Swap-bot Time: January 21, 2020 8:24 pm


Date Joined: September 5, 2018
Last Online: January 21, 2020
Birthday: December 2, 1989
Country: Finland
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Hiya. I'm Neea. I'm a 30-year-old les🐝an. I'm a sagittarius, single as heck and about to catladify myself. (The only thing I'm missing are the cats. I'm already fostering one, so I'm off to a good start.) I'm currently a part time student of various things related to foreign languages and cultures, and a full time professional procrastinator. I live near Helsinki in a small town in which I was born in 1989 and I'm dying to get the heck out of here. 💀 Feel free to donate to my cause lmao.

My hobbies are drawing and painting, all kinds of crafts (from cardmaking and snail mail letters and postcards to woodworking and pottery), reading, writing, enjoying nature, traveling abroad and learning about different cultures and learning languages. I'm currently learning Latvian and Korean while trying not to forget my Swedish. 🇫🇮🇬🇧🇸🇪🇱🇻🇪🇪🇰🇷🇯🇵🇩🇪🇪🇸🇫🇷


Any gay romance with a happy ending will do. Annie On My Mind, Ash, Captive Prince, Fingersmith, Maurice, Simon vs. the Homo Sapiens Agenda... feel free to recommend me some. :D

Also a favourite of mine is Jane Austen, as are the Brontës.

Nonfiction is my drug of choice. I'm an information sponge who can't stop wanting to learn everything about everything on this earth. I love a good (auto)biography.

Also, Moomins are great. Children's literature in general is pretty neat.

I'm currently in the process of writing a prehistoric lesbian fantasy novel, and at this rate it will be approximately five hundred years before it's finished, because I tend to procrastinate by drawing maps and people and landscapes from the story instead... :D Yay worldbuilding!


I like making things that I can use, whether it's woodworking or pottery. I made a ton of wooden spoons and other kitchen tools in a women's woodworking class, and all kinds of pots and things in a pottery class a few years ago. I always like to try new things, even if I don't end up loving it. Lately I've been thinking about trying paper making and then using that home made paper in various crafts.

Recently I bought my first ever sewing machine and I'm eager to learn how to sew clothes I'm not too embarrassed to wear in public. :D I also really want to start weaving! You know, tapestries and stuff. I'm also somewhat interested in learning embroidery and other needle-and-thread things (so far I only know how to fix minor things, like replacing missing buttons, sewing patches on clothes and the like). Maybe I'll finally learn how to knit and crochet one day!

I've started practicing digital art on a drawing tablet, and I'm slowly getting used to it. It definitely has its advantages compared to traditional art!


Snail mail supplies: letter sets, letter paper, envelopes, postcards, address labels, envelope seal stickers...

Gel and glitter pens in fun colours!

Roses, floral print stuff, pressed flowers (harebells are my favourite!)

Glitter, sequins, sparkly things, holo everything!

Stickers of all shapes and sizes!

Washi tape!

Glanzbilder or kiiltokuvat or whatever those are in English. These are not the same as whatever people call "die cuts" though. I think googling "Victorian scrapbooking" will give you the right idea.

Patterned craft paper, origami paper and pretty much anything I can use in paper crafts.

ATCs for my (so far pretty small) collection! ✨

Rubber stamps, clear stamps, stamped pieces of paper.

Surrealism and impressionism are some of my favourite art styles.

The art of Tove Jansson, Georgia O'Keeffe, Frida Kahlo, Yayoi Kusama, Yoko Ono, Artemisia Gentileschi, Janis Rozentāls, John Singer Sargent, John William Waterhouse, Gustav Klimt, Alphonse Mucha, Claude Monet, Rudolf Koivu, Akseli Gallen-Kallela...

Feminist art, zines and literature. Please see my "things I don't like" for this bit though.

Zines in general! tiny ones, big ones, black and white, full colour, photocopied, fancy printed ones...

Sewing supplies! Leftover fabric, fun buttons, zippers, ribbon... all sorts of things! :D



  • pastel colours
  • violet, lavender
  • pinks
  • mint, turquoise, aquamarine
  • forest colours
  • berry colours


  • Foxes
  • Raccoons
  • Bunnies
  • Mice and other cute rodents
  • Cats
  • Lynx
  • Dog breeds that have the kind of face that wolves or foxes do (so yes to shelties and huskies, no to pugs and frenchies)
  • Wolves and the rest of the Canidae family
  • Bears
  • Stoats, badgers, weasels, martens, otters, minks, wolverines...
  • Deer and other antler-y creatures
  • Hedgehogs
  • Squirrels
  • Shrews
  • Crows, ravens, kestrels... I like all kinds of cute and furry things! I prefer animals of the Northern Hemisphere though. Think Nordic, Canadian or Arctic wildlife!


  • Regency, Victorian, Edwardian and lolita fashion
  • folklore and mythology
  • goddess imagery
  • feminist art and yonic imagery
  • rainbows
  • lesbian stuff
  • Sappho the OG lesbian, Emily Dickinson, Virginia Woolf, Tove Jansson, Oscar Wilde...
  • basically any gay stuff, like Keith Haring's art or life sized cardboard cutouts of Freddie Mercury
  • constellations, aurora borealis, planets and other space stuff
  • witchcraft and magical things
  • actresses Marilyn Monroe, Audrey Hepburn, Elizabeth Taylor, Sophia Loren, Rita Hayworth, Grace Kelly...
  • vintage pin up portraits (Gil Elvgren etc)
  • 80s and 90s aesthetic and fashion
  • Barbie, especially vintage (80s and older)
  • cute hair accessories like hair clips, pompoms and scrunchies

  • I really like silly jokes, puns and tongue twisters. Feel free to send me some silly jokes and tongue twisters in your language!

🎵 MUSIC & TV 📺


  • 80s & 90s shoujo manga/anime in general is pretty great
  • Ghibli movies
  • Fullmetal Alchemist
  • Neon Genesis Evangelion
  • Otoyomegatari
  • Emma
  • Rose of Versailles
  • Sailor Moon
  • Shoujo Kakumei Utena
  • Time Stranger Kyoko
  • Full Moon wo Sagashite
  • Kamikaze Kaitou Jeanne
  • Ranma ½
  • Urusei Yatsura
  • Akatsuki no Yona
  • Yotsuba&!
  • Doraemon
  • Maple Town
  • Rilakkuma, Hello Kitty, Cinnamoroll, Kumamon and other Japanese kawaii characters


  • Miffy/Nijntje
  • Maisy Mouse
  • Peppa Pig
  • Barbapapa
  • Care Bears
  • Cheburashka
  • Krtek
  • Moomins
  • Babar
  • Alfred J. Kwak
  • Peter Rabbit
  • Bannertail
  • Garfield
  • Jem and other 80s and 90s "girly" cartoons
  • Tiny Toon Adventures
  • The Powerpuff Girls
  • My Little Pony (the 1980's series, not MLPFIM)


  • 101 Dalmatians
  • The Aristocats
  • Bambi
  • Brave
  • Brother Bear
  • Ducktales
  • Dumbo
  • The Fox and the Hound
  • The Lion King
  • Mulan
  • Oliver & Company
  • Pocahontas
  • Princess and the Frog
  • The Rescuers
  • Robin Hood
  • Sleeping Beauty
  • Snow White
  • Zootropolis


BTS is my ultimate favourite group, Yoongi and Jimin are my favourites. ♡

Hyuna, Sunmi, Wonder Girls, 4Minute and all associated acts. :D ♡

Other faves: Monsta X, B.A.P, Mamamoo, Seventeen, Shinee... I like all sorts of kpop groups but I really only follow BTS, Hyuna and Monsta X. Honestly I never know what anyone else is doing. Ask me how many members EXO has left and I will have to google it, hahah.



I'm not deathly allergic to anything, but I'm not good with dairy (even if it's lactose free).

Hate is a strong word, but it's still not strong enough to accurately describe how much I flipping hate passion fruit.

I really don't like sour candies.


Some flavours I really really like: chai, spicy teas, coconut, chocolate/coffee, apple pie, cinnamon apple, cinnamon, cardamom, Christmas-y flavour combinations, honey, caramel, caramelised pear/apple/etc, Turkish apple, vanilla, orange, cherry, blueberry muffin/pie, strawberries, cherry, blackcurrant and other berries... everything yummy.

Some tea brands I like: TAZO, Pickwick, Bigelow, Pukka, Clipper...

Tea flavours I avoid: non-flavoured green tea, hibiscus, rosehip, chamomille, passion fruit


I like chocolate of all sorts! I especially like chocolate with nuts, peanut butter, salted caramel, coconut, mint, matcha, liquorice, dried fruit etc in it! If you send me Laima chocolate I will love you five-ever.

Those yummy nougat and nut bars! Any vegan snacks in general. I don't care if it's got honey in it, though, so I personally classify those honey nut bars as vegan snacks.

Liquorice, liquorice dragees, salmiakki and pretty much any kind of candy. Strawberry, cherry, pineapple... all sorts of fruity flavours. Haribo Peach candies are some of my favourites! 🍑

Anything coffee flavoured is A+++


Contemplating the inevitability of death.

People who misspell my name, or people who straight up give me a new name because they've never seen it before so clearly it can't be a real name. ಠ_ಠ No, my name is not Neena, Neera, Negra, Neaa, Nea, Nena, Naea, Naenae, Nee or Nae. If you're literate enough to navigate this website, I expect you to be able to write four letters in the order they're supposed to be written in.

The general concept and existence of men.

Bullet journal stuff. You can send me weekday/month/calendar/icon stickers and other bullet journal-y things if it fits the swap, but I will most likely just end up regifting them as I have no use for them.

Halloween. Pumpkins. Horror.

Those moustache graphics that were everywhere a couple of years ago. I get an allergic reaction in my eyeballs every time I see them.

MINIONS. Get those yellow demons away from me.

Most geek stuff, such as video games, superheroes, Game of Thrones, Doctor Who, Stranger Things and so on.

I'm a feminist but I have no use for embarrassing "Smash the patriarchy!! [picture of a fist with manicured nails]" or "Feminism is for everyone!" or "Feminists are cool!" or "Blarhgf blahrgrg the radical notion that women blahblaghfhgd" stickers and such. Actual feminist art and yonic imagery is fine (as long as it's made by women!!). Think second wave. Think Guerrilla Girls, Georgia O'Keeffe, Pussy Riot and all the unladylike screeching hags that men love to hate. I love rocking the boat (or, more accurately, killing the captain and abandoning ship). I'm an ugly hairy dyke who has no patience for fun & quirky "hobby feminism" that includes and/or coddles men, and my activism reflects that.

Homophobes can also heck right off. 🖕🏻

If you call me q***r I will consider it hate speech and report you. Don't send me stuff with that word in/on it.


I always send my swaps on time, and I mark them as "Sent" on the day I've paid for them and left them in the outgoing mail box. However, there is no actual post office in my town. I pay for and leave my mail in a corner shop which does nearly everything that a post office normally would - except canceling stamps. This will get done in a mail sorting center in another city. Therefore, whatever I send will NOT be stamped until a few days later, if even then, or at all! This is 100% out of my control, and if you give me a lousy rating for something as stupid as that, then, uhh. Congrats on being petty, I guess?

Similarly, giving me a 1 when I haven't had the chance to offer to resend the swap says more about you than it says about me.


Comment: Love the postcards! Thank you!
Comment: thanks for the nice postcards and the extra cards too.
Itti rated for SIE: Zine Swap on Jan 18, 2020
Comment: What a cool swap! I really like all 3 of the zines you sent, thank you for including extras! (I too really hate it when my socks get wet, and I'm super interested in linguistics!)
Tuutis rated for Unicorn ATC on Jan 17, 2020
Comment: Kiitos ihanasta ATC:stä <3 ja miten nätisti taiteltuna suojassa olikaan :) Thank you so much!
NorthVanKnittr rated for 💌 STICKERS CLEAR OUT on Jan 14, 2020
Comment: Thanks the stickers are great!
Onehotmess rated for Stickers and a Resolution on Jan 14, 2020
Mamabemus rated for LGBTQ ATC Swap on Jan 5, 2020
Comment: Super cute!!!! I love Keith Haring so much, thank you <3
Comment: Lovely Christmas tree ATC. Thank you so much Neea ;)
Comment: thanks <3 Kiitos kivasta joulupukista.
Comment: Hi Neea Thanks for the postcard with so much words written in your native language in the list of vocabulary Wishong you the happiest season too! Yana
Comment: Thanks!!! Very tasty ✨✨✨✨
Comment: Hyrää joulua!! Dear Neea...a huge ty for your wonderful card with some Finish explanations - gr8 joy indeed! With seasonsal regards - best wishes for 2020!
Comment: Thank you for the beautiful snowman ATC! I esp love the envelope you mailed it in, very well done! I shall use the music page for a deco book. Thank you and Merry Christmas!!
denisedecker58 rated for Letter set swap! on Dec 14, 2019
Comment: Just received this but it was worth the wait! Thank you so very much!
Hunbun rated for Letter set swap! on Dec 14, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the lovely and unusual letter sets! I've never seen these designs before, can't wait to use them!
vlhafer54 rated for WIYM: Book Page ATC on Dec 14, 2019
Comment: I love the ATC - Thank you!
Comment: Neea! You're swap finally arrived! What an incredibly beautiful envelope! And super fun stamp. I am going to use your lovely envelope in my pen pal display at work (with your info covered of course). Thank you for the stickers at well. :)
turnsoleluna rated for AAA: Wonderful Women #2 on Dec 14, 2019
Comment: I have had the privilege of swapping with you for a few swaps now and you always manage to awe me with your work. Thank you for the two very lovely ATC's you created for this swap. It is always enjoyable to swap with you Neea :) I <3 Jane Austen too .
Comment: Thankyou so much Neea for such an awesome Pink Snailmail Kit it's just perfect I can't wait to use everything in an upcoming snailmail for a friend of mine 😍
Comment: Thank you so much for the cute ATC!!

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irinah on Oct 7, 2019:

Awesome, I am from Latvia 🇱🇻 originally, and you are learning Latvian , not an easy language I think Great that we are in the same swap

shirleyinCA on Sep 22, 2019:

I just wanted to add a thank you for the classy handmade envelope for the Mega Sticker swap. All those rows of washi tape, the Hello Kitty address label and one thin pink strip of washi to match it and accent the black and white envelope! Then lovely postage as always.

Nuisant on Aug 18, 2019:

Thank you so much for the lovely tea from the #Tea for Thee swap! I loved all of the flavours you sent me and they were wrapped so beautifully!

guinstar on Jul 8, 2019:

Thank you Neea for being an angel for "Themed Washi Swap #3: Animals". That was very sweet of you. I love the samples you sent me! 💜 🐧 😺

mgallardo68 on Jun 11, 2019:

I always smile when I read this in your profile Contemplating the inevitability of death.! At your age, I had the same 'dislike' and it's not that now I like it but you'll see you just get used to it (and I know you could say, never but I did say the same at your age too ;-))..

khronicole on Dec 15, 2018:

I must say that I enjoyed reading your dislike section so much. I could so related to most of them lol, you phased them so precisely it made me smile. Oh and I never expected to see Utena listed on someone's Swapbot profile(you know it's not an anime site) I love that show, actually I love almost everything by Ikuhara. Ok that's enough randomness for now, have a nice day :)

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