Swap-bot Time: January 23, 2021 10:24 pm


Date Joined: January 25, 2012
Last Online: January 23, 2021
Birthday: December 4, 1969
Country: United States
The Dark Avalon Scrolls
My Etsy Store
My deviantART [may contain spoilers]

On Time Zones

Because it has become an issue recently, I must add this information: I live in the Puget Sound region of Washington State. That puts me in the Pacific Standard/Daylight Timezone, aka PST/PDT.

When I send out a swap, I send it by 11:59pm in MY timezone.

I don't cater to anyone else's timezone. As long as the swap is sent out and marked as sent by the end of the day in my timezone, it's still listed as sent on time, as this is the way it was explained to me when I joined Swap-Bot over 6 years ago.

If this is an incorrect way of going about sending out swaps, I request that people link me to the section of the rules/FAQs where it says otherwise. Until then, this is the way I will continue to operate with my swaps.

On Communication & Swaps

On Sending Swaps

I press "sent" when I put the item in my mailbox or drop it off at the post office down the street. This sometimes means that I have missed the day's pickup, which means it'll go out the following day. I do try to take holidays and weekends into account when sending items out.

If you should receive a swap from me that's marked postage due, please PM me and let me know how much was owed and your paypal address, and I'll refund it to you.

On Rating Swaps

I admit I've been slow in getting some ratings done in the past. The issues that predicated that should be dealt with now, so I will rate as quickly as I can upon receiving your swap.

I DO consider the send by date a requirement to getting a "5" on a swap. This is how it was explained to me when I first joined this site, and it's how I've always worked with my ratings. For further information, please see below on how communication can adjust this.

On Communication

I'm BIG on communication. If I'm going to be late with a swap, I will PM you [and usually the swap coordinator, as well] with an ETA of when it will be sent, as well as once I've actually sent it. If I have tracking on a package for you, I'll PM you with that information, as well.

If you communicate with me that your swap will be late before the deadline, I'm usually quite good about still giving you a "5" if you keep up with your end of the bargain and send by your revised send date. If you don't communicate with me before the deadline, I don't know that there may be extenuating circumstances, so I will rate accordingly.

About Me

The short version

Dyke. Pagan. Pet lover. Writer. Creatrix.

The long version

I was born on 4 December 1969, which makes me a Sagittarius with Libra moon & Scorpio ascendant. But I was born like 3-odd weeks early, or so I'm told, so I need to look into the variations for a cusping Capricorn yet. At 10 years old, I knew I was at least bisexual, and that there was more for me than conventional Christianity. So eventually I came out to my family: In 1994 as a pagan & in 1995 as a lesbian. I interchangeably call myself either pagan or witch, and follow an eclectic solitary tradition. Despite the "chic-ness" of how it sounds, mine is a rather personalized path, currently more fluid than rigid, and will quite possibly stay that way. I've come to feel that life is more fluid than rigid, so I believe it's better to 'go with the flow' than try to hold back the flood.

I currently live in a fabulous house in the Puget Sound area with my partner and our good friend, as well as 4 cats. We've nicknamed our house "3 Dogs House" and all have nicknames :: I am Spotty, my partner is Doggie, and our friend is Soggy.

I have been writing in one form or another since I was about 7yo. Writing is in my blood; I can't NOT do it. Primarily I write poetry, fanfiction and original fiction, though I am known to dabble in meta from time to time.

I like a little bit of everything, but I'm seriously opinionated. I can be very silly...or very serious.

If you have a question, ask. Depending on how personal it is, I may answer it or I may not.

On Christmas & Easter

As stated in my "about me" section above, I am pagan. While I primarily celebrate Yule and the Spring Equinox/Ostara, I am happy to receive swap items that are related to Christmas and Easter, provided they aren't religious in nature.

If you have questions about any other holidays, please feel free to PM me about it.

Favorite Crafts

  • crochet
  • cross stitch
  • scrapbooking
  • doodling
  • painting
  • making cards
  • iris fold
  • beading
  • jewelry making
  • making candles
  • making spa goodies

Favorite Colors

  • purple
  • pink
  • black
  • silver
  • copper
  • jewel tones

Things I Collect

  • donkeys
  • sea glass
  • lighthouses
  • bottles of water

    I have a good-sized collection of bottles of water collected from various places around the world. I use these in some of my rituals, and love to add to my collection.

  • harbor seals
  • hyenas
  • african painted dogs
  • snakes

    Main favorites :: eastern/western diamond back rattlesnakes, black mambas, king cobras, & aruba island rattlesnakes

Things I Love To Get

  • anything from my collections above
  • anything purple [bonus points if it's sparkly]
  • fun postcards
  • stickers
  • fun note cards to use
  • fun stationery to use
  • pens & markers [I prefer 0.5mm or fine point pens]
  • fun little stuff to put in my bujo
  • yarns of all types
  • Disney stuff [especially Eeyore, Princess & the Frog, & Moana]
  • Miyazaki stuff [especially My Neighbor Totoro & Kiki's Delivery Service]
  • Don Bluth movies
  • coloring books
  • little toys & trinkets
  • silly putty
  • stuffed animals
  • toys & treats for my cats
  • candy

    prefer dark chocolate to milk or white chocolate, UNLESS it's good Swiss-type milk chocolate


  • Kinder Egg toys

    The whole, unopened eggs themselves are illegal in the US, but I love collecting and making the toys. I won't honestly miss the chocolate all that much.

Things I Do Not Want

For the most part, if you send me something that meets swap requirements, but I can't use personally, it will go into a bin I have of "pay it forward" items that are used for other swaps or just to send to people randomly.

That being said, there are some very specific things that I absolutely DO NOT WANT.


  • Makeup of any kind -- I don't wear it and won't use it
  • Perfumes of any kind -- Strong smells can trigger migraines
  • Obvious junk/trash -- If you wouldn't be happy to receive it or display it publicly, then neither will I

Bad Traders and/or Flakes

Only adding "current" members of Swap-Bot to this list who were last active since 2016 or later.


Comment: Thank you for the cute pics!!
Comment: Lovely poem! Thank you so much! :)
PrairieKittin rated for Zen ~ ABC Challenge on Jan 16, 2021
Comment: I love your choice of tangles! Thank you so much!!
Response: Thank you! I really loved this PC and had a hard time giving it up. LOL
Mandaloolee rated for TSP: Book of Shadows ATC Card #5 on Jan 14, 2021
Comment: This was such a fun ATC, thank you!
Mandaloolee rated for TSP: Book of Shadows ATC Card #6 on Jan 14, 2021
Comment: I love it! Thank you so much!
Ashzaller rated for ESG: December 3-2-1 on Jan 14, 2021
Comment: Thank you so much for sharing :D
Casmi rated for End of Year Questions ~ 2020 Edition on Jan 14, 2021
Comment: My hair is currently half blue, half purple - I applaud your choice of colour! :D
boandsully rated for Last 2020/First 2021 - POSTCARD on Jan 12, 2021
Comment: Lovely postcard! Thanks.
Comment: Thank you for sharing. This swap really showed me how you are handling the crisis. Be safe & Happy New Year.
cindygroet rated for ESG: December 3-2-1 on Jan 10, 2021
Comment: Best wishes for 2021 and thanks for sharing your answers.
Comment: That is such a great quote, thank you for the well wishes. Have a very Happy New Year!
cynaemon rated for ESG: December 3-2-1 on Jan 10, 2021
Comment: Thanks for sharing. Glad to hear you are cancer free.
Comment: Thank for this nice images take care xxx
Comment: Thank you so much. Love it all. Happy New Year.
Comment: Thank you for the sweet poem about The Fool! :)
Comment: Thank you happy New year !
Artistic rated for TGIO 2020! on Dec 23, 2020
Comment: Thank you for the nice note and the lovely surprise. The color is vibrant and gorgeous. I may decide to do some end-of-year reflecting and new year goal setting in it. Thanks again.
Response: You're welcome! Glad you like it! I have used the larger size of that same journal and liked it, so thought you might like the smaller size.
Cabootique rated for Happy Yule Gift For Your Altar on Dec 22, 2020
Comment: Thank you for such a lovely gift! I had a great time unwrapping all of the items. The crocheted items are so beautiful. The entire swap was very thoughtful ^_^
Response: You're welcome! I'm glad you liked it all!
Comment: Thank you and Merry Christmas!
colleenbUSA rated for ESG: Christmas profile greeting on Dec 20, 2020
Comment: Thank you and Happy Holidays!

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AislingKanoni on Jan 6, 2021:


This is for the Something I Love Profile Swap. I hope you enjoy. I hope you're doing well, and hope your year goes well.




CatBrouille on Jan 2, 2021:

Hello my friend ! I wish you an happy New year

This is Something I Love... Profile Swap

Take Care xxx

greenwindow on Jan 2, 2021:

Something I Love... Profile Swap!

Hey! Thank you so much for joining my swap! I hope the holidays were great for you!

All The Best,

Abbie x

greenwindow on Jan 2, 2021:

Happy New Year - Decorate my Page Swap !

Hope you had a wonderful new year!

itsnobody on Dec 18, 2020:

ESG: Christmas profile greeting

Greetings! Have nice holidays and be healthy. All the best wishes from Bulgaria~




grammypammy on Dec 14, 2020:

ESG: Christmas profile greeting

Merry Christmas to you and your family!

Hugs, Pam

HappyMom on Dec 13, 2020:

Hi AJ! Have an awesome holiday - Crazy year, but better days are ahead!



ESG: Christmas profile greeting from Happy Mom

HappyMom on Dec 1, 2020:

Please accept this profile comment as an angel for the ESG swap you didn't receive! Thanks for being part of the group!



Artistic on Nov 2, 2020:

I'm so glad you like your NaNo mascot!

I got 1,703 words done on Day 1. I'm moving next week so I really need to bank words this week! Hope you got off to a great start, too.

littlehana86 on Aug 24, 2020:

Without the dark, we never see the star!

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