Swap-bot Time: October 21, 2017 11:20 pm


Date Joined: May 20, 2013
Last Online: October 21, 2017
Birthday: April 13
Country: United Kingdom

About Me

  • PLEASE* don't send me anything Halloween - it's a big trigger of mine, thank you.

I live in the UK near London....Im happy to do private swaps, just let me know, also I'm just getting back into having penfriends again!

**I'm very reliable and really want my swap partners to be happy :) please always contact me if there's a problem before giving me a bad rating! **

I've had a rough Spring/Summer this year as my allergies have become extreme and I'm decluttering as one of my severe allergies is to dust - I guess this means I now prefer to receive useful items rather than just decorative, though if you have something which fits my likes which wouldn't collect too much dust then we can risk it! ;-) I'm also VERY allergic to pollen so if you can keep pollen off the inside of your package as far as possible I will be very grateful!

Swapping is my way of travelling without the travelling! I travelled a lot when I was younger, but with a mortgage and job now it's got a lot harder so swapping fills the gap! I LOVE swapbot and enjoy finding and sending things to fit my partners profiles to try and make them smile as much as I love getting packages in the mail myself! Originally I studied languages alors je parle francais und ich spreche Deutsch. In fact I'm a big fan of Germany and most things German....

I love different languages and cultures, please do tell me something about you and where you live if you have the time. I also love trying foods from different countries. Wenn Du Deutsch bist, dann schreib mir bitte auf Deutsch :)

I have 3 amazing sons and am loving watching them make their way in the world now they are grown. I'm so proud of them! I don't feel much older than them most of the time until I need to keep up with them!

I love nice mail, sunny days, lilies, the sea, my amazing children, honeysuckle, champagne, guinea pigs, rabbits, very very soft things, my iPad, time with friends, meeting interesting people, laughing,good wine, orange blossom, sunflowers, my garden, growing things, the sound of rain on the roof...

My latest love is geocaching! I'm so glad I've found it and I'm loving the beautiful and interesting ( and challenging!) places it takes me to! Trackables are also another way of travelling without leaving home! ;-)

I've also just discovered painted stones! (love on the rocks - facebook)

I work in the mental health field, love my job, but it's exhausting at times.I mostly work in a boarding school now which means more hours but longer holidays!

I enjoy cooking and baking so if you would like to send me a recipe typical of your country or which you love, please do - I cook from scratch though, so no recipes using cake mixes etc or canned fillings etc thanks, and I prefer not to have standard recipes out of magazines or recipe cards - I want a recipe that means something to you please and which you've used, preferably often!

I love old (pre 1965) magazines, I also love very old greetings cards (before 1950) The older the better and I love reading very old letters and postcards (pre 1950) and imagining the lives of the people who wrote them! My current favourite is a postcard I found in a charity shop to a girl at boarding school from her rather posh mum who had just visited an exhibition of "modern art" in London and is rather shocked! I'm happy to get interesting finds of yours as well.

Although I've dabbled with crafts, I'm definitely not a crafter, and I'm absolutely no good at papercrafts so prefer not to get items aimed at these, but am very happy to get things you have made!

I crochet so nice yarn is definitely on my wishlist these days :) oh and your granny squares! How cool it would be to make a blanket out of granny squares from around the world! Also very happy to get your amigurumi - I've made one and found it a challenge!!

I paint and have got a couple of canvases on my walls which I painted myself and a few more on the go - like my crochet, there are plenty of WIPs!

Some things I like.... (Not in any order!) - Emma Bridgewater!!! (Actually this does come near the top!) I just had a factory tour and have gone from being a sceptic about something so expensive to a complete convert! I was so impressed that everything at every stage is done by hand! No wonder it's expensive!!

  • I ADORE candle holders that look like a typical house or building of your country
    • i love all things icebat/ugly dolls.
  • ** I love very very soft things**
  • vintage magazines from 1950 and earlier, really old photo's of people (1920's and earlier) especially women or old people or people working.
  • beautiful or wide washi tape
  • wide deco tape/wide, pretty packaging tape ( not narrow thanks, I have a lot!)
  • German Krimis - my latest favourite author is Andreas Foehr :) please see below for what I already have before sending! :) _ Any award winning young adult fiction by a German author, ( in German please)
  • cute rabbit items including Miffy and I would particularly love a metal Miffy cookie cutter!! ( some lovely swapbot member already sent me a plastic one!)
  • traditional crafts though I don't really like batik items
  • wool/yarn for crocheting, big crochet hooks, yarn needle etc And maybe even needles to knit socks (ssshhh knitting is going to the dark side!!) My favourite hooks at the moment are the Clover Amour ones. Colours I love are below and I love colour change yarns though don't like garish or neon colours.
  • unicorn, moose, beavers, Delft blue cows,
  • nice pens and craft pens and fluffy or light up pens
  • I like most colours (except burgundy which i hate and neon which I'm not a fan of!) but don't wear yellow, cream, red, orange,green or brown, i prefer cool tones - blues, black, light grey or charcoal, magenta pink, very pale pink, white etc...I also like rainbow colours and stripes. the colours I'm not keen on are OK in mixed patterns or stripes on socks etc!
  • cotton or wool or bamboo or fluffy socks - my absolute favourites are handknitted wool or bamboo and bright unusual cool patterns same as above for colours! Size 38.5. Not neon or black with a bright colour please! I don't wear short trainer socks thanks. Love spotty and wide-striped socks ;-) I also love Cutie Mania fluffy socks! :)
  • Starbucks flavoured instant coffees (we only have the basic coffee here here), city mug etc. I'm not a big fan so far of any other flavoured coffee sachets I've ever tried! Love Starbucks Pumpkin Latte, HATE the white chocolate mocha! ;-) i very rarely drink coffee so prefer not to receive anything but the Starbucks flavoured sachets please
  • Cute nici plush or jellycat :)
  • handmade things - if you have put love into what you do, I will never think store bought is better!
  • Very strange flavour Japanese kitkats. The stranger the better! Or the black for grown ups ones or the rum and raisin ones (not a flavour I much like usually but love the Japanese kitkat version of it!) normal flavours I can buy here :)
  • Polish Knorr cheese cup a soup ( not the one with mushrooms thanks and btw I hate borscht! Lol)
  • Bumble bees (not cartoon bees and no sheets of bee stickers for now please)
  • cool and useful items
  • cherry blossom flavour green tea
  • really nice loose green tea (especially gyokuro) - please not flavoured unless with jasmine or something similar. I really am not keen on green tea with fruit flavours thanks!
  • chilli tea! ( love!) i adore Nordqvist Hola Chilli tea
  • cardamom flavours in tea ( or chai!)
  • Stash vanilla nut creme decaf tea :)
  • Stash Vanilla Nut Creme loose tea
  • Bigelow's salted caramel tea
  • Bigelow's decaffeinated spiced chai
  • chilli or salt chocolate (Prefer not Lindt or Thorntons chilli but love Fazer chilli chocolate)
  • Tony's Chocolonely LOVE
  • mini Timtams!!!!
  • Sarotti chocolate
  • Hachez Mango-Chilli chocolate
  • Alnatura Winter Schokolade
  • Marabou chocolate
  • Cรดte D'Or chocolate especially Citron Gingembre ( lemon/ginger)
  • Heilemann Chili Edelbitter-Chocolade
  • ghirardellis tree bark chocolate
  • stovers handmade chocolates
  • sees Candy (chocolates)
  • Nestle Turtles (my new love!!!)
  • OMG s
  • Reeses mix (LOVE!) the other Reeses stuff I can now buy here
  • damak pistachio chocolate
  • webury or pejoy sticks, Alfort Black bourbon, Morinaga Bake
  • Maple syrup and salt milk chocolate
  • equal exchange organic chocolate ( love the caramel crunch with seasalt)
  • Seattle Chocolates
  • Morrisons Sea salted Almond and Hazelnut milk chocolate
  • Plopp salted licorice filled chocolate
  • chocolate with interesting filings
  • ginger flavour
  • Annie's bunny Graham's ( or any bunny biscuits really!)
  • Graham crackers, S'mores packs
  • Ballerina "Kladkakka" double chocolate
  • Pigalle!!!!
  • food typical of your country - I'm happy to try most things and love all kinds of savoury flavours for snacks (but see below... Please not candy and I prefer not packages of dried soup you make in the pan or protein/fruit bars!) I love cheese, garlic, black pepper, chilli, salt/sweet together, unusual foods and flavours..... But I like lots of savoury flavours so try me!
  • beautiful hand made items
  • Scandinavian typical items and style
  • four o clocks seeds - LOVE. These but for some reason can't buy them here ( though the batch I planted last year didn't grow, and this year's aren't doing great, so they might not predictably grow in the uk climate, however I've had great ones for 2 years before that!)
  • things to decorate my garden :) or solar lights ( LOVE)
  • things with orange blossom or almond (especially orange blossom!!)
  • personalised swap cards or labels
  • bulbs for my garden or seeds for unusual vegetables or flowers or sunflower seeds - I've planted a whole bed of sunflowers this year but I had to work very hard to keep the birds and slugs away! I usually end up with about 15 sunflowers out of 3 or 4 packs of seed which is REALLY frustrating!!
  • I dug half of my garden for fruit and veg, happy to get anything you think I can use, though not gardening gloves thanks as I have some fantastic leather ones! :) also recipes you have used for interesting jams (US jellies) or chutneys, cordials etc.
  • chilli related items
  • fair trade, recycled, upcycled, organic
  • did I mention I love handmade things??!
  • old skeleton keys
  • old ( really old, pre 1930!) black and white photos of people, particularly women and old people
  • blu ray (or DVD) for European viewing of German or French language movies or detective series ( not those released in UK/us in English)
  • makes I love are Agnes B, soap and glory, burts bees, Pylones, Jelly Cat, Nici ....
  • unusual colour eyeliner soft pencils
  • sunflowers, dragonflies, butterflies
  • pure silver items ( second hand/ used is fine )

** German Krimis I don't have yet**

  • ich liebe Nele Neuhaus aber habe alles schon ausser "Die Lebenden und die Toten" gelesen.
    • Ich liebe Andreas Foehr und habe "Der Prinzessinnenmoerder", "Karwoche" und "Schafkopf" gelesen
    • Anything by Andreas Franz but not Moerderische Tage which I already have
    • Anything by Sebastian Fitzek (but not Der Augensammler, Der Seelenbrecher or "Die Therapie") I enjoyed Der Augensammler but not so much Die Therapie though I guessed the twist early on!
    • Something by Jan Costin Wagner (Not Im Winter der Loewen)
    • I already read Petra Hammesfahr "Der Puppengraeber", "Das Geheimnis Der Puppe" and "der engel mit den schwarzen flรผgeln" but no others yet... I really didn't enjoy "Kroeten Wanderung" so not keen to read any more of Rainer Wuerth's books thanks.

Or introduce me to another German Krimi writer I don't know yet!

  • And an "I prefer not to get" and a "please don't send me!" List...

Please don't send me

  • ANY candy except chocolate, I REALLY don't like it - please don't be tempted to try and convert me!
  • any cured meat products as I'm allergic to some preservatives
  • facial products as I have allergies!
  • I REALLY. Don't like cats on ANYTHING!
  • Anything religious, horror related, skull or halloween
  • images of goat heads or anything with horns (deer and antlers are fine!!)
  • postcards without anything else for an item swap
  • ephemera type paper items (except really old - pre 1950 ones)..... I have no use for them and there's no point you paying for postage for them to end up in my bin!
  • coins, postage stamps, bits of paper etc
  • pencils .... I just have no use for them.
  • Disney stuff, I'm not a Disney fan
  • Hello Kitty stuff
  • earrings other than silver or stainless steel due to allergies
  • anything gold coloured
  • I'm really sensitive to smells and find a lot of strong cheap scents give me a headache ( no clue why!) so prefer not to have cheap body lotions etc or perfumes or strong smelling cheap scented candles. I'd rather have less of something nice quality :) I don't like orange smelling things.
  • paper napkins - the earth will not last long enough for me to use all the paper napkins I have been sent so far! ;-)
  • phonecharms as I have no use for them
  • cupcake or candy design items - not a fan!
  • I seem to have received an awful lot of rose scented things recently so prefer not rose scent for now please :)
  • I'm also not a big fan of berry type scents

  • I would prefer it if you didn't send me

  • magnets and keyrings unless they're really very special as I have a lot...

  • an item swap containing only paper items like memo sheets and envelopes
  • papercraft stuff - I've never been able to get into papercrafts

Thank you :)

Finally, and I've never really seen the point of this before, but I'm tired of scrolling through old messages to see who still hasn't sent things they owe me, these are swappers from whom I've been waiting a considerable time for something :

  • crochetjunkie for a tiaz forum tag in May 2014
  • ingleside for a tiaz forum tag May 2014


Comment: Thanks for the gifts, I hope I can keep them wrapped till Christmas!
Response: haha you need to! ;-)
Tessssssa rated for 6 gifts 1 theme - #201 - Socks on Oct 18, 2017
Comment: Thanks for the socks, I hope I can keep them wrapped but I'm curious about the colors!
Response: LOL!!
Comment: Thanks for the big box! The bag is gorgeous! I mean.. gorjuss!
Response: ;-) Hope you enjoy using it!
Comment: Thank you so much for the cool postcards and the other things! Send me a message if you would like to be penpals!
Response: Glad you liked them :)
Conniegirl rated for Adventskalender on Oct 16, 2017
Comment: I got the parcel today, thank you so much! I am having a hard time to not open them now! <3
Response: oooh I'm happy it arrived!!! I hope you will enjoy opening them (but not yet! LOL!)
Comment: Thank you for the nice card and all goodies!!!
Response: I'm happy you liked it :)
Comment: Hello from across the pond! That is so neat that your son lives and works here. We don't have TV so I haven't seen him but the program, 'Marketplace' is very well watched! I enjoyed reading your letter and loved the note card you chose to send me as well as the teas! Thank you. I'll be sending you a little notecard soon.โ™ฅ
Response: Thank you for your nice message :)
Comment: I enjoyed your note and love the stationery you included. Thank you! Oh, and the envie is beautiful!! ๐Ÿ˜Š๐Ÿ’Œ
Response: :)
Comment: thank you so much, Gill. will put it in my stockingfiller , the stamps of the royal family outside of the package are wonderful
Response: I'm so glad you like them and hope you will love the items I've sent you :)
lynndespin rated for Swapping Animals! INTL #2 on Oct 5, 2017
Comment: Thank you so much for your lovely christmas tree dog. I loved it. Lynn
Response: So happy you liked it :)
Comment: Thank you!
Response: <3
bluesky rated for A Gift A Month October on Oct 3, 2017
Comment: thanks
Response: I hope you enjoyed it :)
Comment: thank you so much, gill. love the manekineko stickers
Tatsu rated for IPS - Shop Local Goodies #2 on Sep 29, 2017
Comment: Thank you so much for making such an effort in getting things I'd like. The kitty keychain is my favorite and the chocolate bar looks scrumptious.
Response: Oh I'm so happy you like it all! :) And that it arrived safely in Peru!! :) I've actually now tried the chocolate made by that company as I found some half price and it's the most amazing chocolate I've tasted I think! I haven't yet tried the flavour I sent you as it wasn't in the sale but my favourite is the seasalt so far! <3 Enjoy!!
Lexidh rated for 6 gifts 1 theme - #183 - Socks on Sep 25, 2017
Comment: My favorite! =) Can hardly wait!
Response: I'm glad they arrived safely! :)
Lexidh rated for 6 gifts 1 theme - #175 - Hand made on Sep 25, 2017
Comment: Looking very much forward to opening these!
Response: glad they arrived!
jenthewen rated for ***UK only*** FUN POST BOX SWAP on Sep 22, 2017
Comment: Thanks for everything
Response: I thought you would love the lovely bath things in particular - hope they arrived safely!
user2148 rated for penpals for life on Sep 19, 2017
Comment: Thank you for the lovely letter and all the goodies you enclosed! Bees!! ๐Ÿ I will write back soon! โค๏ธ๐Ÿ˜
Response: :)
dreamlady66 rated for A Gift A Month September on Sep 6, 2017
Comment: Ty for the cool magnet, special stamps & card! :)
Response: Happy you liked it :)
Comment: Gill, thank you so much for the Sherlock tote bag!!! I love it! <3 You had not sent me something like this before. I have seen all Sherlock episodes and I have to agree with you. The older episodes were better. Enjoy your time with your son! I hope the pollens are gone there already! I got married this summer so yeay, my summer is amazing so far! :D Thanks again Gill!
Response: Congratulations!!! :) Happy you like it! :)

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Soph on Jun 22, 2017:

Postcard roulette swap intl #4 - unassigned partner

What a lovely surprise! Thank you for the beautiful postcard, the variety of commemorative stamps and your kind note. It was a pleasure to hear from you.

susieq11 on Oct 16, 2016:

Stopping by to say "HI!" : )

phillaine on May 25, 2016:

This pile of pandas and I welcome you to a whole new year of Profile-Based Swaps! :)

NancyKz on Nov 20, 2015:

Geocaching! Yay! I'm excited to blend my love of swaps with my love of caching and am psyched people have found and joined the swap :)

slewis234 on May 16, 2015:

Thank you again for sharing such lovely goodies with me for the vintage scavenger hunt swap. Especially the doily. It means a lot to me that it was your grandmothers. That makes it very special indeed. My granny was very important in my life and I cherish the things I have that belonged to her and I will cherish this gift from you. I'd love to do a private swap with you sometime if you would like to do that. Thanks honey!

pobuffy on Apr 7, 2015:

Wanted to wish you a Happy Birthday on the 13th! We swapped in Sock Swap last fall. Have a great year! pobuffy

sassafrass on Mar 16, 2015:

Welcome to International Small Swaps! Glad to have you :) I hope you will enjoy the group!

missstamper on Jul 7, 2014:

Thank you for the lovely UK baggie (Theme in a Ziplock You Choose Tag). I will enjoy sharing the goodies with pre-teen daughter!

anicka22 on Nov 8, 2013:

Thank you very much for the presents for the tag at the advent group. Hope I Will be strong enough wait...

tumbochka on Jul 17, 2013:

Gill, thank you so much for the awesome package!:D It's always a pleasure to receive your packages!<3

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