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Date Joined: August 31, 2013
Last Online: January 21, 2024
Birthday: February 20, 1989
Country: United States
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About Me

Pokemon GO Trainer Code: 6707 6761 5045

Update - 17 Mar 2023 - I have recently heard from partners that the post office machines seem to have been taking bites out of the long sides of envelopes and postcards. I apologize for this, but I can't force the post office to fix it. But I often take photos of what I send, so I can usually tell you what it said. I also recently revamped my profile to make it sleeker.

Update - 22 August 2020: Though this year has been weird, I'm proud of where I've come from. I made some amends on here, and I promise not to make the same mistakes.

Ratings Update - 3 June 2019: I don't frequent the site as often as I did in the past. I still love sending and receiving happy mail! The reasons for my 1 and 3 are because of mental health problems that I was having in addition to the holidays and overestimating how much I could swap. I won't make that mistake again, and I choose more carefully what I can commit to doing. I took about a year off from swapping before forgiving myself enough to try to swap again. Please forgive my past mistakes and trust that I will deliver something awesome to your mailbox!

  • I'm Jess (they/them). I'm 34, nonbinary, bisexual, autistic, disabled, happily married, childfree by choice, d&d obsessed, and lover of all things that come through the mail. I started graduate school in January of 2023, and I'm loving it. I'm also a born and raised Floridian, but it's getting harder to stay here with all the book bans and restrictions being implemented especially as someone studying library and information sciences.

  • My favorite color switches between purple and yellow. I especially like when the two colors are together. Pink, purple, and blue together are a good combo. I like things with lots of colors, and I shy away from neutrals, but they can really make other colors pop.

  • I have 2 cats named Melody and Willy. We named Melody after a Doctor Who character; it was the name that fit her. On that note, my favorites are the Tenth Doctor and Rose. Willy was named by my brother and they moved in together in 2015. When he moved out, Willy stayed with us. But my brother just moved in again in 2023.

  • In July of 2020, I started cross-stitching, and I love it! And I started doing an embroidery journal in 2023!

  • I have a soft spot for rubber duckies, dragons, unicorns, mermaids, and pretty d20s.

Favorite Books

Favorite authors are Jane Austen, Isaac Marion, John Green, Joe Hill, and Gillian Flynn.

I read a few comic books. Some of my favorites are: Chew, The Boys, Rat Queens, Locke & Key, and Invincible.

Favorite Television

First off, I watch way too much television for my own good. These are a few of my favorites. The list keeps growing.

LOKI, Doctor Who, Supernatural, Psych, Star Trek of all varieties, FaceOff, Futurama, Phineas & Ferb, GHOSTS (UK), My Cat From Hell, Criminal Minds, Catfish, BuzzFeed Unsolved, Ghost Files, What We Do In The Shadows, The Last of Us, and Critical Role.


Fall and winter holidays are tend to be my favorite. And please excuse the random ordering of these holidays.

  • Halloween - I throw an annual Halloween costume party (except '20&'21 because of COVID). I like anything related to Halloween, scary/creepy/cute/tacky it doesn't matter. I love it all. I also like campy slasher films. *Yule/Xmas - Even though I dislike it's association with religions, I like the giving spirit it brings. To me, it's kindness to others, sharing with others what they can't give themselves, and simply reminding people to think about others in the coming year. Snowmen and glittery Xmas/Yule cards are my favorite!
  • Valentine's Day - I like all the pink and red. It's fun to reflect on love and all that it can do. It's similar to Xmas because this one is also about about sharing love and kindness.
  • Mabon - I like to celebrate with a big feast made from seasonally appropriate foods.
  • Imbolc - I try to make candles each year but I'm good at it.


I love tabletop games. A few of my favorites are Tsuro, Dixit, Lords of Waterdeep, Betrayal at the House on the Hill, and Dungeons & Dragons.

I am a Dungeon Master for a game that meets 2-3 times a month, and I play a Kobold Rogue in a monthly game that my husband DMs and a Dwarf Barbarian in a different bimonthly game he DMs. In the past, I have played a dumb elf wizard who didn't understand spell slots, a careless halfling bard, and a smuggler ghostwise-halfling swashbuckler rogue.

Swap Hopes/Wishes

I like mermaids, rubber duckies, and dice. I am also interested in postcards that could be considered scandalous/risque/vulgar!

I would be totally shocked and overly excited if you included a unique rubber duckie with whatever you send me (I know that's asking a lot because they'd have to be in a box).

I am obsessed with pretty dice. I am a dice hoarder. I like the shiny, math rocks. I would love if you sent me a pretty d20, but like with the rubber ducks, I know it's a lot to ask because they are not flat.



  • Twilight

  • Spongebob Squarepants

  • Tinkerbell

  • butterflies

  • Bugs of any sort, except if they're cutesy for Halloween where they don't give an ick vibe

  • Oreos

  • Mango

  • Evangelicals

  • When soft cookies get hard

  • Small scraps of paper (I don't have a use for them)

  • Receiving tea (I don't drink it often)

  • I'm often slow to respond to penpals

Please respect me by not pushing your religious beliefs on me. I'm not monotheistic, so I'd prefer not to receive anything, unless it is Pagan, Celtic, Wiccan, Satanic Temple-related, or Atheist/Agnostic.

DO NOT SEND BIBLE PAGES, BIBLE QUOTES/SAYINGS, OR ANYTHING RELATED TO IT! I thought the paragraph above would suffice, but some of y'all think you can convert me. No, you can't. Religious trauma burned that bridge and the whole town with it. Please just stop.

Other than that, if it's not my taste, I will happily send it on to another swapper.


suepier rated for Quick Tourist Postcard #1 on Jun 25, 2023
Comment: Thank you for the great postcard from Daytona Beach.
sgjolinar rated for BS&S ~ March 2023 stocking stuffer on Mar 28, 2023
Comment: I love the little extras and I'm surely waiting for yule to open the main gift!! Blessed Be!! ā¤ļø Update: omg!! That is great. A wand!! I just love it!! Merry Yule!!
Comment: Thank you for you postcard Jess.
Comment: TYVM Jess for the awesome Dinosaur World PC. I love it! And, TYVM for your answer about what you should read. I know all about Autism. One of my grandchildren has it. šŸ™
Kairbear rated for SCATTS - M - ROUND 11 - US ONLY on Mar 20, 2023
Comment: Thank you for the great London card and your answers!
laura99 rated for Quick Tourist Postcard #1 on Mar 17, 2023
Comment: Hello!! Thank you so much for the postcard, I liked it very much <3
bblue rated for Quick Tourist Postcard #1 on Mar 17, 2023
Comment: Thanks for the card! Our beach season is much shorter here.
pbcquiltlover rated for Speen Pen Palling round 2 on Mar 15, 2023
Comment: Awesome letter, and yes, I can read cursive! I'd love to continue to write. <3 Thank you - love the kitty stationery, too!
alihagerart rated for Everybody has 6 names pc swap on Mar 13, 2023
Comment: These were great ;P Def change your name to Black Willy ;)
Comment: Thank you for the cute 'nana' pc and sharing about your grandparents. Grandparents are very special!
Response: I agree. I was so excited when I found that postcard because of your username and the topic of the swap!
AuntieBlythe rated for Postcards for Grief on Dec 24, 2022
Ariaya rated for BS&S: Mabon Greetings 2022 on Sep 25, 2022
Comment: Thanks so much for the card and the poem!
Response: This is very delayed, but I'm glad you liked it.
marclively rated for GEEK of the Week PC Swap #131 on Sep 16, 2022
Comment: great card!
NRGordon rated for GEEK of the Week PC Swap #135 on Sep 8, 2022
Comment: Thanks for the swap and the lovely PC. My first choice was Mos Eisley. No Cloud City for me. Iā€™m scared of heights.
suepier rated for Quote PC Swap #53 on Sep 3, 2022
Comment: Thank you for the nice postcard and the really great quote.
PrairieKittin rated for BS&S ~ Tools and Toys pictures on Jul 26, 2022
Comment: Those wands are gorgeous!! And that pendulum is fabulous. Thank you so much for sharing!
DreamCloud rated for BS&S ~ Tools and Toys pictures on Jul 24, 2022
Comment: Jessica I love the simple clean design that you have chosen. Your handmade things are gorgeous! Thank you so much for sharing šŸ’–
Pei04 rated for Catra's 15 Questions Swap #3 on Jul 24, 2022
Comment: Thanks for sharing your answers. It was nice getting to know you a bit more.
Mishi48 rated for BS&S ~ Tools and Toys pictures on Jul 24, 2022
DollyDotBoo rated for Catra's 15 Questions Swap #3 on Jul 23, 2022
Comment: thank you

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chimerix on Aug 22, 2022:

Thank you so much for the Cheshire Cat ATC. I love it! It is going straight into my Alice in Wonderland collection. A big Aloha!

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lunatenchi on Aug 22, 2022:

Thank you so so much for this cute cow ATC! it is so cute!! i love it :3 and the card it came it; LOVE! i totally gotta get me some of these to send out lol and i would love to be pen pals :D so keep an eye out :P

AJ73 on Aug 20, 2022:

Thank you Jess for thinking about me and for sending the ATC CARDS. Both of them are very nice. Hugs, AJ73

bluecrayons on Nov 28, 2021:

i received your card, thank you.

happy thanksgiving and merry christmas,.

Elliepatterson on Feb 14, 2015:


Elliepatterson on Dec 24, 2014:


A Very Merry Christmas to you!!!

Milokissyfur on Dec 14, 2014:

I got your letter!!! :D So nice to hear from you, I will be replying soon

pne on Oct 9, 2014:

Thank you for helping my travelling postcard from round 19 get back to me!

Candyn29 on Oct 5, 2014:


widelo123 on Sep 8, 2014:

$1 Store WTA August. Jessica, thank you so much for the papers and envelopes. Shirley

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