A... tag! Really like the colours! <3

MsRose on Jan 26, 2019:

Hello friend ! It’s been so long since I’ve been around ! I still have your photo here in my home office 👍 Thinking of you and sending good vibes 💜 Hugs Cher Ms Rose

stephiedee on Sep 8, 2018:

I want to thank you again for the happy birthday mail you sent Kendra. She opened it all early and loved the ATCs you sent---and the kawaii envelopes (which we're going to try and find some sort of frames for so they can hang on her wall).

breethefrog on Aug 28, 2018:

I received your lovely package of writing today! I haven't made it through all of it, but I look forward to having a cup of tea and reading stories! I love the poem "Question." There is great imagery in it, and the way you broke the lines, it feels very much like e. e. cummings wrote it. Thank you for sharing with me!

breethefrog on Aug 28, 2018:
Hell0Z0mbie on Aug 23, 2018:

LOVE the gyrados (sp?) ATCs! They are wonderful, thank you so much!!

wombatlady on Aug 7, 2018:

This is just a comment to appreciate Loki's epic cuteness! <3

piratecaptainmo on Jul 10, 2018:

Just wanted to stop by and say hi

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