Swap-bot Time: April 21, 2019 1:15 pm


Date Joined: August 21, 2008
Last Online: April 21, 2019
Birthday: November 5
Country: United States
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Updated March 26, 2019

I dont read my emails often, I do read the pms here, many times a day. So Pm first.

I am thrilled if someone posts fun images to my profile. Despite the explanation from others, I can not do this with my computer.

3/22/19. My husband made it to ONE year, of his new Life with new stem cells. They call it his birthday or his Zero day. He is doing so much better than one year ago. He still tires easily, but he is alive, and not sick. The Stem cell transplant saved his life.

2/13/19. My husband is 90% healed. Can you Imagine that a stranger, from Germany, gave a blood donation of his stem cells, and saved another persons life is a miracle. If you are between the ages of 18-44, "Be the match" would love to have you join the data bank, with a simple cheek swabbing. You might be able to save a life with your stem cells in your blood, not your bone marrow, as in the past.

7/5/18. Amazing news from my husbands last bone marrow biopsy. Before, Jak2 mutations, several Chromosomal mutation, and extreme Fibrosis in his marrow. Today. Jak 2 is negative. He has absolutely NO DNA chromosomal Mutations, and his fibrosis is 0 to 1, which is normal. The stem cell transplant has worked and is creating new blood, new marrow and fixing mutations. Rejoice with us.

Update 4/20/18 My husband came home from the hospital Friday the 13th (April). He calls it his released into the wild day. He is very restricted on what he can eat, do, or where he can go. His Day 100 will be the 4th of July, and he might get off some of the restrictions. He is basically trying to avoid any infections. I now will be home watching him, as required to monitor his for Graft vs host disease, which is basically rejection of his transplant. We go to the Bone Marrow Transplant clinic twice a week for IVs and blood tests and the like. We are watching the Diamondbacks on TV. He is pretty bored. I am pretty busy, cooking, cleaning, dealing with medical stuff. I still have plenty of time for my swaps. yeah!

Update 3/10/18 My husband goes into the hospital March 16th, starting chemo, His Stem cell transplant day zero is March 22nd. He will be in an isolation ward for 3 to 6 weeks.

Update 12/20/17, they found a stem cell match, for my husband!! a 28 year old male outside of the USA who is willing to donate. They keep putting off the transplant date. Now we are scheduled for March, when we should be starting chemo to destroy my husbands bone marrow and begin the stem cell transplant.

9/29/17 My husband Paul, is battling Bone Marrow Cancer. He is working towards a stem cell transplant. His chances of survival are good.

I will have been married 31, Jan 2019 years, We used to be foster parents. We took guardianship of 5 siblings in 2002. YEAH they are all adults now. We are not birth controlled challenged or of any religion or belief that would cause me to give birth 8 times. I stopped birthing babies after 3. (It was not fun anyway) Being a foster parent is really about saving one life at a time. or in my case 5 kids from the same mom. It is like going on a missions trip but you stay home and your house is really messy and your hair is frizzy.

We have both 2 calico cats, UNA and Patches, and one Chocolate point Himalayan, Yetti.

How I got 4 dogs, when I swore I was not a dog person, is very hard to explain. The oldest dog Sadie is 11 and at the request of a friend we took in her unwanted dog 2007. ETA: Sadie Passed peacefully MLK Day 2019. Then I needed Princess, in Aug of 2015 (humane society), then Shyanne, needed me in OCT of 2016, and this year FEB 2017 Tess needed us. So four dogs. And they are all so lovely and sweet. We are family. The last two dogs have some real issues with anxiety. It does make you wonder what happened to them before they came to me. As of 2018 the two dogs with anxiety issues are buddies and really have calmed down. I am so glad my son brought Tess home, as she is a darling dog who was not being appreciated for her true beautiful self at her other home.

My nickname AZmom875 started, because I was counting down, first 8 kids then 7 and I knew in 2007 the 2 boys would graduate HS and move out and we would be down to 5 kids at home. Oh right!!!! Everyone of these kids have boomeranged back more than once. We presently have ONLY 1 adult child at home now. It is grand!

I am CastleQueen5 over on atcsforall.com. Some of you know me over on that website. When I joined there. I wanted a name that didn't reflect my identity being tied up in my role as a mother. I bet some of you can understand that. So I chose to be the Castle Queen. The name came about because, a neighbor told me that I was the Queen of my Castle and my foster kids really need to treat me better. It stuck with me.

Things we leave behind.

Sometimes in life, we take a deeper look and try to decide what would we leave behind if we were to die? What brings me joy while I am alive? After doing some reflection due to having life's big events shoved in my face, I have decided I want to leave behind more quilts for my family and less paper items that might not mean so much to them. I rightly suspect that when I die they might toss all my ATCs and postcards, as they have no meaning to them. My ATCs do bring me joy while I am alive, and some postcards also do. But my future will be focusing creating some quilts to leave behind. No, I am not dying. Well, we are all going to die someday, but I should be fine for another 20 years or so.

ATC card likes and dislikes

FOR ATC cards:
I would HEART: Zebras, Sunflowers, cats, John Cusack, Coffee, Lattes; used postage stamps, butterflies, tea, tea cups, tea pots, fall leaves, trees

Other themes that are appreciated are penguins, zebras, maps or book pages as backgrounds, buttons, vintage, retro, quirky, zetti, frogs, dachshunds, alligators, mice.

I have been collecting Altered playing cards= APCs, Decks with these themes: Geigo Gecko, Zebras, It is too long to list the suits and numbers I still need. Contact me for that.

I dont like Pin up girls or nudes, but do collect cards with females that are positive or quirky.

I dont collect atcs with holiday themes even though I celebrate holidays. I like to collect non holiday themed cards, like a Bat or black cat card but not in a Holiday theme

I do collect the Weird or Bizarre Holiday cards. I host swaps once a month for one bizarre holiday in the group ALL ABOUT ATC. See my profile for the group.

I dont like Halloween atc cards, but I like pumpkins (not jack o lanterns), black cats, fall leaves, I LOVE FALL LEAVES CARDS, any black birds, scarecrows or sunflowers in a fall theme.

I dont collect atcs with Easter bunnies or Easter eggs or baskets, but rabbits, spring flowers, chickens, Crosses or Easter lilies are fine.

I dont collect St Patrick's Day, Valentines day or 4th of July atc cards, any thing patriotic, but I like green, and hearts, and love it when people make a mandala from ugly patriotic stamps.

What brings me Joy

I like items with Zebras, cats, sunflowers, coffee tea, teapots, Geigo Gecko, Black bears as themes

I like the cancelled postage stamps and esp like those with butterflies and sunflowers, hummingbirds.

If you can make Address Labels, I would love that. My computer is a MAC, so when I make labels with Avery, I can only do like 2 different images. BORING! And it doesnt line up correctly.

I do love coffee, esp flavored coffee, except Irish cream. Coffee and K cups are welcomed. I like most teas, except Jasmine and Rose. I am not fond of plain chamomile, mint or green teas, but love them in blends. I like spicy teas, herbal teas, medicinal teas.

For the stuff envelope swap, I mainly make atc cards now, so smaller items that will fit on 3.5x2.5 area. vintage, faces, clocks, animals, silk or paper flowers,paper punches.

I use a lot of chap stick, lip balm items, and lotions, and candles (of all sizes but tapers,) But it is too hot to send that stuff April to OCT. They melt in the packages and make a mess.

Dislikes/ No JOY

I am not real fond of Holidays or Patriotic themes when it comes to ATCS or Paper goods swaps, buttons or notepads or ribbons.

I celebrate and enjoy holidays, but I really dont want any holiday items for scrapbooking, atcs or other papercrafts.

I esp dont like Halloween or Easter Bunnies or Easter Eggs.

Please dont send me Holiday stuff, I will just save it to pass onto someone else cause I cant just throw things away, it goes against the pack rat hoarders oath.

Favorite Movies

I just love time travel movies, I find them awesome: Peggy Sue got married, Premonition, Back The Future Series, Frequency, Lake House, Bill and Ted's Excellent Adventure, Somewhere in Time, and Butterfly Effect...

I like chick flicks, I avoid scary movies, because they give me nightmares; but I will watch anything John Cusack is in, even a rated R movie like Identity and 1408 both which still gives me the willies at night when I think about the movies

Favorite Books

I am on bookmooch.com see link above, and Paperbackswap.com Azmom875 there too.

I can read one book in one day or in a few hours. I can average 60 to 100 pages an hour.

I like mysteries, cozy mysteries esp if they are well done, Magical mysteries, time travel novels, I mostly like Women's fiction, quirky non fiction, or a good Memoir... I like some Christian fiction, but please have a plot, build some real characters or dont waste my time. I dont like the Christian Historical or amish books.

I like chic lit if the girls are not too insipid and slutty. I also like the 40 year old finding themselves after a crisis, kinda like HEN lit, but really just womens fiction. Tell me a good story, tell me a secret, give it a twist at the end. Show me true love not based on lust or throbbing in stupid bodily places. Dont waste my time, life is too short to read sub-par books. I also dont need blood, and gore, and unnec, graphic smut, and unnec. F bombs to find adult fiction enjoyable, but sure do love a good laugh, books that find that perfect blend between love and bedroom. I can tolerate paranormals that about time travel, people with the abilities to see ghosts, or talk to pets. Not into vampires, werewovles, demon hunters, shape shifters.

I do love craft books about quilting, scrapbooking, rubberstamps, or making atcs.

Teas I like

I do swap tea, here and on Paperbackswap.com I like red, black, white,chai and herbal teas regular or decaf I drink both.
I love spice teas, fruity teas, oolong, chocolate, I like yogi, good earth, and traditional medicinals, plus they have fun things on their tags.

I dont care for plain chamomile, mint nor green tea, but they are great in blends of other flavors. Jasmine tea is too flowerly and perfumey for me. I cant gag down the matcha or matte teas.

if you send me a tea I might not like, I will just pass it on, so dont stress about it.


kgeslab rated for CSG ~ Resurrection Day! on Apr 20, 2019
Comment: Thank you and Easter blessings to you!
Churchmouse70 rated for BL ~ Flamingo/Butterfly on Apr 20, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the beautiful flamingo ATC and I love the extra butterflies. I will definitely use them. 😜😘
kittyhahahotbot rated for A funny Easter Card on Apr 19, 2019
Comment: Ohmygosssssssssssssssh. lololol Fall off my bed laughing....................
Response: I am so glad to hear you laughed. I hope you didnt bruise anything.
angelgram rated for CC: Literary Wisdom #3 on Apr 19, 2019
Comment: Great postcard with interesting image. You picked a perfect quote. I love that book and movie. I have Kim Edwards listed on my profile for that very book. We have a Down Syndrome relative. I did not remember that quote but thank you for bringing it to my attention. I will memorize it. Always a pleasure to swap with you.
Response: Thanks for the heart. I did look at your profile, and googled quotes by that Author. I also dont remember that quote from the book, but there were many good ones to chose from. I think that is why the book was so moving.
CaseyErin rated for PW: Gratefulness Swap on Apr 19, 2019
Comment: You do have a lot to be grateful for! I liked your world perspective when you made your list. Very thoughtful swap. Thank you for sending the postcard. It’s very unique! Happy swapping to you.
Response: I had to go look at my list again, to see what I wrote. I am going to save that list. It covers it all. Thanks for the heart.
Comment: Thank you for another great study. I'll be posting the next in the series later today!
Allegrae rated for Swap swap swap it ALL on Apr 17, 2019
Comment: That was a huge envelope! Thanks for the ATCs for the swap, the jams and the ATC Bags. Mind blown!
sherylk3 rated for BL - Postcard with a Butterfly #1 on Apr 17, 2019
Comment: Beautiful postcard :)
Daithra rated for It’s Not My Birthday! on Apr 17, 2019
LauraM540 rated for Swap swap swap it ALL on Apr 15, 2019
Comment: Thanks for the great cards and fun extras!
Artistic rated for PW ~ Monday Mailer (March 2019) on Apr 15, 2019
Comment: Thank you, Heather, for a fun month of surprises, reading and mail-back postcards!
tabbycat rated for It’s Not My Birthday! on Apr 15, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the valentines card. It is so very cute!
sharmison33 rated for "A week in my life" letter swap on Apr 14, 2019
Comment: Thanks for your letter.
joybells2426 rated for Vocab from my book #2 PC swap on Apr 13, 2019
Comment: Thanks for the vocab words and the beautiful postcard!
SuZignomeMoM rated for BL ~ Notecard with a Butterfly on Apr 12, 2019
Comment: ♥ Thank you so much for the lovely note. I would to like see the desert bloom. I have seen pictures but bet up close it is so much better. Thanks for the extras.
Kathy821 rated for Keep One, Send One PC Swap #6 on Apr 11, 2019
Comment: You're the best. Thank you for the extra card and your sunflower is on it's way!
Comment: Thank you Heather! Hope u enjoy your trip to yucca valley. ❤️
aero rated for BL ~ Notecard with a Butterfly on Apr 11, 2019
Comment: Thank you for the Beautiful Butterfly card 🌹Have a Blessed and Beautiful spring 🌼🌸🌻
msrhetta rated for AAA: Coins Sender's Choice on Apr 9, 2019
Comment: cute
Nnyla rated for CC: Literary Wisdom #2 on Apr 8, 2019
Comment: Thanks for the bookish wisdom and for joining the swap!

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kittyhahahotbot on Apr 21, 2019:

Tigerlilyknotwise on Apr 18, 2019:


Gracias para los siete imagenes estampadas!

MarHelene on Apr 18, 2019:

I loved your letter! Iwould not last long in AZ!

(surprise penpal extra)

Michelle0329 on Apr 15, 2019:

Received my completed JAMS today!! Loved how they turned out. Thank you!!

joybells2426 on Apr 15, 2019:

Today while reading my book I came across one of the words that you sent me for the vocab from my book swap! Totally knew what it meant thanks to you! Lol! It was ordure.

MSturgill87 on Apr 11, 2019:

Thank you for joining Card Craze! Please be on the lookout for an upcoming PM with directions on how to complete your membership to the group.

Lonestarchild on Apr 8, 2019:

Thank you for the super fun EIGHT birthday treats and PC for AWG April. Made me feel like a little kid again! Thank you!

yvonne401 on Apr 5, 2019:

Thank you for my AWG March wish of a birthday surprise. I loved the beautiful card and the butterflies.



Lonestarchild on Mar 25, 2019:

Thank you for the second AWG PC -- what a lovely thing to hear when the other person doesn't know you can hear!

Artistic on Mar 24, 2019:

MM Week 1: Congrats to DH on the one-year mark! I, too, tried Blue Apron. Have a freezer full of stuff I never made. What a great hack to reuse K-Cup containers as seed starters.

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